I'm not saying you're a racist I don't know you but I am saying that what the First Lady is pointing out is a real problem.
Are you saying specifically that there is an identifiable problem of people being asked to help in stores because of racism? If so, can you point to any kind of support for this outside of Michelle Obama's claims?
Or are you just saying that you agree with Michelle Obama that racism is a thing that happens? Then of course she's right. I really can't see many people disputing that. But that doesn't mean that we should support or encourage her or any other member of a heavily oppressed or discriminated against group when they're wrong about something (or at the very least, make an accusation that isn't well supported by their story). I'm sorry, but seeing racism where it isn't is a real problem, and black people deserve the same expectation of intellectual integrity and lack of bias that everyone should receive.
And if you are Israeli but look white I am sure you've heard racist stuff before.
Of course I've heard racist things before. Shamefully, my own father said some pretty racist things, and I didn't even realize it then (he died when I was 9). I'm sure you're right that there are white people who only say racist things around people they also consider white. I just haven't experienced it in my particular workplace, that's all. It's not like I talk to hundreds of people there to begin with. A lot of real racists probably also realize that they shouldn't bring out slurs even if they're among people whom they aren't slurring, at the very least because they understand they can still be fired.
These days where I see racism the most is online, where you don't really know the skin color of your audience, but are more protected by anonymity.
Funny story I actually did a lot of research into this when I was in my early 20s. My family is friends with several Jewish families and one of them had a daughter who I was interested in. Problem was she said she "didn't date non-Jews because one day she will marry a Jew".
So I set out to prove that either A) I'm somehow Jewish enough for her to date or B) prove that she wasn't Jewish at all.
Well plan A didn't work because I just wasn't committed enough to convert. Surprisingly enough I did manage to prove that I was genetically Semitic, but not a Jew. Did not work out.
Now that I think about it she was kinda racist herself. I'll have to talk to her about that lol.
If it means anything to you, my girlfriend isn't Jewish. My mom vaguely wanted me to date someone Jewish, which I think is silly, but she's probably just happy that I'm with anyone at this point. Before I met my girlfriend, my sister was encouraging me to use online dating sites specifically for a Jewish audience. Her husband (who isn't Jewish) said he'd do it too, because he'd use whatever advantage he could get when trying to find dates. I told them I didn't want to do that, because I'm not
culturally Jewish (beyond things I don't realize that were part of my upbringing) and I don't want someone to go out with me because of my ancestry.
If it were up to me, I'd be just as soon willing to see Jewishness as a racial thing go away. I'd just as soon see all racial divides go away, but maybe it's because racial identity doesn't really mean anything to me. This is clearly not how most other people feel, and you end up with racism in large part because of this. Even when the group experiencing the racism doesn't really feel motivated to sustain racial cohesion of that group.
(btw, I think the term "anti-semitic" is a huge misnomer and don't like using it, fwiw - I don't equate the genetic groups of "Jews" with those of "semitics")