living a new life sucks

[Kerouactivist]

Thanks for all the help peeps....


Why are women so evil?

 

[Nefrodite]

thank your lucky stars you didn't marry her i guess.

 

[psianime]

Your life will resume. Just go out with some of your buddies and pick up some girls =)

Just remember not to do foolish stuff like doing things to get back at her.

 

[Roddy]

Sorry to hear about your situation mate..

Hope all goes well in recovering from such a long relationship - and make sure you don't get yourself too down about it.

Cheers!

-Rod

 

[Kerouactivist]

I'm having a bad moment.........

 

[ThunderGirl]

Hey it could be worse. My husband and I have been married for like 4 1/2 years have 3 kids and another on the way and he just up and left us a month ago and says he wants a divorce. ( and I thought we were going to finally make progress on our problems as we were just starting counseling)

He basically won't even talk to me or keep any option of working on our marriage open.

Doesn't even seem to care how much our girls miss him. And has now convienced himself he married me for the wrong reasons and never loved me which is total BS just makes him feel less guilty about just bailing out on his family.

I am sure it hurts I have no answers on how to help. I miss my husband so much just his voice and his eyes and as pathetic as it sounds I can't even sleep at night w/o wearing one of his shirts or just using one as a blanket. I know I am just a big baby girl. I am sure you will all mock me.

If you find anything besides drinking that helps let me know. If you need to vent I am here just PM me.

:frown:

 

[Kerouactivist]

I know the feeling...... oh too well

 

[Kerouactivist]

Just thought I would update by saying I'm going on a date with an ex-high school girlfriend on thursday, (can you say sexual relief).....

 

[amnesiac]

Originally posted by: bthorny
Just thought I would update by saying I'm going on a date with an ex-high school girlfriend on thursday, (can you say sexual relief).....

Nice. Just don't kid yourself about any relationships in the near future. On average it takes about 1/2 the length of a relationship to "get over" it.. seems especially true with long term ones. YMMV, however. I know people who were "over" their exes within a month after dating for a couple years.. It took me about a year and change to finally accept that my last long-term g/f of 3 years wouldn't come back to me.

Originally posted by: hamburglar
That really sucks man. You'll probably get back together right? Assumign that's what most couples do when they've been together so long.

Somebody's never had a LTR.

 

[tallest1]

Theres one friend of mine here in college who was deeply religious and VERY far from being a hot pick to the ladies. Somehow a fellow-religious girl found liking to him and they dated 4 of his 5 years in college. They got engaged and everything but once he graduated, she broke the whole thing up. She returned the ring and made an excuse like "We weren't making God #1 in our lives". Bull, they were the most religious couple I had seen EVAR. Both of the two have weblogs and while the girl is seeing the world and being a ditzy 'who should I help today?' kinda girl, my dear friend who got dumped is in deep depression (and STILL religious!) and having trouble finding a job. If I ever see that girl again, I'd raise hell with her 'cause she ruined my good friend's life.

Some women are horrible like that :disgust:

 

[Orsorum]

Originally posted by: bthorny
Thanks for all the help peeps....


Why are women so evil?

Women are more fun when they're bad.

Sometimes, you just get stuck with a bad apple. Same thing happens to girls with guys.

 

[Orsorum]

Originally posted by: tallest1
Theres one friend of mine here in college who was deeply religious and VERY far from being a hot pick to the ladies. Somehow a fellow-religious girl found liking to him and they dated 4 of his 5 years in college. They got engaged and everything but once he graduated, she broke the whole thing up. She returned the ring and made an excuse like "We weren't making God #1 in our lives". Bull, they were the most religious couple I had seen EVAR. Both of the two have weblogs and while the girl is seeing the world and being a ditzy 'who should I help today?' kinda girl, my dear friend who got dumped is in deep depression (and STILL religious!) and having trouble finding a job. If I ever see that girl again, I'd raise hell with her 'cause she ruined my good friend's life.

Some women are horrible like that :disgust:

Sounds like she had major issues. Dated a girl like that once... glad I broke up with her.

 

[Kerouactivist]

I dated a really religous girl once in high school it is a bad idea they are freaks, me and her went swiming all the time, when we did smoetimes we would bring along her little sister(I think it was her parents Idea). Anyway anytime I said a "naughty word" like crap her little sister would always say "say sorry god sorry jesus, say it" and would repeat that over and over again until I said it which I would to avoid making a scene, man that whole family had issues, I bet her little sister is in threpy now after the whole debacle.