This is the fault of both parties. They let it get this way. Neither of them seem to discuss the issue. The spreadsheet is an immature passive aggressive way to get his point across. A way to rub it in her face. I suspect this is how he operates and why she is shut off.
One more thing. We dont help ourselves. How many have been in a long term relationship where the first 6-12 months was a fuck-fest? Where all the guy had to do was open his mouth and sex was initiated? Then real life starts to get in the way. The guy thinks it should be easier to get sex while the woman wants more warming up and intimacy? So he does even less to get sex while she wants more. And the result is a bunch of frustration for both of them.
Both of these two need to have a real talk. Or they will eventually split. At that age they should be having sex more than 3 times in 7 weeks. A 3/27 avg can be had by anybody going to a bar and giving a moderate effort.
One more thing. We dont help ourselves. How many have been in a long term relationship where the first 6-12 months was a fuck-fest? Where all the guy had to do was open his mouth and sex was initiated? Then real life starts to get in the way. The guy thinks it should be easier to get sex while the woman wants more warming up and intimacy? So he does even less to get sex while she wants more. And the result is a bunch of frustration for both of them.
Both of these two need to have a real talk. Or they will eventually split. At that age they should be having sex more than 3 times in 7 weeks. A 3/27 avg can be had by anybody going to a bar and giving a moderate effort.