My dream boy/girl

[Storm]

Originally posted by: luvly
"wg, you know what's really odd? Shortly before meeting The One my friends and I played a game where we extensively listed qualities (physical, personality, other stuff) and then assessed our ideal person. I discovered that I had a loooong-standing pattern of dating a certain type of guy (in various packages) and that 'he' or they weren't really what I was interested in. Met The One the very next week --looking back, I probably would have been oblivious to him if I hadn't figured that out"

You do have a point there, Jfur. But I'll never bend my rules . . . even if it means I'll remain single for the rest of my life. And in that case, I'll just have a male companion. :Q I realised what terirble mistake I made bending the rules. I don't think that my ideal guy is unrealistic really . . . *ahem* . . . we'll just leave it at that. But no compromises here. Even if I shrunk my list, five things will still remain important: His physical appearance (including body, his voice and facial look), isn't fond of eating out, his choice of music, courtesy and respect, and his religious standing. Uh-oh! Did I forget? No drugs or excessive drinking. If he fails in any of these, you can forget it. I won't compromise at all. Kids isn't really an issue, as I really am not bent on having any; and I have my reservations anyway.

[Noriaki:] "However, I have my own view of what's attractive, she doesn't have to be a maxim covergirl, in fact looking like that is often a strike against. But in my eyes, she must be attractive."

Oh, oh, oh! What's that supposed to mean? Are you subscribing to that saying that he who marries beauty marries trouble? :Q

Noriaki, no problem there since you have conceded that you aren't really looking for a lady. But you better know that any man with whom I hook up has got to be willing to give up his computer addictions. I mean, I would want to give up some addictions of mine, so I expect the same of him. You will not deny me the quality time for some crappy computer game or computer related stuff. If he ever does that, you can forget him. And I guess that's why he must be someone who spends a limited time on the computer. As much as I do like my computer, I won't replace my significant other with my PC. Whilst I love some breathing space, I also want to spend quality time with my significant other for a healthy relationsip.

Speaking of . . . you can actually find a female friend who doesn't mind a snuggle. :Q

P.S.: Storm, are we by chance related? I can give you my number if I can verify that you've got the height and are a good looking guy! :Q

Thanks for the flattery but I am not at least 6' tall. Also I feel superficial by answering whether not Im a good looking person. Is it not true beauty is in the eye of the beholder? But to answer your question I guess I would say Im average to slightly above average looking guy but who is to say . I'll admit it was kind of wierd reading your list because most of it, I feel we are on the same page. *shivers*

 

[Storm]

Originally posted by: luvly
Good question, Go Punk. I mean . . . I came close to that situation . . . but I'll worry about it when it actually happens. Aaah! Actually, I think that the two go together. For me, love isn't just feelings . . . it's respect too and friendship. The whole indescribable love people speak of is the short-term type, as far as I am concerned. It's the type you feel when you're infatuated with someone. But the real love is more than that. When someone has all of those qualities, I don't expect to automatically fall in love, but I do believe that as we grow fond of each other, the true love naturally takes its place . . . the everlasting type, you know. Oh God, that was a difficult question!

Yea it is but I thought you answered it well. I would like to add that in my honest opinion, true love is all-encompassing of the relationship between two people.