Dude screw you all, it's 2018. Comfort first over being insecure like a little girl.
You're barbaric and plain disgusting if you don't trim. It tugs, gets sweaty, plain old sucks. Trimming SHOULD be norm.
You NEVER go back once you trim.
Same thing with getting a dedicated tongue scraper. All the gunk comes off and your breath is super clean. That's where 95% bad breath comes from - the bacterial buildup on the soft tissue, not your teeth or gums.
Don't think you're god damn special, you have the same gunk. Everyone does.