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I'm a little more sympathetic on this issue. I guess I feel like both should be open to some rather mild positions and activities, and if they arent then they should be expecting theior partner to be unhappy. A wife cant, for example expect her hubby to be remotely happy if he hasnt had a BJ in a month. Or years. Duh. He's going to be unhappy, and why should he be?
Or, to flip that around, a guy who wont take the time to learn what his wife likes, how to get her warmed up, how she best likes to climax. She's gonna be unhappy and the guy is a selfish prick for it.
Beyond that though....both need to compromise and try and be open to stuff. And be accepting if some things just are not really on the menu.
Well I couldn't agree more. Sadly my wife is from a different era. Blow jobs back in her day were taboo and off limits, only ladies of the night did that sort of thing. But I think women should learn how to please a man and men need to learn to please women. It is a give and take. If a guy gets turned off on the thought of going down on a woman then he is indeed being selfish.