game is pretty cool so far although I don't think I'm out of the tutorial section yet.
DO you just run by them instead or do I need much better gear?
can you change to a different character somehow? I started as archer but want to try the knight, but can;t figure out how to start a new game.
Having other players attack you and lose gold and life force sucks
the tutorial is pretty short. If you are doing castles you select, then you are out of it.
Finishing castles is nearly impossible as I had the similar issue a week ago (been away so have not played this week). if you want to finish them, you are not going to get it. you just have to farm the monsters.
Also, not completing the end quest in each area means you do not get moved up so do not have to worry about higher level heros comming through.
Castle "level" seems tied to your character's level, so not upgrading him helps as you can focus on gear and not have to worry about people attacking.
Changing to another hero I think is in the top right on the portrates, but I have not bothered with that, so could be wrong.
People raiding your castle is the point of the game, but IIRC they can only take a max of 20%, and once someone "wins" against you, your castle does not allow anyone else to do a full raid until the "shield" is raised, which is about 10-12 hours.
I found it was best to work towards a point (upgrading something/buying something) then quiting at that point when you had no money in your chests and wait for the mines to fill up (6-12 hours later) and come back then to play again.
edit: and running past does not work as the game has a extra door at the end that will not open if there is a active monster around still.