DisgruntledVirus
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- Dec 26, 2007
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I appreciate your perspective..I honestly do. But I find you to be extremely dishonest as regards science and biology.
You seem to want to ignore the inconvenient parts (a biological male is a man by gender) when they disagree with a social "norm" (trans women, in this case) and you pick and choose the science behind psychology when it agrees with your world-view.
I ask again, why does gender identity get to trump your sex at birth?
That's a fair, and valid, question.
There is the phrase "If it looks like a duck, swims like a duck, and quacks like a duck, then it probably is a duck." Now obviously we all know that is a joking phrase and very basic inductive reasoning. You can make a robot that fits those characteristics, but it's not a duck. It's a robot. We agree on this I'm assuming.
So by the initial phrase, we would classify this girl as a girl. If you saw her on the street you would NOT know she was born a man would you? So if a person walks like a girl, talks like a girl, looks like a girl, acts like a girl, sees themselves as a girl, has hormones like a girl, and society sees her as a girl then basic inductive reasoning says it's a girl (like the duck saying above). I'd assume we can agree that basic reasoning holds true, as I don't think you (or anybody) goes up to every other person to do a check to see if they have the other gender sexual organs. So the only way you, or anybody, would know is if the person told you for a significant part of transgender individuals. Also, I should note that this discussion is not about cross dressers or people just playing "dress up" to try and get into the girls bathroom/locker room. If this girl walked into a womans bathroom at a store, nobody would suspect anything different as the only place somebody would be able to tell is in the stall of the womans bathroom. And same goes for female-to-male as they would just use a stall (unless they had surgery to get a working penis). So nobody would know the difference. And I'd wager in a locker room situation she probably is going to change in a private way as many people who transition do everything they can to blend in and not be "outed."
Now, we don't know all the details behind this case. All we know is that the school said she had to use the men's bathroom, her and her family disagreed, and the court sided with the family. However the argument that many people seem to have is that you should use whatever bathroom your born gender uses, but that's where I don't entirely agree. I think in most cases yes, that is the case. However for people who successfully transition and live their life as a female, should be treated as a female.
This fear mongering of "well it's only time until one of these freak sexual deviants rapes somebody" is bullshit. First off, find me one case of that happening. You'll find hundreds of cases where a trans person gets assaulted, killed, or otherwise harmed by various groups/individuals. But how many cases can you find of trans people doing the inverse? On top of that, we already have laws on the books to deal with that. What is different between this hypothetical trans person going into a locker room and assaulting a person, and a guy going into a locker room and raping a girl?
So, to summarize and give a shortened version of why a gender identity trumps your biological birth gender, it trumps it when society views you as the non-birth gender and couldn't tell you were not born that gender (without physically examining you). Does that answer your question?