My ex-gf says I should see a shrink. ATOT is just as good, right? (pics)

[Sensor]

Originally posted by: isekii

icic.
1. What are you doing in terms of your job/career ?
2. HOW CAN YOU LEAVE NJ ? NJ is the shizzle~!!!

I work at Stanford now in the IRT department. Essentially, I supervise the helpdesk. It's always a lot of fun.

And NJ had pretty gross weather. I think that was the only problem. I miss NJ roads. I wish they'd charge me a goddamned 35 cents to use the highway in California so that they would have enough money to fill in the five-foot deep potholes. Oh, and the syringes on Sandy Hook beaches in NJ were pretty uncool too.

 

[miketheidiot]

Originally posted by: MazerRackham
Hey!

http://kelbreth.clan216.com/pictures/20...inationCA_WisconsinDells/target84.html

what does that have to do with anything?

 

[Kalbi]

Originally posted by: Praetorian7
Change your phone number. Go to a bar. Consume many alcoholic beverages. Start looking for women about 1 hour before closing time (ones still there and drinking usually are a bit desparate; may not be the best looking either). Go home with said woman. Never look back.

He has to be careful, he might go home with a female that has a penis (he's in SF).

Yea so basically you should stop calling her. If she calls be curt/rude/be an asshole/etc so she can get over it. I'm sure she'll find some guy that wants to bang her and she'll be over it.

 

[Sensor]

Originally posted by: eigen

Originally posted by: sandmanwake
She wants to sleep with other people and wants to keep you around as both the dick in a glass and as the guy she can get emotional comfort from when she's hurt by other guys with no commitment of any sort on her part that you would ever get anything out of it in return. I'm not even talking about sex in return. I'm talking about you have problems, don't expect for her to be there for you necessarily. You're just here to satisfy her needs, not the other way around. Most likely you'll just be "the emotional comfort guy because she won't ever want sleep with you again because it might ruin the special relationship she has with you now guy." Right now, you're the "I'll keep you around as I do the transition thing so it won't be so scary guy."

Don't be an idiot. Run.

So much truth it hurts.

Yea. Yeah... I think sandmanwake has been tapping my AIM conversations, because that seems right on the ball. >.<

 

[Mr Nate]

Well, sensor. I looked at her match.com profile pic, and she does look like a piece of as*. but i'm concerned she might be a bit of a nutcase. i would suggest buying a white button up shirt with some pinstripes on it and heading down to the bar to pick up a somewhat used although sufficiently experience woman. it will do you a world of good.

 

[kami333]

Originally posted by: Sensor

Originally posted by: kami333

Originally posted by: kami333
Sweet, she's at Lafayette. I know a couple guys there.

lol, my fraternity has a chapter there too :evil:

There aren't a lot of frats there, but they sure do know how to party! Lafayette gives them this big field ("The Quad?"), and they like to put things there. Like concerts. And a big foaming-bubble-filled labyrinth. I don't know the details. I don't party there. All I get are the PG rated pictures after the fact.

hehehe, I've know those letters

 

[isekii]

what's her number

 

[PatboyX]

anandtechs answer to mental issues are as insightful as tom cruises...in fact, they tend to be exactly the same: vitimins and exercise.

 

[Mucho]

You should be happy she told you to your face she want her space and not cheat on you behing your back.

 

[Sensor]

Originally posted by: white
is her best asset really her chest?

I thought so. But, of course, it totally depends on whether you like hanging-to-the-knees or small-and-perky.

And, on an unrelated note, her being a "5.5/10" compared to all the boobs everywhere doesn't necessary affect whether or not it's her best asset.

 

[brigden]

She's finished with you romantically and her request to keep you on in a "best friend" role is her way of washing any guilt she has over dumping your ass.

My advice: Let her go. Completely. It will do you both some good.

 

[sonz70]

Originally posted by: PatboyX
anandtechs answer to mental issues are as insightful as tom cruises...in fact, they tend to be exactly the same: vitimins and exercise.

exercise = sex

 

[Sensor]

Originally posted by: Kalbi
He has to be careful, he might go home with a female that has a penis (he's in SF).

Yea so basically you should stop calling her. If she calls be curt/rude/be an asshole/etc so she can get over it. I'm sure she'll find some guy that wants to bang her and she'll be over it.

It's so true. T.T Not only am I new to S.F., I'm also new to bars, and I totally don't know how to figure it out. My coworkers took me to one place... hmmm... "Asian Fusion" or something. I thought it was great. You ate a five-course meal, strippers came out and danced on stage while you ate... I was really happy.

Until I figured out that there were precisely zero women stripping.

It didn't stop me from finishing my food, though.

 

[Sensor]

Originally posted by: isekii
what's her number

Don't be cheap. Pay Match.com their $30 and ask her yourself.

 

[isekii]

Originally posted by: Sensor

Originally posted by: isekii
what's her number

Don't be cheap. Pay Match.com their $30 and ask her yourself.

LoL.
What if I give you $5 bucks for her number and aim.

 

[Sensor]

Originally posted by: Mr Nate
shirt with some pinstripes on it and heading down to the bar to pick up a somewhat used

Pinstripes? Like on my car? People wear that? Or is that some kind of San Francisco dress-code that means, "I'm a male who likes a female."?

 

[Mr Nate]

wait, you have pinstripes on your car?

 

[Sensor]

Originally posted by: sonz70

exercise = sex

The gym is cheaper.

 

[Sensor]

Originally posted by: Mr Nate
wait, you have pinstripes on your car?

Sorry, that's a lie. I have no pinstripes on my car. My car is nice and plain and silver.

You have pinstripes on your shirt?

 

[Praetorian7]

Originally posted by: Kalbi

Originally posted by: Praetorian7
Change your phone number. Go to a bar. Consume many alcoholic beverages. Start looking for women about 1 hour before closing time (ones still there and drinking usually are a bit desparate; may not be the best looking either). Go home with said woman. Never look back.

He has to be careful, he might go home with a female that has a penis (he's in SF).

Maybe he'll find what he's really looking for :laugh:.






Sorry, couldn't resist. But seriously you need to put this all behind you ASAP.

 

[Anghang]

Originally posted by: sandmanwake
She wants to sleep with other people and wants to keep you around as both the dick in a glass and as the guy she can get emotional comfort from when she's hurt by other guys with no commitment of any sort on her part that you would ever get anything out of it in return. I'm not even talking about sex in return. I'm talking about you have problems, don't expect for her to be there for you necessarily. You're just here to satisfy her needs, not the other way around. Most likely you'll just be "the emotional comfort guy because she won't ever want sleep with you again because it might ruin the special relationship she has with you now guy." Right now, you're the "I'll keep you around as I do the transition thing so it won't be so scary guy."

Don't be an idiot. Run.

SO TRUE!! :thumbsup:

watch out for your own wellbeing and boot her, she's obviously watching out for her own wellbeing by trying to keep you around as an emotional tampon to absorb any negativities she encounters during her transition...

 

[OneOfTheseDays]

cut your losses now or you'll be in for a world of hurt my friend. the worst thing you can do at this point is to stick around. do you really wanna know if your gf is banging other dudes.

p.s. i don't mean to be a dick but is your gf the asian one with glasses in your pictures? if so, then i don't think you'll have much to worry about in terms of other guys banging her. oh god i'm going to hell for this one...

 

[Sensor]

Originally posted by: Sudheer Anne
cut your losses now or you'll be in for a world of hurt my friend. the worst thing you can do at this point is to stick around. do you really wanna know if your gf is banging other dudes.

p.s. i don't mean to be a dick but is your gf the asian one with glasses in your pictures? if so, then i don't think you'll have much to worry about in terms of other guys banging her. oh god i'm going to hell for this one...

Yea. Yea you and, uh, the 50-or-so other people are right. I just now yelled at her for no good reason and hung up the phone. And it's not because I'm mad at her or I want to manipulate her. It's because she says she wants a 'best friend', but she's really not that good a friend to me.

Hahahah, she's not asian with glasses. But now I'm curious as to where there's a horrendous asian girl in my photo album! *ponder*

Edit: wait. I'm asian, and I have glasses. If you mean me, then, uh... I'm both insulted by your comment and relieved that there will be no other guys banging me.

 

[Azurik]

Originally posted by: Sudheer Anne
cut your losses now or you'll be in for a world of hurt my friend. the worst thing you can do at this point is to stick around. do you really wanna know if your gf is banging other dudes.

p.s. i don't mean to be a dick but is your gf the asian one with glasses in your pictures? if so, then i don't think you'll have much to worry about in terms of other guys banging her. oh god i'm going to hell for this one...

No, she's the white girl... go look at his first post and her Match.com profile.

Sensor, sorry, we don't mean to be mean, we're just joking or being more realistic. In any sense, my gf wants a three-way with another girl and me, can I contact her? We're in NH

 

[0roo0roo]

you don't talk to your ex every day. thats wrong. either be with her or drop her.