Man Sends Wife Spreadsheet Of All Her Excuses Not To Have Sex

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Oldgamer

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A lot of men these days are doing things like dinner, dishes, laundry and what not. Really, a woman has no business refusing sex, knowing very well that men have higher drives.

no business huh? So I ask again.. what are you going to do? Beat her into submission? Force it on her? You sound like a immature dick. I can see how some of you have a hard time with women. You can't see past your own behavior and attitude that is so self sabotaging.

By the way you do realize chores are an equal opportunity for all in a household right? It isn't just a womans job. If you eat off those dishes you can wash them too. I mean just how lazy are you? It takes me all of 10 minutes to do the dishes.
 

zinfamous

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A lot of men these days are doing things like dinner, dishes, laundry and what not. Really, a woman has no business refusing sex, knowing very well that men have higher drives.

well, this is interesting.

are you the other member of nehalem's toaster-fuckers club, or something?
 

smackababy

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So, since people seem to agree that men have larger sex drives and are willing to have sex pretty much whenever it is offered, is that an argument that gay marriages will be much happier than straight ones?

If I knew that, I'd have married a guy a long time ago.
 

Train

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So, since people seem to agree that men have larger sex drives and are willing to have sex pretty much whenever it is offered, is that an argument that gay marriages will be much happier than straight ones?

If I knew that, I'd have married a guy a long time ago.

if more dudes were into dudes, man, women would be soooo pissed.
 

nageov3t

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So, since people seem to agree that men have larger sex drives and are willing to have sex pretty much whenever it is offered, is that an argument that gay marriages will be much happier than straight ones?

If I knew that, I'd have married a guy a long time ago.

idk, I dated this one guy with a super low sex drive... wasn't the direct reason the relationship ended, but it definitely helped get us there (I've stayed in bad relationships for great sex before, at least for a little while; if he was phenomenal in bed, I might have overlooked everything else wrong with him for awhile longer)

different people are wired differently.
 

spinejam

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To me, most of these "excuses" and "entitlement" arguments are 99% pure bullshit. The other 1% gets the medical / psychiatric exemption. It all boils down to a person's desire, laziness and/or selfishness period. Although difficult, it would be so much easier if one was honest about it. Shit, if you were trying to make a good impression on a new lady or man that you were dating, would you pull this crap? Fuck no! Must be that none of us have busy lives, tv shows to watch, too much work / school, and health issues when we're young and during these early stages of a relationship b/c it's never a problem then. We always found a way to squeeze that shit in somehow someway. But now, no can do???
 

Pulsar

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Well said. All this feminism business has feminized men. It is sad.

Man has a right to sex from his spouse. She has no business refusing it, except under extra ordinary circumstances

A "right"? Uh, no he doesn't. He has an expectation that the relationship should continue in the same manner in which it was at the start of the marriage. But it's certainly not a right.

Out of curiosity, do you happen to be muslim?
 

nakedfrog

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It's not highly abnormal. Just about everyone I've ever talked to in my office has gone through a spell like that. When the kids are 0-12 or so, there is no good time for sex...you're always interrupted. Going a month or two without any action is very normal.

However, the soap in the shower? Wow. Soap is such a slut
YMMV
I was with my ex for over a decade (nearly a decade and a half), and the longest we ever went without was six weeks, and there were medical reasons. Even when the relationship was disintegrating it was still 2-4 times per month.

(This includes a kid being born and raised up to age ten)
I honestly will say I never have and never will. If you have one pain in the ass, you don't want to get a second one.

I also have loyal Catholic guilt based values ingrained into me.
I also never did and never will, and have no such religious trappings keeping me in line.
 

BoberFett

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Well said. All this feminism business has feminized men. It is sad.

Man has a right to sex from his spouse. She has no business refusing it, except under extra ordinary circumstances

Seriously? That's what you got from what I said? /facepalm

Anybody can refuse to do anything they want, just know that there are consequences. If a woman doesn't want to have sex with her husband that's her prerogative, but he's probably going to cheat on her, and the marriage will probably end.

We all do things in life we don't necessarily want to do to please those around us. Or do wives actually think their husbands enjoy watching chick flicks and holding their bags while they shop for clothes?
 

Adrenaline

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A wife that tells her husband yes only three times over seven weeks is asking to be cheated on. Sorry, but sex is part of the deal when you get married. Both sides do not need to be 100% all the time, but that is ridiculous.
 

squarecut1

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no business huh? So I ask again.. what are you going to do? Beat her into submission? Force it on her? You sound like a immature dick. I can see how some of you have a hard time with women. You can't see past your own behavior and attitude that is so self sabotaging.

By the way you do realize chores are an equal opportunity for all in a household right? It isn't just a womans job. If you eat off those dishes you can wash them too. I mean just how lazy are you? It takes me all of 10 minutes to do the dishes.

You have no idea what you are talking about. Only someone stupid would make assumptions like that. Where the hell did I say that force needs to be involved, or that men should not do chores. Again, don't make stupid personal assumptions on a forum of all places. Really really stupid!!
 

squarecut1

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A wife that tells her husband yes only three times over seven weeks is asking to be cheated on. Sorry, but sex is part of the deal when you get married. Both sides do not need to be 100% all the time, but that is ridiculous.
Yes, but people these days have this mushy mushy cheesy Hollywood concept of marriage. Something vague and ridiculous, where nothing is part of the deal. All about oh my precious "feelings"... It is a deeper topic. How feelings have replaced responsibilities in the messed up culture these days
 

BoberFett

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I always like to view sex in a marriage as a "responsibility" or "obligation." It's so romantic.

Perhaps the emphasis on the romantic over reality is why so many marriages fail?

Do a little reading on the history of the words "romance" and "romantic". Fanciful stories, idyllic lives, nothing to do with reality.
 

squarecut1

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Perhaps the emphasis on the romantic over reality is why so many marriages fail?

Do a little reading on the history of the words "romance" and "romantic". Fanciful stories, idyllic lives, nothing to do with reality.
Exactly that is why marriage is in such a miserable state, with one out of two failing. And that only counts those who do get married.

People have been seduced and deluded by the media into something vague and supposedly romantic. If those people knew anything about relationships, their own personal relationships wont be such failures as they are. But they are at least laughing all the way to the bank. The general public does not even get that.
 

squarecut1

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This whole feeling business hasn't just messed up sexual relationships. It has had the same affect on other kinds of relationships - old friends, siblings etc. Oh my sister is being like that. I don't "feel" like talking to her. I don't "feel" like doing that for that person.

No wonder society and people are getting more and more isolated. That time is not far off when people would have relationships with their electronic gadgets. I think there is already a movie out on that. That frightening future is not that far off.
 

zinfamous

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This whole feeling business hasn't just messed up sexual relationships. It has had the same affect on other kinds of relationships - old friends, siblings etc. Oh my sister is being like that. I don't "feel" like talking to her. I don't "feel" like doing that for that person.

No wonder society and people are getting more and more isolated. That time is not far off when people would have relationships with their electronic gadgets. I think there is already a movie out on that. That frightening future is not that far off.

what you are interpreting as some disastrous "invasion of 'feeling' (whatever that means)" that will forever doom the human species, is merely the act of a generation of selfish pricks raised on the self-aggrandizing, instant-gratification-with-zero-consequences drug of social media. Oh look! I'm on Twitter! Look how funny I am!

It has nothing to do with emotion, or respect--it's simply the actions of immature, selfish, turd buckets that are defining this generation.

Just like the nerd in the OP that made this spreadsheet. Dumbass nerd--he is lucky to have even gotten a wife. Whelp--not any more!

It's funny that you complain about this dystopian world where we marry our electronic devices--that is EXACTLY what you want! You criticize those that attack the nerd in the OP--the person who has distilled a human relationship to a spreadsheet, to data points, as if his cuteness has any meaning beyond his simple self-satisfaction.

That is exactly what this generation wants, and you are defending it by defending his base desire to fulfill his, and ONLY HIS needs. Just like every other dickscarf conducting their lives through Facebook and Twitter, and losing the ability to socialize.
 
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squarecut1

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what you are interpreting as some disastrous "invasion of 'feeling' (whatever that means)" that will forever doom the human species, is merely the act of a generation of selfish pricks raised on the self-aggrandizing, instant-gratification-with-zero-consequences drug of social media. Oh look! I'm on Twitter! Look how funny I am!

It has nothing to do with emotion, or respect--it's simply the actions of immature, selfish, turd buckets that are defining this generation.

Oh yes, I know this generation all too well, sadly. But I do believe that is the source of all this selfishness, the preference of feeling over responsibility.

Just the other day, I drove two hours for someone I don't particularly like. I certainly did not "feel" like it. But I believe I had an obligation. This current generation has just about no concept of what that is. It is all about me and my feelings.
 

squarecut1

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That is exactly what this generation wants, and you are defending it by defending his base desire to fulfill his, and ONLY HIS needs. Just like every other dickscarf conducting their lives through Facebook and Twitter, and losing the ability to socialize.

I think you are misunderstanding me. When I say the wife has no business refusing sex to the man, I mean it in the sense that she should be responsible enough to care for his sexual needs. Just like he should be. He should never be refusing it either, except under extra ordinary circumstances. If it were left to when both really "feel" like it, sex would be just about non existent - as is the case often these days.
 

WackyDan

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That is exactly what this generation wants, and you are defending it by defending his base desire to fulfill his, and ONLY HIS needs. Just like every other dickscarf conducting their lives through Facebook and Twitter, and losing the ability to socialize.

You have no way of knowing whether or not he is meeting her needs in the marriage or not... Based on the level of frustration he had to have felt in order to eventually produce the spreadsheet, I imagine he may have already tried to butter her up properly and may be holding up his end of the marital bargain.... This is a guy that has probably tried to communicate - tried to talk it through and it has fallen on deaf ears. He produced proof of his complaint that she can't simply dismiss now... and what does she do with it? Exactly.
 
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