Originally posted by: Electric Amish
Originally posted by: isekii
Originally posted by: Electric Amish
Originally posted by: isekii
Originally posted by: Electric Amish
Originally posted by: ATLien247
Originally posted by: Electric Amish
I've fought this battle many times around here.
There is a differnce between love and sex. They are not mutually inclusive.
Because of this, your comment isn't a low blow because I don't care what she did or with whom she did it with. The same way that she doesn't care that I boned another woman.
amish
There's no battle to be fought. We all know that your relationship with your wife is not considered normal. Whether that is a good thing or a bad thing is not for me to judge. If you're both truly happy with the situation, then I applaud you for being so open with one another. Personally, I could not even fathom being in your shoes.
All I can say is that you are missing out...
It feels sooooo good to let all the trivial sh!t this go.
I just feel bad that nobody else can see my point and enjoy this freedom. I'm not saying that just because you believe it you should act on it every chance you get. I'm just saying that if you accept it from the beginning you don't have to expend the energy worrying or pondering about the "If's".
amish
what's the point of you being married ? ? why not just get a casual live in gf ??
wouldn't that be much better for you ? ?
no divorce to worry about ~
nothing to lose~ if she trys something kick her out~
The point?
Love and spending your life with your soulmate.
amish
I dont know about everyone else.. but I see why you would stay married~
If you're out to bone other people and she doesn't give a rat about it~
You can live with the person and not be married.. your so called "soulmate"
I guess you missed the whole meaning of "marriage" when you did get married~
LOVE ? I find it kinda ironic in your response looking at your previous responses~
First of all, we're not out to bone other people, but it has happened. The beauty is that it doesn't matter. Sex with other people is physical pleasure. Sex between us is a physically, spiritually, and emothionally fulfilling action.
Yes, we could live together without being married, but when you find each other at 19, you kindof go along with what your parents want.
Love? Yes love. True and boundless love. This is the way this arguement always goes around here. 'Round and around. I'm sorry for those that cannot experience this for themselves.
amish
not to take anything away from your marriage, but i think sex with other people possibly can lead to something more than just physical pleasure. you have to take into consideration other people's emotional and mental maturity. although you're sure your wife is able to handle her flings, what if her partners cannot? she could be flirting with disaster, and possibly jeopardizing her own marriage. and don't be so sure of your wife's maturity level either. she could always run off with someone else one day. (and this goes same for you as well)