you wanted dirt, here ya go.
I met anita in late 1999, sometime around October or so. We first started as friends and then fell for each other. Atleast I fell for her, I am not sure if she really fell for me. However we were friends and would meet up from time to time. Eventually those meetings ended with "I love you".. and all this time I hadnt kissed her. Then in May of 2000 she decided to join the US Army as a way to pay for school. I supported her as a (boy)friend and actually pushed her towards it. Knowing that if she got a taste of real life she would hopefully get an idea of what its like to be working hard. Plus she was enthusastic, she assured me its nothing like in the movies, and I took her word for it. She goes off to the army, and she would call me once a week. All this time we would always end the calls with 1,4,3. Then one time she wrote to me telling me to contact some guy that she called a "good friend". So I contact him and found out for her why he hadnt responded to his letters etc etc. He gave me an excuse and I forwarded it to her. However I kept in contact with her and realised that she was dating him about a month before she left for the army. I got mad but didnt let him know of it, and I confronted her about it, by this time she had stopped responding to my 1,4,3's and I started to panic regarding how far her relationship went. So I questioned teh guy and it seemed innocent enough, he is a year younger to her. Anyway I panicked and being the good guy that I am sent her a final letter with the words specifically asking to be "a couple". I guess that didnt go well, cause we talked for over an hour the day after thanksgiving last year. We talked and talked. I said to her I was ok with it and since I was going on vacation to India soon, I sort of felt better, since I could get a "rebound" person in India.
It was 2001 when I got back from India, I didnt have a rebound person, however one day I get an IM from her "now" bf's place and she taunts me about her becoming sexually active etc etc.. stuff that she never told me she was interested, things she just used to avoid.. she taunted me about my virginity and basically called me lots of things in Persian (lots of bad stuff that Liana had to translate for me later).
So with that the whole thing ended..in a bad term.
Couple of months later in 2001 she calls me to say hi.. and we talk for a few mintues. Some how she calls only (from the past) when she needs help with something. So I accidently said i would help her with Computer Science homework. This was May of this year, it was a year since i last saw her or so and I had her come over so I can tutor her. I did my job, gave her some of my programs so she could just change the name and she is ready to go. Then she decided to talk to me about her bf and the problems in their relationship, like he being a Type II psychotic etc etc. She also mentions that his parents dont like her for they believe the last time he went to the hospital was because of her .. some big story there. Anyway finally she calls him and talks to him. I leave them talking but I go to the other room, and I can hear her talking. He wants her over for a bootycalls, and she is on her period, (well she doesnt say period but she does make sure it was well known). Having heard some of it, I showed her some of the "IM Logs" from teh past, especially the one where she (using the other guys ID) taunted me over my virginity and fact that she just lost hers. Well I happened to ask her about it and she blatently said it wasnt her, even though teh writing style was hers.
Anyway she had to leave she said she had a job interview, but I think she left for that guys place. I gave her a hug, said "go me proud' and let her go. A few minteus later some one starts to IM me posing as "annabelle", so much for annabelle, I knew it was her Bf, she must have called him and told him from teh car about my confrontation with her. This user starts to telling me that I am to go out for dinner with annabelle, and she is some other chick (I have the logs somewhere). I told that other person that I know that so and so is "matt" (her bf).. he kept claiming so I said "fine have it your way, I am putting you in block".. and blocked him.
Later that evening she called me asking for her book, cause she left it there accidently (too bad for her she had to come by once more by my place). I gave her the book and told her that her Bf tried pretend that he was a girl called "annabelle".. Well she said how did I know, i said his profile had what he normally has in his profile. Same words, same IP too. Anyway a few days later he IMs me and asks me to join him for coffee, asking to be friends, I tell him to go fsck off. Told him I knew he was annabelle and I told him to stop bugging me. I put him on block after that. A couple of days later Anita calls me out of the blue and tells me "I broke up with matt and that is the truth".. this after I had a long IM chat with her regarding "US". Lot of it had to do with each others understanding of relationships, and I grilled her for about 3 hrs.
After the last time that she called I hadnt heard from her since, well not until yesterday.