Gargen
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- May 13, 2008
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OK, so lets see if I have this straight.
Sex and gender are two different things. That's new to me, but language evolves and I'm fine with that. Jenna's sex is male, but gender is female (if that's wrong, let me know). A few things I don't understand that the link provided above didn't explain (sorry, not gonna buy the book... honestly not that worried about it at this point, but I suppose that could change depending on the answers to the questions below). These are serious questions BTW. I know you've labeled me as some ignorant redneck super bigot that wants everyone not like me to go to the eleventy-billionth level of hell and will think that way forever and ever and ever, but I swear, I'm actually giving this a shot. Anyway, a few questions (all stated from the male->female perspective for simplicity):
- At what point does "I see myself as female" become "I am female and should be treated as such"?
- What should I call the born physiological gender-ish trait that I had previously thought of as gender? I.E. when the person see themselves as female, but hasn't gone through any change yet, their "trait X" is still male (I think that's a person's "sex", but I have a feeling that's not quite right)
- Is it considered automatically wrong (the same way racism is) to consider "trait X" from the previous question as a qualification for something (like say... a pageant) or are their cases where that trait trumps "gender"?
- What's the difference between a male that likes feminine things a male that really is a female?
Sex and gender are two different things. That's new to me, but language evolves and I'm fine with that. Jenna's sex is male, but gender is female (if that's wrong, let me know). A few things I don't understand that the link provided above didn't explain (sorry, not gonna buy the book... honestly not that worried about it at this point, but I suppose that could change depending on the answers to the questions below). These are serious questions BTW. I know you've labeled me as some ignorant redneck super bigot that wants everyone not like me to go to the eleventy-billionth level of hell and will think that way forever and ever and ever, but I swear, I'm actually giving this a shot. Anyway, a few questions (all stated from the male->female perspective for simplicity):
- At what point does "I see myself as female" become "I am female and should be treated as such"?
- What should I call the born physiological gender-ish trait that I had previously thought of as gender? I.E. when the person see themselves as female, but hasn't gone through any change yet, their "trait X" is still male (I think that's a person's "sex", but I have a feeling that's not quite right)
- Is it considered automatically wrong (the same way racism is) to consider "trait X" from the previous question as a qualification for something (like say... a pageant) or are their cases where that trait trumps "gender"?
- What's the difference between a male that likes feminine things a male that really is a female?