Obviously if there are emotional/mental/sexual problems then things are different, I'm talking about two healthy people that are happily married.
Maybe if your penis had its own TV show it could move up the list. That's an avenue to explore.
Only if you suck at sex.
Remember no one turns down a good time. When someone turns down sex repeatedly it is because it sucks and it is no fun for them.
Someone is doing it wrong.
Obviously if there are emotional/mental/sexual problems then things are different, I'm talking about two healthy people that are happily married.
Going back to entitlement for a second. When you marry someone, don't you feel entitled to be intimate with your spouse? To be able to talk to them, to hold their hand, give/receive a hug, lay next to them in bed? We don't think of these things as "duties" because we obviously enjoy doing them with our significant other, but they are expected.
The word duty implies entitlement. If you go through long periods without sex with your partner you do not have the right to force, shame, or guilt your partner into sex. What you do have the right to do, is talk it out with your partner and try to get to the root of the problem. In a respectful manner talk it out with her and see why she is avoiding sex. If its a physical issue get her help, and show understanding. If she is angry with you, get counseling and help her find better ways to cope with her anger instead of taking it out on you with passive aggressiveness like not having sex with you. If she is no longer happy in the relationship then its time to move on.
Married 19 years next month and we rarely go more than 3 or 4 days without sexual intimacy. Some times when she is on her period all she wants to do is take care of me. Well...what am I gonna do, say no??
Man I remember when my wife use to have periods many eons ago, all she ever wanted to do was have sex on her period, good god was that a mess! But it was a fun mess ...lol
Man I remember when my wife use to have periods many eons ago, all she ever wanted to do was have sex on her period, good god was that a mess! But it was a fun mess ...lol
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Yes....yes...I like it....THIS IS BRILLIANT!
Now to find a name.
Dr. Dick, Medicine Organ?
Harry and the Balls?
Head of the Class?
Seven In The Hole?
Are you "entitled" to faithfulness from your spouse?
If you are going to demand that someone only have sex with you don't you think you do have a bit of an obligation to actually have sex with them?
If you are doing these things because you think they are expected then something is off with your relationship. I do these things because I love my wife, because I love holding her hand, I love showing her affection, I love touching and kissing her, not because I feel it's expected of me.
Red Badge of Courage?Man I remember when my wife use to have periods many eons ago, all she ever wanted to do was have sex on her period, good god was that a mess! But it was a fun mess ...lol
Bottom line is people change. In this case, I'm sure the guy's wife wasn't so dismissive in the sex dept. while they were dating. Would he have proposed to her if she acted like this whilst they dated? To him, she seemed like a great catch - smart, good job, healthy sex life...why not marry her??? Another divorce statistic in the making. ...and it's no wonder, thanks to this ol' bait and switch over the long haul.
Yes, I've been here and experienced it first hand. My ex. - very smart / pretty southern girl - she would read the bible to me every night before bed; we had a great relationship for 2 years pre-nuptial with a very healthy sex-life from the start - hell, she'd role-play w/ sexy attire / props,...the whole shebang! Sounds like a great catch 'eh? Fuck yeah, I married her. Over time things slowly deteriorated. Did I change or do something to cause this? According to her - no, according to me - no! She had changed so dramatically from what I had fallen in love with. Now, what the fuck do you do? No counseling is going to remedy this. She's a different person now. Hence, my divorce after 13 years of marital bliss will be finalized later this month and I'm happy again and soooo much the wiser.
I don't get the big deal. It's a little blood. Who cares?
I mean, you need a towel or something so the bed doesn't look like a murder scene after you're done...
And it's not always like that. Just because a woman is on her period doesn't mean she's always a runny river of red the entire time.
And oil fields aren't constantly spewing liquid everywhere. But if you start pumping...
This is SO something I would do Priorities in my wife's life are:
1) Real Housewives of New Jersey.
2) Real Housewives of Orange County
3) Any crime show where they have 48 hours to solve the case
4) Any show involving murder
5) Any reality show that involves people living together and shouting at each other
6) Servicing my penis
And oil fields aren't constantly spewing liquid everywhere. But if you start pumping...
If you start pumping near the end of the spewing window, you'll find much less oil than during the peak period.