My "best" girl friend.

Kroze

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I knew this girl since 8th grade right, we didn't really talk to each other that much until sophmore year in high school. Anyway, I always flirt with her in sophmore year and she always shot me down. Anyway, now 2 years later in our senior year, we're getting really really close. I talked to her almost every day and we get along so well that one might think we should be together (I find it that she says "I love you Bao" more often than before, I'm not sure what she means by that, a friend or something else?). Anyway, I
am the one always end up listening to her problem and she keep on telling me that i'm a really good friend of her because most of her "best" friends aren't really "best". Oh I
have a girlfriend BTW.

Anyway, So today while we're in health (senior year = sex education). Our teacher was talking about gays and gonads as usual (lol) which I never paid attention to. Anyway, I was talking to her through notes that we're passing back and forth. In the notes, I was pretending to be another girl trying to hit on her and making lesbian remarks. Well the whole thing started about lesbian is about a week ago out of the blue. Anyway, after a while of passing notes. She asked me what if I think of her if she was gay and that if i think of her any different if she is gay. I said nothing will change really except that I'll be a happy guy and that could i watch sometimes (hehe we're really open to each other). Then i proceded to asked her why and she blur out that she think she's kinda half and half. I was shock. At first i didn't believed her but after a few minute later she seems really serious. It's really weird because i can usually tell whether a person is gay or not. Believe me because i suspected 3 of the person (which are all girls coicidently.) are gay and found out that they are really gay. I never thought of her being that way. She seems upset and regretful. I told her that it's cool and all and a couple of pat on her back.

After that she goes through a panic attack i guess because she was saying why am i telling you this and i'm not really gay. Poor girl. She's having a play today and tomorrow for the school. I think i'm going to go to it tomorrow (Saturday night). Oh and BTW, she does have a Boyfriend.
 

brxndxn

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Our teacher was talking about gays and gonads as usual

She probby let herself be influenced by that crappy teacher...

I'd recommend forcing a kiss on her.. and judge what to do by her reaction.
 

PsychoAndy

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cant...resist....PICS!!!!

nah, but seriously, just tell her that you'll be there for her if she is serious.
 

rgwalt

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<< Our teacher was talking about gays and gonads as usual

She probby let herself be influenced by that crappy teacher...

I'd recommend forcing a kiss on her.. and judge what to do by her reaction.
>>



Real good way to screw up a good friendship.

Ryan :disgust:
 

Kroze

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Pic - Kroze.CJB.net

Update: The pic is not showing up.
1. Go to kroze.cjb.net
2. Click "photo Gallery"
3. Click "school"
4. Her picture is the one with the caption of having the sunniest smile. (I cut the bottom of the picture off because her boob was kinda showing.)
 

Kroze

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<< Just play it cool... like usual... It'll pass, and if you're lucky, you'll get to watch/join in >>



I always joke about this with her saying that if i can watch. I just never knew that she was kind half and half.
 

Kroze

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<<

<< Our teacher was talking about gays and gonads as usual

She probby let herself be influenced by that crappy teacher...

I'd recommend forcing a kiss on her.. and judge what to do by her reaction.
>>



Real good way to screw up a good friendship.

Ryan :disgust:
>>



I don't think that would be a good idea... I have a girlfriend for 1yr 1/2 and she have a boyfriend from another school. And not only that, Everyone know me in the school and my health teacher will tell my girlfriend (she's her field hockey coach.) Anyway, it will be a big mess if i even touch a girl and with someone saw it lol
 

rgwalt

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Kroze-

I wasn't suggesting that you kiss her... someone else did, and I too think it is a bad idea. I just want to clear that up just in case.

Ryan
 

OrByte

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Hey she is still your "Best" girl friend right?

How does her announcing that she might be Bi change that? It shouldn't.....

you guys are still friends....that's all that counts.

If she seems regretful for telling you it is only becuase she is trying to grasp her true feelings too....it is a part of finding out who she really is. Sometimes that process is uncomfortable.

But in the end it doesn't (or shouldn't) really change things!
 

Kroze

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Yea i think she was trying to take what she told me back. Because she started to tell me that she really isn't. But i know she was telling me the truth because the way she told me and how straight and serious she was. I just feel bad for her, she look like she need a hug or something.
 

Yo Ma Ma

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As an aside - Co-ed sex education? Is that considered the 'norm' in public school now?

For your friend, especially since you are platonic friends with each other, just be there in the same capacity as you have to date, listening and offering whatever advice or input you might have, I'm sure she appreciates that she can confide in you.
 

Kroze

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Co-Ed sex education is for seniors only. Everything else is normal. They (New Jersey board of ed.) feels that senior is mature enough to discuss about everything. So far we've covered....penises, vaginas, duce, reproductive system, aids, gays, and some more i forgot. I think we're going to watch a girl giving birth soon (nasty).
 

AreaCode707

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<< I think we're going to watch a girl giving birth soon (nasty). >>



Aren't you glad you're not female?
 

Azraele

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<< I'd recommend forcing a kiss on her.. and judge what to do by her reaction >>


If it's forced, you're looking at a harrassment charge. Besides, it's wrong to force something like that on a person.

Just be there for her and be as supportive as possible.
 

sweetrobin

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Ok .. I think you may have hurt her when you made jokes about watching .. here she is coming to you with this big secret that she may not have told anyone else .. and you crack jokes .. I think you should get her alone where the two of you can talk seriously about it... no joking .. just be there for her .. she is probably a little scared at the moment .. being a teenage girl is hard enough .. not feeling sure of your sexuality makes it even harder Im sure .. you need to clarify to her that you care about her .. not whether she is straight or bi .. that that has no barrings on how you view her and your friendship with you .. if you dont .. she may end up pulling away from you out of embarrasment...
 

ThisIsMatt

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<< She's having a play today and tomorrow for the school. I think i'm going to go to it tomorrow (Saturday night). >>

BEEP BEEP BEEP. That doesn't suprise me at all. Theater & choir people tend to be that way....yes, this may be a gross stereotype or whatever, but most of the people I've met that were in theater have been quite fruity...
 
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