My daughter was hurt in preschool

[Xavier434]

Originally posted by: waggy

Originally posted by: Xavier434

Originally posted by: Joemonkey

Originally posted by: rdubbz420

Originally posted by: RKS
Is the kid an illegal immigrant? They don't understand/respect our social structure.

wow, generalize much?

is he wrong?

Yes, he is wrong. There are taxes involved when registering children for day care. Obviously, that repels illegals from registering...

not true.

there are many daycares out there that don't care.

The only ones that don't are the bottom of the barrel crap daycares that don't do jack to teach your kids anything. Any responsible parent will be able to identify those daycares at the drop of a hat and avoid them like the plague. The illegal kids being enrolled in those schools is the least of your problems if you put your kid in one of those. Trust me. I have been through this and I work for the school system in South Florida. I know all about it. Every single good daycare offers some sort of government funded Pre-K program for children who are one year away from Kindergarden. Those schools deal with the tax part I am talking about.

 

[Deeko]

Oh come on. These things DO happen. The substitute is a "blind bat" because he/she couldn't watch every single kid for every single second? How long do you think it took for this altercation to happen, five seconds? If it repeatedly happens, then yea, maybe it's a big deal because this "bully" should be watched closer and/or disciplined, but come on...you're taking this WAAAAAY too far.

 

[RKS]

Originally posted by: Xavier434

Originally posted by: Joemonkey

Originally posted by: rdubbz420

Originally posted by: RKS
Is the kid an illegal immigrant? They don't understand/respect our social structure.

wow, generalize much?

is he wrong?

Yes, he is wrong. There are taxes involved when registering children for day care. Obviously, that repels illegals from registering...

Good Fuckin' Lord, I was kidding.

3YOs have no concept of social structure. In fact most of them play next to each other at best and really don't play together until closer to 5 or so.

 

[DrPizza]

I hate to say it, but yes, things happen. Even if it was observed, unless the teacher was within 5 feet, your daughter was going to be scratched. I agree that there should have been better supervision; but that won't always prevent things like that.

On another note, a kid tried to take a Tonka dump truck away from my son in pre-school. My son about knocked the kid out with a dump truck to the side of the head. It was observed; "it happened so fast." The other kid tried to grab it, my son said "no", the other kid tried to grab it again, my son clobbered him.

 

[HeroOfPellinor]

Originally posted by: Geekbabe

Originally posted by: paulney

Originally posted by: waggy
well you could call the cops.
call whoever is in charge of the school
find out the boys name and sue the parents

etc.

They are not releasing the name of the boy (they still think it's a girl who did it!), and they are not releasing the name of the substitute either (although we know who the substitute was - it's always the same woman).

This could have happened at a playgroup with your wife and other mothers standing there. Kids get into tussles sometimes, they fight over toys.

This kind of behavior needs a no tolerance policy. Now every day his daughter goes to school she gets to live in fear that he may do it again. Or, better yet, all the kids who saw it now know it's an acceptable method of getting what you want. Yeah, sweep it under the rug....brilliant!

 

[MiniDoom]

Originally posted by: RKS

Originally posted by: Xavier434

Originally posted by: Joemonkey

Originally posted by: rdubbz420

Originally posted by: RKS
Is the kid an illegal immigrant? They don't understand/respect our social structure.

wow, generalize much?

is he wrong?

Yes, he is wrong. There are taxes involved when registering children for day care. Obviously, that repels illegals from registering...

Good Fuckin' Lord, I was kidding.

3YOs have no concept of social structure. In fact most of them play next to each other at best and really don't play together until closer to 5 or so.

:beer: sarcasm meter on the fritz today.

 

[RKS]

Originally posted by: HeroOfPellinor

Originally posted by: Geekbabe

Originally posted by: paulney

Originally posted by: waggy
well you could call the cops.
call whoever is in charge of the school
find out the boys name and sue the parents

etc.

They are not releasing the name of the boy (they still think it's a girl who did it!), and they are not releasing the name of the substitute either (although we know who the substitute was - it's always the same woman).

This could have happened at a playgroup with your wife and other mothers standing there. Kids get into tussles sometimes, they fight over toys.

This kind of behavior needs a no tolerance policy. Now every day his daughter goes to school she gets to live in fear that he may do it again. Or, better yet, all the kids who saw it now know it's an acceptable method of getting what you want. Yeah, sweep it under the rug....brilliant!

Gimme a break. I guess you'r all for expelling toddlers for making a gun with their hand and acting like they are shooting? Do you have kids? If so do you keep them in a bubble?

 

[Homerboy]

Originally posted by: HeroOfPellinor

Originally posted by: OUCaptain
Children get hurt and bleed. Get over it. Seriously Get over it

You don't see something wrong with his daughter being assaulted by another kid? Then you're an idiot.

And, ya, for the record I'd sue the parents to pay for a doctor visit and for my and my wife's missed work in having to deal with it x 2 for pain and suffering. That ought to have an impact on parents who, obviously, give a rat's ass about how their kid behaves.

LOLZ

 

[ConstipatedVigilante]

Tell her to fight back with the book next time.

 

[HeroOfPellinor]

Originally posted by: RKS
Gimme a break. I guess you'r all for expelling toddlers for making a gun with their hand and acting like they are shooting? Do you have kids? If so do you keep them in a bubble?

I do have kids. Do you?

 

[antyler]

Well it seems like its a tuff situation because the only eye witness is your daughter. Unless you could get some of the other kids to speak up as to who actually hurt her, you wont really have much of a case.

If it was me, i would try to find out who did it, and either contact the school about the kid and or his parents.

You may not be able to get any sort of restitution, but at least you can make sure that she doesnt get hurt again, or that he doesnt hurt any other kids.

Maybe change pre-schools if they are going to be jerks about it, and perhaps warn anyone you know about your situation and advise them from placing their children in the same location.

 

[eleison]

Originally posted by: HeroOfPellinor

Originally posted by: Geekbabe

Originally posted by: paulney

Originally posted by: waggy
well you could call the cops.
call whoever is in charge of the school
find out the boys name and sue the parents

etc.

They are not releasing the name of the boy (they still think it's a girl who did it!), and they are not releasing the name of the substitute either (although we know who the substitute was - it's always the same woman).

This could have happened at a playgroup with your wife and other mothers standing there. Kids get into tussles sometimes, they fight over toys.

This kind of behavior needs a no tolerance policy. Now every day his daughter goes to school she gets to live in fear that he may do it again. Or, better yet, all the kids who saw it now know it's an acceptable method of getting what you want. Yeah, sweep it under the rug....brilliant!

Agreed. Kids grow up. They need to be taught whats right and wrong. Sue the kid's parent's for medical -- this way, the kids parents might do a better job parenting their son. Its all fun and games unless someone get a big fat bill -- get a lawyer too.

 

[Xavier434]

Originally posted by: HeroOfPellinor

Originally posted by: RKS
Gimme a break. I guess you'r all for expelling toddlers for making a gun with their hand and acting like they are shooting? Do you have kids? If so do you keep them in a bubble?

I do have kids. Do you?

He's right. Your justification is crap. My kid has gotten hurt before like that and doesn't have any kind of fear about going to school. Nor do the children who get away with things occasionally believe that it is acceptable to do what they did. They know it was wrong and when they do get caught (happens most of the time in good schools) they get punished.

 

[Throckmorton]

Have a doctor look at the scratch and do whatever it takes to not leave a scar.

 

[Homerboy]

I hate to see what some of you people would do if one of your kids got in an actual fight during their years.

 

[Xavier434]

Originally posted by: Homerboy
I hate to see what some of you people would do if one of your kids got in an actual fight during their years.

Ya, no kidding. Not to mention that not only does this sort of thing happen at least a couple times with just about every single child that spends several years in even a good daycare, but all of your little angels will also be the cause of something like this happening at least once or twice. Newsflash. They haven't grown up yet. They make mistakes which cannot be prevented by even the best parents or the best teachers. It just happens.

 

[RKS]

Originally posted by: HeroOfPellinor

Originally posted by: RKS
Gimme a break. I guess you'r all for expelling toddlers for making a gun with their hand and acting like they are shooting? Do you have kids? If so do you keep them in a bubble?

I do have kids. Do you?

yes, and they probably won't need therapy in the near future. :laugh:

 

[HeroOfPellinor]

Originally posted by: Xavier434

Originally posted by: HeroOfPellinor

Originally posted by: RKS
Gimme a break. I guess you'r all for expelling toddlers for making a gun with their hand and acting like they are shooting? Do you have kids? If so do you keep them in a bubble?

I do have kids. Do you?

He's right. Your justification is crap. My kid has gotten hurt before like that and doesn't have any kind of fear about going to school. Nor do the children who get away with things occasionally believe that it is acceptable to do what they did. They know it was wrong and when they do get caught (happens most of the time in good schools) they get punished.

So I guess it's completely escaped you that what's acceptable to a kid is what they can get away with.

 

[HeroOfPellinor]

Originally posted by: RKS

Originally posted by: HeroOfPellinor

Originally posted by: RKS
Gimme a break. I guess you'r all for expelling toddlers for making a gun with their hand and acting like they are shooting? Do you have kids? If so do you keep them in a bubble?

I do have kids. Do you?

yes, and they probably won't need therapy in the near future. :laugh:

Yeah, people go to therapists all the time for knowing right from wrong.

 

[videogames101]

I hate parents that overeact to this. They're kids, bleeding sometimes is part of it. I'm still in HS, and I see it all the time.

 

[Homerboy]

Originally posted by: videogames101
I hate parents that overeact to this. They're kids, bleeding sometimes is part of it. I'm still in HS, and I see it all the time.

No... you hate parents because you're still in HS.

 

[RKS]

Originally posted by: Homerboy

Originally posted by: videogames101
I hate parents that overeact to this. They're kids, bleeding sometimes is part of it. I'm still in HS, and I see it all the time.

No... you hate parents because you're still in HS.

Don't trust anyone over 30.

 

[Homerboy]

Originally posted by: RKS

Originally posted by: Homerboy

Originally posted by: videogames101
I hate parents that overeact to this. They're kids, bleeding sometimes is part of it. I'm still in HS, and I see it all the time.

No... you hate parents because you're still in HS.

Don't trust anyone over 30.

That's why I don't trust my wife...

 

[HeroOfPellinor]

Originally posted by: Homerboy
I hate to see what some of you people would do if one of your kids got in an actual fight during their years.

If they're defending themselves or somebody else, I'll applaud them. If they're upset because somebody wouldn't give them a Tonka truck then I'd come down like a ton of bricks and nip that behavior in the bud.

But, ya, you're right. I think instead, I'll teach them to just make sure nobody is looking and to use a sock full of Linkin Logs and to deny everything afterward.

 

[Homerboy]

If they're defending themselves or somebody else, I'll applaud them. If they're upset because somebody wouldn't give them a Tonka truck then I'd come down like a ton of bricks and nip that behavior in the bud.

But, ya, you're right. I think instead, I'll teach them to just make sure nobody is looking and to use a sock full of Linkin Logs and to deny everything afterward.

I'm not talking about what you'd do to your kid. Don't try to read between the lines... I'm talking about suing the parents and anyone within 50ft of the altercation as many of the posters here have suggested for the OP to do.