My ex-gf says I should see a shrink. ATOT is just as good, right? (pics)

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JulesMaximus

No Lifer
Jul 3, 2003
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Let me get this straight...you have this girl you like and she likes you and you want to be with her so you decide to move across the country and just say see-ya to her?

You already blew it with this girl. Move on...cut her loose.

Oh, and stop calling her every freaking day you loser, it interferes with our sex time! :|
 

sandmanwake

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Feb 29, 2000
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She wants to sleep with other people and wants to keep you around as both the dick in a glass and as the guy she can get emotional comfort from when she's hurt by other guys with no commitment of any sort on her part that you would ever get anything out of it in return. I'm not even talking about sex in return. I'm talking about you have problems, don't expect for her to be there for you necessarily. You're just here to satisfy her needs, not the other way around. Most likely you'll just be "the emotional comfort guy because she won't ever want sleep with you again because it might ruin the special relationship she has with you now guy." Right now, you're the "I'll keep you around as I do the transition thing so it won't be so scary guy."

Don't be an idiot. Run.
 

Sensor

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Jan 28, 2001
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Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy
Oh yeah... Before you start dating again you might want to get this cleared up. :Q

Tony got a sunburn. When it started to peel, he told me it reminded him of a.. uh... the earth's continents before the shifted into the position they're in now. He insisted that a picture be saved for posterity.

To her credit, she's not just using me as an emotional safety net. I'm using her as a safety net too. Like, the kind that you already have rolled up in your closet ready as opposed to the one that you have to go out to Wal-Mart and buy.

It sure does seem like my problem only has one solution... ^_^;;
 

sonz70

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Apr 19, 2005
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Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Let me get this straight...you have this girl you like and she likes you and you want to be with her so you decide to move across the country and just say see-ya to her?

You already blew it with this girl. Move on...cut her loose.

Oh, and stop calling her every freaking day you loser, it interferes with our sex time! :|

QFT
 

Sensor

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Jan 28, 2001
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Originally posted by: isekii
it says she's in Holmdel NJ

you're in Cali ?

Because I moved. I also lived in Holmdel, NJ, up until last July when I bailed and came to California. It seemed like a good move at the time, in terms of my career. That and the horrendous amount of icky snow that had fallen the winter beforehand.

It was supposed to be a convenient way of giving her more space while preparing for the future. But not having her available to do my laundry really makes me appreciate what I've lost.
 

LtPage1

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Jan 15, 2004
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1. dont EVER end a message to a group of people that includes even one guy with the word "muah," and expect to be taken seriously. ever.
2. stop using 12-year-old asian girl ^_^ faces.
3. move on. move on, move on, move on. youve done what you can: youve let her know how you feel, and she has made it eminently clear that she does not reciprocate your feelings. there is nothing you can do about it, and to be honest, your cute little gestures are a little on the creepy side. get over her. it wont be quick, easy, or painless, but it is your ONLY option. since you seem to be unable to do it yourself, and since youve posted on ATOT expecting real responses, I'd say you're clinically insane and should most definitely see a psychiatrist. if you throw enough money at an emotional problem, the placebo effect kicks in and you get yourself to JUST STOP IT.
good luck.
 

isekii

Lifer
Mar 16, 2001
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Originally posted by: Sensor
Originally posted by: isekii
it says she's in Holmdel NJ

you're in Cali ?

Because I moved. I also lived in Holmdel, NJ, up until last July when I bailed and came to California. It seemed like a good move at the time, in terms of my career. That and the horrendous amount of icky snow that had fallen the winter beforehand.

It was supposed to be a convenient way of giving her more space while preparing for the future. But not having her available to do my laundry really makes me appreciate what I've lost.

icic.
1. What are you doing in terms of your job/career ?
2. HOW CAN YOU LEAVE NJ ? NJ is the shizzle~!!!


 

Sensor

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Jan 28, 2001
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Originally posted by: kami333
Originally posted by: kami333
Sweet, she's at Lafayette. I know a couple guys there.

lol, my fraternity has a chapter there too :evil:

There aren't a lot of frats there, but they sure do know how to party! Lafayette gives them this big field ("The Quad?"), and they like to put things there. Like concerts. And a big foaming-bubble-filled labyrinth. I don't know the details. I don't party there. All I get are the PG rated pictures after the fact.
 

eigen

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Nov 19, 2003
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Originally posted by: sandmanwake
She wants to sleep with other people and wants to keep you around as both the dick in a glass and as the guy she can get emotional comfort from when she's hurt by other guys with no commitment of any sort on her part that you would ever get anything out of it in return. I'm not even talking about sex in return. I'm talking about you have problems, don't expect for her to be there for you necessarily. You're just here to satisfy her needs, not the other way around. Most likely you'll just be "the emotional comfort guy because she won't ever want sleep with you again because it might ruin the special relationship she has with you now guy." Right now, you're the "I'll keep you around as I do the transition thing so it won't be so scary guy."

Don't be an idiot. Run.

So much truth it hurts.
 

vshah

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Sep 20, 2003
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don't wait for her...bang other chicks, and she'll get jealous and come back, then you can bang her too.
 
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