Looking to find if two people really were ever at Yale

Ime

Diamond Member
May 3, 2001
3,661
0
76
Hey guys. I am trying to verify as to whether two people ever attended Yale to study and or research. They claimed to be there for 6 months out of last year. This isn't for employment, it's something they told me and I want to personally verify. There's obviously more to the story than that, but I won't bore you all with details.

If I call Yale in the morning and ask them, do you guys think they will be willing to tell me if they were ever there? I'm not looking for personal info, just if they were ever really there.
 

Perknose

Forum Director & Omnipotent Overlord
Forum Director
Oct 9, 1999
46,282
9,365
146
Originally posted by: Ime
Hey guys. I am trying to verify as to whether two people ever attended Yale to study and or research. They claimed to be there for 6 months out of last year. This isn't for employment, it's something they told me and I want to personally verify. There's obviously more to the story than that, but I won't bore you all with details.

If I call Yale in the morning and ask them, do you guys think they will be willing to tell me if they were ever there? I'm not looking for personal info, just if they were ever really there.

Yale will absolutely not divulge this info to you over the phone.

You are also unlikely to find many Yale grads on Facebook. Call this one a hunch.

 

Ime

Diamond Member
May 3, 2001
3,661
0
76
Oh my wife has checked facebook, and done lot's of googling.

You'll have to forgive me for leaving out personal info, after all if we are wrong we could be hurting innocent people.

OK. So the wife and I made friends with a Dutch woman over the internet last year. We've chatted at great length and seemed to be good friends. She was introduced to our circle of online friends and she became very popular, everyone liked her and seemed to think she was great to chat with. She eventually (April this year) introduced us to her new boyfriend. Presumably they both met at Yale over the summer of 2007 while studying and researching there for 6 months.

Shortly after introducing us to her new boyfriend, she announced to us she had brain cancer. We were all shocked, but were very supportive. She told us she was undergoing treatment. She came online less and less, and eventually a few days ago her boyfriend came to us and told us she had passed away suddenly. It was another shock and our online circle of friends started grieving.

My wife started doing online research because she was suspicious of the circumstances. (I also have learned not to immediately dismiss a woman's intuition) She found a great deal of information on the boyfriend, but very little on the dutch woman.

The boyfriend's blog does not mention her at all, but things in his blog match up with things she has told us online. He got the exact same model laptop she did. He gave his laptop the exact same name she gave hers. She posted drawings on her photobucket account that she said she made years ago. The boyfriend has websites with the same drawings posted years ago... before they supposedly met.

Also, the biography the dutch woman wrote herself looks almost the same to what her boyfriend has written about himself. Exact same interests and tastes down to using the exact same words in some places.

I've never heard the boyfriend speak and the Dutch woman only spoke to us once but was so distorted we couldn't make out the voice, though about half of us speak voice all the time (and without distrotion). (ventrilo is fun!)

This is alot of circumstancial evidence, but it's possible it could all be explained innocently.

I could confront this boyfriend online directly, but if what he has told us is true I'd be accusing an innocent man of lying right after his girlfriend passed away... that would not be cool. So we are attempting to very parts of the story independently.

We have full names for both of them (they gave them us), so we were hoping to verify the story without any fuss. After all, what if our suspicions are baseless?

I figured the best way to verify this would be a couple of ways: 1) Find an obituary with her name on it on the Netherlands. However I have learned that not every death in the Netherlands is put into the paper. 2) Call Yale in the morning and see if these two people were there last year for studying and research. Maybe only one of them was.

Obviously with what I am describing it's possible we've been tricked. If that's the case we are willing to accept it.

It's also possible it's all completely true and we are being too suspicious of someone in their hour of grieving.

So as I was saying, anyone know if Yale will be willing to cough up the information on whether or not they were there last year? Yale's online directory came up with zip.
 

Ime

Diamond Member
May 3, 2001
3,661
0
76
Originally posted by: Perknose
Originally posted by: Ime
Hey guys. I am trying to verify as to whether two people ever attended Yale to study and or research. They claimed to be there for 6 months out of last year. This isn't for employment, it's something they told me and I want to personally verify. There's obviously more to the story than that, but I won't bore you all with details.

If I call Yale in the morning and ask them, do you guys think they will be willing to tell me if they were ever there? I'm not looking for personal info, just if they were ever really there.

Yale will absolutely not divulge this info to you over the phone.

You are also unlikely to find many Yale grads on Facebook. Call this one a hunch.

Sorry, I didn't see this reply before posting my long-as-heck story. Thanks for the information.
 

ed21x

Diamond Member
Oct 12, 2001
5,410
6
81
there are tons of yale grads on facebook, it just depends on what generation these people you refer to are from. If they are less than 25, I suspect they will have a fb account.
 

Ime

Diamond Member
May 3, 2001
3,661
0
76
Originally posted by: mryellow2
You've been dennilflossed!

Maybe, maybe not. We were hoping we could find out. Not being 100% sure of the truth is rather uncomfortable. We may have to just live with it, though.
 

Pandamonium

Golden Member
Aug 19, 2001
1,628
0
76
Sounds fishy. Unless you have more details about what research they did, there's no method I can think of to verify their stories. Online folk have a strange way of faking deaths to garner attention. (My GF is particularly fascinated by the livejournal crowd.)
 

Ime

Diamond Member
May 3, 2001
3,661
0
76
Originally posted by: Zee
did they con money out of you?

:laugh:

No. It's just a mystery.

It's a mystery I'd like to solve, but am willing to live with it unresolved. I'm not willing to hire a PI or something to dig up stuff. I was hoping for an easy solution, since I can't find one I'll probably just have to live with the mystery!
 

FleshLight

Diamond Member
Mar 18, 2004
6,883
0
71
NOTE: There are instances in which information can be disclosed without prior written consent of the student. University officials may require access to student records in the course of the performance of their assigned duties. Further, confidential information can be disclosed without prior written consent of the student (a) in connection with conditions of certain financial aid awards; (b) when the campus is complying with a judicial order or subpoena; and (c) when authorized federal or State officials are conducting an audit or evaluation of federally supported educational programs. There are also other situations in which the University is required to disclose information. See Policies Applying to Campus Activities, Organizations, and Students, Part B, Section 130.721 for a list of exceptions.

Normally, the campus will release the following as personally identifiable information which can be made public:

* Student's name;
* Address (campus email, local, and/or permanent) and telephone numbers;
* Date and place of birth;
* Major field of study, dates of attendance, number of course units in which enrolled, degrees and honors received;
* Grade level
* Enrollment Status (e.g., undergraduate or graduate, full-time or part-time)
* Photo
* Most recent previous educational institution attended;
* Participation in officially recognized activities, including intercollegiate athletics;
* Name, weight, and height of participants on intercollegiate University athletic teams.

However, students have the right to refuse to permit any or all of these categories to be designated public information with respect to themselves. (See the NOTE above.)

If a student requests that information from his or her records not be regarded as public information, then the information will not be released to anyone without the written consent of the student. The student should be aware of the important implications of exercising this right. For example, if a request is made to withhold from disclosure a student's name and degrees and honors received, the campus cannot release for publication information any honors received by the student, such as election to Phi Beta Kappa, and cannot include the student's name and degree earned in the campus commencement program without the written consent of the student. Similarly, if a request is made to withhold from disclosure a student's name and dates of attendance, a student's status as a student cannot be verified for potential employers without the written consent of the student. Further, if a student's last instruction to the campus was to withhold from disclosure the degree granted to that student and the date on which the degree was conferred, that information cannot be confirmed for a third party in connection with the appointment of that graduate to a new position or in connection with an honor that individual received without the written consent of the student.
 

alkemyst

No Lifer
Feb 13, 2001
83,967
19
81
Originally posted by: Ime
Hey guys. I am trying to verify as to whether two people ever attended Yale to study and or research. They claimed to be there for 6 months out of last year. This isn't for employment, it's something they told me and I want to personally verify. There's obviously more to the story than that, but I won't bore you all with details.

If I call Yale in the morning and ask them, do you guys think they will be willing to tell me if they were ever there? I'm not looking for personal info, just if they were ever really there.

They are better than you, accept this.
 
sale-70-410-exam    | Exam-200-125-pdf    | we-sale-70-410-exam    | hot-sale-70-410-exam    | Latest-exam-700-603-Dumps    | Dumps-98-363-exams-date    | Certs-200-125-date    | Dumps-300-075-exams-date    | hot-sale-book-C8010-726-book    | Hot-Sale-200-310-Exam    | Exam-Description-200-310-dumps?    | hot-sale-book-200-125-book    | Latest-Updated-300-209-Exam    | Dumps-210-260-exams-date    | Download-200-125-Exam-PDF    | Exam-Description-300-101-dumps    | Certs-300-101-date    | Hot-Sale-300-075-Exam    | Latest-exam-200-125-Dumps    | Exam-Description-200-125-dumps    | Latest-Updated-300-075-Exam    | hot-sale-book-210-260-book    | Dumps-200-901-exams-date    | Certs-200-901-date    | Latest-exam-1Z0-062-Dumps    | Hot-Sale-1Z0-062-Exam    | Certs-CSSLP-date    | 100%-Pass-70-383-Exams    | Latest-JN0-360-real-exam-questions    | 100%-Pass-4A0-100-Real-Exam-Questions    | Dumps-300-135-exams-date    | Passed-200-105-Tech-Exams    | Latest-Updated-200-310-Exam    | Download-300-070-Exam-PDF    | Hot-Sale-JN0-360-Exam    | 100%-Pass-JN0-360-Exams    | 100%-Pass-JN0-360-Real-Exam-Questions    | Dumps-JN0-360-exams-date    | Exam-Description-1Z0-876-dumps    | Latest-exam-1Z0-876-Dumps    | Dumps-HPE0-Y53-exams-date    | 2017-Latest-HPE0-Y53-Exam    | 100%-Pass-HPE0-Y53-Real-Exam-Questions    | Pass-4A0-100-Exam    | Latest-4A0-100-Questions    | Dumps-98-365-exams-date    | 2017-Latest-98-365-Exam    | 100%-Pass-VCS-254-Exams    | 2017-Latest-VCS-273-Exam    | Dumps-200-355-exams-date    | 2017-Latest-300-320-Exam    | Pass-300-101-Exam    | 100%-Pass-300-115-Exams    |
http://www.portvapes.co.uk/    | http://www.portvapes.co.uk/    |