Originally posted by: mpitts
I did it twice.
The first time I was engaged to the girl. It didn't work out and the seperation really wasn't that bad.
The second time, my wife and I got married and still are.
I can tell you this, I would NEVER marry a woman without living with her first. If I would have waited to get married before I lived with the first girl, we would have definitely gotten divorced.
I agree. I think that living with a woman (or a man if you're a woman... or, well... let's not go there... ) is VERY crucial to the success of a marriage. You find out exactly how they work and find interesting little quirks about the person that you would probably not otherwise know. I lived with my girlfriend, then fiance, now wife for two years before we got married. The first year we had two other roommates, then we rented a house by ourselves for a year. It was a wonderful experience, and I would recommend it to anyone who is seriously thinking about getting married. HIGHLY RECOMMENDED!!!