StrangeRanger
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I didn't read all the responses on this thread, but I'm betting a lot of you guys are A.) still kind of young and short into your marriages and/or B.) don't have kids yet. Some pointers for you: It aint gonna get any easier, she's never gonna stop wanting/needing your help. But I've also learned over the years that if you respond promptly to their requests good things do happen. She will stop badgering you so much and/or be more lenient in her expected time of your response and most importantly, a happy wife makes your life so much easier. And the sex often gets better and more plentiful too.
Back to the o/p: How long would it have taken you to go fill the humidifier? What, maybe 5 mins tops to get up right away, fill it and tuck your wife into bed who isn't feeling well. 5 mins of your time to earn huge brownie points and be done w/ the whole deal. But by making her wait, especially when she's already bitchy and not feeling good, you've had this whole deal kicking around your head for hours/days AND you're on her shit list.
What most men see as meaningless, unimportant tasks are quite the opposite in her eyes. Like someone said way before, it's not the task, it's your support she's looking for.
Not to mention, I'll bet anyone 99% of the guys on this thread are bigger pussies when they're sick than their wives are when they're sick. Men turn into little babies when they're sick. Admit it, you know it's true.
To recap: Do what she asks as soon as you can and/or try to anticipate (surprise her!) her needs sometimes and you'll
- Earn brownie points redeemable for many useful things
- Actually save a lot of time and stress
- Be more relaxed
- Simply enjoy your time together more
Plus, you never know, one of those times she hollers for you she may just be waiting nekid to jump your bone (what, it happens).
j
Back to the o/p: How long would it have taken you to go fill the humidifier? What, maybe 5 mins tops to get up right away, fill it and tuck your wife into bed who isn't feeling well. 5 mins of your time to earn huge brownie points and be done w/ the whole deal. But by making her wait, especially when she's already bitchy and not feeling good, you've had this whole deal kicking around your head for hours/days AND you're on her shit list.
What most men see as meaningless, unimportant tasks are quite the opposite in her eyes. Like someone said way before, it's not the task, it's your support she's looking for.
Not to mention, I'll bet anyone 99% of the guys on this thread are bigger pussies when they're sick than their wives are when they're sick. Men turn into little babies when they're sick. Admit it, you know it's true.
To recap: Do what she asks as soon as you can and/or try to anticipate (surprise her!) her needs sometimes and you'll
- Earn brownie points redeemable for many useful things
- Actually save a lot of time and stress
- Be more relaxed
- Simply enjoy your time together more
Plus, you never know, one of those times she hollers for you she may just be waiting nekid to jump your bone (what, it happens).
j