Originally posted by: Ausm
If I was your age I would be all over that shat!!
Good Luck!
Ausm
Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
Make sure and eat some Ramen Noodles before hand.
Originally posted by: DP
Well, I didn't think it would get this good so fast after the end of a 3 year relationship with my ex-gf summer. We left on good terms and still talk on the phone. Well believe it or not this new girl emailed me through the "Hot or Not" website. I haven't been on it in a while but I got a email saying someone wanted to meet me. I usually don't pay attention to most of them but I clicked on this one and saw her picture. At first I was like er ok, I'll pay the 5 bucks to send you an email just for grins and giggles. Well, we exchanged emails and got each others AIM handles but haven't caught each other online yet. So I leave AIM on one day and she messages me but my bro is on my pc(he's a year younger than me) and he talks to her for a minute saying I wasn't here and that I would get the messag, etc.
We caught each other online, talked and found out we have tons in common. She has played soccer her entire life and plays in a co-ed league now. She lives in fayettville, AR but goes to school at HSU(henderson state) and is studying pre-law. Perfect score on ACT, they are paying her to go there(wish i could get that). HSU is like 40 minutes from me which I thought was awesome. Her hotornot pic is one of her pageant which looked like HERE. She then sent me a ton of other pictures but the only other one I am gonna put up on here is this one and she is on the left, this was new years eve.
Well, it turned out she loves smile empty soul, revis, and other "not as big bands" that most people are uncommon with. She LOVES Lynyrd Skynyrd which I almost melted over. We are gonna meet on the 14th when semester starts for her again. We are both really looking forward to it. We have even planned on playing a little soccer on the first date( my ex wasn't cordinated enough to play basketball).
I know it's a "new thing" to me and it is always like this but me and summer didn't have anything in common and that seriously but a barrier in our relationship. I have never met a female through emails but this one looks like it could be worth it!
CLIFF NOTES:
got ouf of a 3 year thing with ex(unhealthy relationship)
have generally just had a crappy past few months(few friends have died and my grannie passed away)
met this girl through the net, exchanged emails, talked on phone quite a bit
have lots in common
gonna meet on the 14th since she goes to college 40 minutes from me
she looks like this and this
things are looking up for a change for me
:beer:
edit again- fixed a few things
Originally posted by: KPSHAH316
Congrats!
You most certainly deserve it!
[Evil grin:] Ah, I never thought about that....Originally posted by: richardycc
it was a dare from one of her sorority sisters that she has to try to hook up with an ugly guy from hotornot! looks like you are IT!
Uh, don't we all say the same thing when we first meet someone--albeit, in my opinion, a euphoria? It is easy to find commonalities in almost all cases if you look, but you could equally find many, or a significant, contrast if you search. I am sure it could be true that your commonalities are many--and exceed your contrasts, but you couldn't know until you get to know her more.Originally posted by: DP
We caught each other online, talked and found out we have tons in common. She has played soccer her entire life and plays in a co-ed league now.
You're exactly right but PLEASE try to remember I have not made any plans to jump in a relationship with this girl. This ENTIRE post was to just express that things are going slightly uphill from where they were. I rushed a relationship 3 years ago and it finally took its toll. I haven't once said "this girl is the one" or anything related to that. I'm still waiting to meet her before I judge her in any way.Originally posted by: DearQT
[Evil grin:] Ah, I never thought about that....Originally posted by: richardycc
it was a dare from one of her sorority sisters that she has to try to hook up with an ugly guy from hotornot! looks like you are IT!
Uh, don't we all say the same thing when we first meet someone--albeit, in my opinion, a euphoria? It is easy to find commonalities in almost all cases if you look, but you could equally find many, or a significant, contrast if you search. I am sure it could be true that your commonalities are many--and exceed your contrasts, but you couldn't know until you get to know her more.Originally posted by: DP
We caught each other online, talked and found out we have tons in common. She has played soccer her entire life and plays in a co-ed league now.
Also, forgot to mention I have quite a few friends that know her and one of my good girl-friends(just a friend) is her sister in Alpha Sigma Alpha. She told me she is a very cool person but had a psycho boyfriend that hit her, etc. Believe me, I have a few friends trying to find about as much as possible about her, but not one has had anything bad to say about her.
Originally posted by: DP
You're exactly right but PLEASE try to remember I have not made any plans to jump in a relationship with this girl. This ENTIRE post was to just express that things are going slightly uphill from where they were. I rushed a relationship 3 years ago and it finally took its toll. I haven't once said "this girl is the one" or anything related to that. I'm still waiting to meet her before I judge her in any way.Originally posted by: DearQT
[Evil grin:] Ah, I never thought about that....Originally posted by: richardycc
it was a dare from one of her sorority sisters that she has to try to hook up with an ugly guy from hotornot! looks like you are IT!
Uh, don't we all say the same thing when we first meet someone--albeit, in my opinion, a euphoria? It is easy to find commonalities in almost all cases if you look, but you could equally find many, or a significant, contrast if you search. I am sure it could be true that your commonalities are many--and exceed your contrasts, but you couldn't know until you get to know her more.Originally posted by: DP
We caught each other online, talked and found out we have tons in common. She has played soccer her entire life and plays in a co-ed league now.
Originally posted by: DearQT
Interestingly, this chick has that innocent/naive appearance. The thing is chicks like that are usually not so innocent. She probably (I think) is a nice girl though. However...
Also, forgot to mention I have quite a few friends that know her and one of my good girl-friends(just a friend) is her sister in Alpha Sigma Alpha. She told me she is a very cool person but had a psycho boyfriend that hit her, etc. Believe me, I have a few friends trying to find about as much as possible about her, but not one has had anything bad to say about her.
... be very mindful. The above is a big revelation about her, if there's any truth to the claim. I know you have said that you aren't pursuing something serious for now at least, but that's the more reason why I think you should be extremely careful. If the abuse story has any truth to it, it might be a hint that she's an emotionally (and mentally) clingy girl--worse that even Summer (not that I think Summer's was that bad ). In such event, you'll be forced to be more involved than you had ever imagined or hoped for. Sometimes we get more than we bargain for. I'm impressed that you're doing a background check on her. However, be vigilant for early signs of this, for that's the last thing you want at this time.
Believe me, I'm not trying to sound negative, and I hope it didn't come across that way. I just thought I should notify you of what might be an early warning sign. I truly wish you good luck. She may be the best match and a great girl, or at the very least the most fun person to hang out with, after all.
P.S. I understand the disconnection you said you long had with Summer, but you speak as though there's still a spark between Summer and you. Did you notice that you were comparing and contrasting the new girl with Summer?