...........my ex IMed me last night............. *UPDATE*

[lawaris]

DDCSpeed is right !!!! - some things are just part of nature.......and NEVER EVER change ..............

 

[Anghang]

after reading the dirt...i say drop her...she's done nothin but clown with you...

if anything, you should clown with her...she wants h/w's and help?...sure...so long as she swallows...

she's got no respect for you, why should you have any for her?

 

[GoodToGo]

IM means IT(Instant trouble). Run from her as far as possible!

 

[TheDebater]

yeah, being a nice guy sucks, RUN

 

[The Stigenator]

ok she imed me again.. and once again i wasnt around

this is what she wrote:

please email me ur email address if possible, my email is peachykiwi21@.com i would appreciate it. where the heck have u been, lol. loooooooooooong ass time no chat. btw lovely pic of ur GF hehehehe...

By GF she means a picture of Princess Fiona in my profile.

While there is no harm emailing her, but I dont think I should induge in it.. am i right?

 

[fr]

ABORT, (don't) RETRY, IGNORE, (because you will) FAIL.


Not that I have any experience with this.

 

[silverpig]

Ex-girlfriends = Casual sex

Trust me. They know what kind of a guy you are, there's not gonna be any surprises, you've (probably) seen each other naked, you know what she likes...

 

[The Stigenator]

*UPDATE*

She called me early this morning asking for help in her CS class.. I was groggy and said yes. Oh well .. so much for me keeping my word. Anyway she came over around 11AM we talked a bit and I helped her with her homework in that class. We talked a bit more, I ordered in some food we ate and watched some TV (American Pie - she hasnt seen it) while the program compiled.

Around 2:30 her mom called and she left.. I have the program finished I will give it to her later this evening. Apparently it wasnt compiling / opening in her machine. Oh well.. maybe she wanted to meet me god knows what.

When she walked in, I held her hand and pulled her in. I gave her a long hug (about a minute), kissed her on the cheeks. Over the course of the time she was here I was evaluating her.

She did say she has changed, and from what I saw she has. However it could be a ruse and I playing it careful. I am not getting my heart into it, but I will stay a friend if needed. Lets see if this lasts any more like this. She knows my stand of her lying and the past. She agreed to abide by it, lets see how long it lasts.

I forgot to take a picture of her, but I will do so later this eveinig when she comes by to pick up her book and program.

 

[guyver01]

sensors detect.... danger..... yellow... alert...... shields....

weapons... to standby......

prepare... for the worst...


ok enough of my Kirk imitation....
i dont like it.

 

[Scarpozzi]

Dude. Just watch out cause once a change takes place it's NEVER the same. I mean, once the wall is built (be it breaking up or taking time off), it's very difficult to tear it down unless it was something that never should have taken place. Having said that, my exgf was a cheater....and I knew that when we started seeing each other... Her own words to me, "Once a cheater, always a cheater."

Ya play with fire, ya get burned....unless you handle the fire with really good potholders. Keep your distance and take things SUPER slow.....and keep the lines of communication WIDE open from the start. Otherwise, move on and look to tag another piece of tail.

 

[crypticlogin]

Curious, but is there any correlation between her hanging on to you and how well she does in her CS? Did you ever -not- help with her CS and if so, what was her reaction then?

(I'm still thinking you should have nothing to do with her)

 

[The Stigenator]

<< Curious, but is there any correlation between her hanging on to you and how well she does in her CS? Did you ever -not- help with her CS and if so, what was her reaction then? (I'm still thinking you should have nothing to do with her) >>



YES.. she wont pass without me helping her.

She is changing majors from programming to hardware .. she cant program for nuts. I told her that a long time back, she didnt listen to me, atleast she realises it now.

 

[JMaster]

Enemy spotted.
TEAM FALL BACK!!

 

[HOWITIS]

shes leading you around like a hurt puppy dog. drop her like a bad habit.

i've seen this exact thing before, your setting yourself up for a fall

 

[UberNeuman]

Dude, strap in and return your tray to a locked and upright position - you're about to get f'ed over big time by an ex-girlfriend....

 

[skace]

Ok these threads just keep getting lamer and lamer. Can't you tell when your being played? From what you said, she was never even with you. Before she went into the army she had another BF. She IMs you about the lamest crap, such as how much she is getting torn into while your a little virgin. And the only time she wants to come over is when her CS project doesn't work. HELLO? why don't you just tie her fvckin shoes for her. I don't get people sometimes, continue fixing her CS projects while she continues screwing another guy, I guess you like being a tool.

I really can't believe how many threads on this forum have turned into threads about guys being used for years on end, then how much they still love the person who used them and are willing to forget everything they ever did to them.

 

[cressida]

<< Ok these threads just keep getting lamer and lamer. Can't you tell when your being played? From what you said, she was never even with you. Before she went into the army she had another BF. She IMs you about the lamest crap, such as how much she is getting torn into while your a little virgin. And the only time she wants to come over is when her CS project doesn't work. HELLO? why don't you just tie her fvckin shoes for her. I don't get people sometimes, continue fixing her CS projects while she continues screwing another guy, I guess you like being a tool.

I really can't believe how many threads on this forum have turned into threads about guys being used for years on end, then how much they still love the person who used them and are willing to forget everything they ever did to them. >>



yes ... many of these threads and many with obvious answers.....

 

[SCSIfreek]

FIRE IN THE HOLE!!!

Roger that!!!



Stay out man unless you're in for the play yourself


--SCSI

 

[rippy]

<< so in otherwords you were never really going out? >>


seems that way to me too

 

[brnbngls]

Ok, I guess I throw in my 2 pennies now. Girls are nuttin' but trouble. Kick her to the curb. You're only setting yourself up for a world of hurt. Here's a three step method I recommend:

1). Stop having her come over. Seeing her only makes you want her more.
2.) Stop doing her CS homework for her.
3.) "Find some woman, find some man....if even for a moment. Cause that's all life is....a series of moments." (Kudos to anyone who knows where that quote came from).

 

[SpecialEd]

<< Cant you see you are being played? >>




exactly!! She's playin you like a piano!! I'd get out as soon as you can. You don't need scum bags like that as friends.

this is too much fuss over a girl you haven't even kissed....

 

[Stark]

<< Enemy spotted.
TEAM FALL BACK!!

FIRE IN THE HOLE!!!

Roger that!!! >>



It's gonna blow!!

 

[OrByte]

Take the damn blinders off man!

If you don't then you become yet another statistic......another man played by a woman.

Come on man make us proud!! ditch the b!tch!!! IT's NOT TOO LATE!!

*edit sp

 

[OUdejavu]

coooooommmme ooooon MAN!! You are acting like a woman! Grab some sack and tell her how it is and quit letting her dictate the relationship. But i guess that will never happen bc now she doesn't respect you as a man. So what you need to do is keep doing her CS homework until you finally screw her and then don't answer her calls anymore. That will reverse the roles in a hurry

Or, just run away!

 

[crystal]

Man, what is wrong with you. She plays with your feeling to get her homeworks done...