yhelothar
Lifer
- Dec 11, 2002
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I LIEK MILK :biggrin:
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/hitoshimilk
OkCupid is a worthless, soul-crushing website (for men, anyway; the massive male/female imbalance probably makes it awesome for women).
I had a profile on there for ~5 years before I realized I would probably never get any dates out of it. Sending hundreds of different messages into empty space with no response wasn't fun. I even paid for like a year-long premium subscription at some point, thinking it would help. Ugh. The Match.com merger didn't do it any favors either. I'm a happier person for having finally deleted my profile.
That's probably because:
1) You're not attractive
2) You live in the middle of no where, ie not many people to pick from anyway
If 1) and 2) are true, then yeah I can see how you'd go 5 years and have a terrible time. If you are a good looking dude living in NYC or something... It's easy pickings.
I had an OKC for 8 months. Had at least 15 dates, and found my current g/f from there.
I don't have one, just scrollin
That's probably because:
1) You're not attractive
2) You live in the middle of no where, ie not many people to pick from anyway
If 1) and 2) are true, then yeah I can see how you'd go 5 years and have a terrible time. If you are a good looking dude living in NYC or something... It's easy pickings.
I had an OKC for 8 months. Had at least 15 dates, and found my current g/f from there.
Let's see your studly profile.
3) Not white
3) Not white
Lol so now you're blaming racism?
Why do you think online is a wasteland, when it's just streamlining real life interactions? When you meet a person in person... They do the same shit they do when they look at your profile. They instantly judge your looks. If you're ugly/fat/unkept in person... Then you're going to be glossed over online, too.
If you're a little Debbie downer on top of all of that, yeah you're going to strike out. Plus if you live in a less populated area, there's even less of a chance of getting dates online.
Think logically first before you go complaining. Being non-white has little to do with it.
Those same women, will also not date him IRL, which makes the race issue moot.
He also sounds like a downer and that's probably expressed in his interactions with women. "Worthless, soul-crushing website." Dramatic much?
That's probably because:
1) You're not attractive
2) You live in the middle of no where, ie not many people to pick from anyway
If 1) and 2) are true, then yeah I can see how you'd go 5 years and have a terrible time. If you are a good looking dude living in NYC or something... It's easy pickings.
I had an OKC for 8 months. Had at least 15 dates, and found my current g/f from there.
I live in the Salt Lake City area, so you'd think it wouldn't be that hard. I'm guessing it's the first one then. I'm probably not very attractive.
Never. I usually write a few (positive) lines introducing myself, explaining why I think they're interesting/worth messaging
....That's my point. Race shouldn't affect anything because the women who only date whites online, will only date whites "in person". Thus, why him saying being non white would affect the outcome of online dating potential isn't really true. It would be lower regardless.
That's probably because:
1) You're not attractive
2) You live in the middle of no where, ie not many people to pick from anyway
3) Not white
Your response was to:
None of those reasons are online-specific, but you jumped on the "not white" one.
This is a lie. Most profiles are blocked to people without an account, like on Facebook.
Post. Your. Profile.
That's probably because:
1) You're not attractive
2) You live in the middle of no where, ie not many people to pick from anyway
If 1) and 2) are true, then yeah I can see how you'd go 5 years and have a terrible time. If you are a good looking dude living in NYC or something... It's easy pickings.
I had an OKC for 8 months. Had at least 15 dates, and found my current g/f from there.
Profile was created for the purpose of scrollin. I don't have anything in the profile and I intend to keep it that way.
There you have it fellas, expert advice from a guy that got a girlfriend at OKcupid.
:biggrin::biggrin::biggrin:
I don't get it... is there a joke I'm missing, or are you one of those people who thinks how people meet has any bearing on the quality of the relationship?
He's super old fashioned. He's only ever dated one girl but thinks he's an expert on relationships.