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you can try motivating yourself by asserting that the self-confidence you will build from exercising will attract most women more than the physical results of exercising. if you can get yourself to keep exercising, surely you can get a girlfriend .
spend time pondering on the impermanence of life. think about the person that you ultimately want to be, the things you want to have done with your life, and do what you can while you're still young to achieve those things. the older you get, the harder it gets to start exercising (physically and mentally). honestly dude, if you're working out 3 days a week for 30 minutes each time, that is more exercise than most people get, and if it's vigorous exercise then you're great with that. maybe you should spend some time trying to learn to cook some healthy but also delicious meals? this will help you lose that fat, may help you get the motivation to continue working out, and hell if nothing else at least you can cook dinner for a girl.
also, you might want to consider meditation.
http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/200304/the-benefits-meditation
i started meditating a few weeks ago, and i've noticed pronounced differences on my views of my life, both on a personal and social level, as well as improved views about life in general. i even decided to run a marathon xp!
For now, I am still planning on attempting to work out 5 days a week for 40 mins to 1 hour. Gives me something very useful to do instead pondering about how life sucks! Not mention, I actually do feel good after the work out even though I have almost 0% motivation at the beginning.