My Fun Cancer Story!

Padinn

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I've been a long time reader of Anandtech but just started posting, so I thought I'd share a little about what's been going on with me over the past few years. Why? Because I'm hoping my story can help some people going through rough times. Remember no matter how bad things are, life is worth living!

I'm 22 years old. In my old life, I was an Eletrical Engineering student at the Rochester Institute of Technology. In addition, I was an Air Force ROTC cadet. I was well on my way to entering the Air Force as a LT this year in May 2007.

In February 2005 I began the first of a year of internship required for my degree. I also started dating a long time friend of mine I had met in ROTC, Emily. She was a year behind me but we had been friends for a long time.

In May 2005 I proposed to Emily and she said yes, I was thrilled. She returned home to Michigan a day after our engagement, planning to return in August. A week later I recieved a frantic phone call from Emily's mother. She had been rushed to the hospital and doctors suspected she had leukemia. I rushed to Michigan, arriving 2 days after the phone call. I basically hopped in my car and left, telling my boss I was leaving. Emily began chemotherapy the day after I arrived.

In August 2005 I turned 21 and moved to Michigan to be with Emily for the remainder of her treatment. Nothing is more painful then watching someone you love so dearly suffer. I had to be there though, for myself as much as for her. We grew even closer during her ordeal, so sometimes good things happen from the worst. She finished treatment in November 2005 and is still cancer free.

On our anniversary in February 2006 I became seriously ill with night sweats, fevers, chills, and a hacking cough. They suspected bronchitis and told me to wait it out. A week later doctors suspected pnemonia and did a chest X-ray. That's when they found the 8x6 inch blob in my chest. After undergoing a battery of tests I was diagnosed with Hodgkin's Lymphoma, stage IIB (bulky).

I underwent 6 cycles of ABVD chemotherapy, a cycle is 28 days and you recieve chemo on days 1 and day 15. I finished on August 18. On September 18th I began radiation therapy. I finished that 10 days ago. I am not yet sure if I'm cancer free, but things were looking very good in August and the radiation should have knocked the remainder out.

I wanted to share my story because it is my hope that it can inspire some people. Yes, I know it sounds like a bad movie script, but I assure you this entire ordeal has happened to me I am currently planning to attend SUNY Geneseo and obtain a degree in Psychology, and pursue a masters in Social Work, so that I can help young adult cancer patients like myself and Emily.

I learned a lot about life over the past couple years, and even on bad days where I could barely get out of bed, I have determined that our time on earth is precious, and you should do everything you can do enjoy each and every moment. The test that you fail today will mean nothing a year from now, but the words you forget to tell your significant other can haunt you for eternity.

 

Lonyo

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Damn that sucks (both getting cancer). At least it sounds like the worst is over and it all looks good.
 

Padinn

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Thank you for the kind words, I'm debating writing up a short story and sending it to the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society as well as the Lance Armstrong Foundation. I also like those Chicken Soup books, so maybe one of them too

 

jman19

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Congrats on completing your treatment :thumbsup: Your story is an inspirational one.
 

Perknose

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Spoken with the eloquence of one who has truly been there. :thumbsup:
 

msi1337

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best of luck in all that you do!

your story is amazing and I wish you all the best.
 
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Lola

Your story brings tears to my eyes. My mom was diagnosed with Lymphomia the exact same way you were.
I am so happy that you and your FI are doing well.
Welcome to AT
 

winr

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Great story, thanks for sharing and best wishes to you and yours...you also "Perknose' and "LolaWiz"




 

Goosemaster

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Regardless of what you think life has in store for you, it never ceases to surprise and amaze us.


What it seems to have taken in your case, it replaced with greater character; someone who truly understands compassion and love.


Anyone and everyone who truly attains happiness deserves a :beer: *




*so they get bumped down a notch and don't make the rest of normals out there feel too bad
 
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Lola

Originally posted by: winr
Great story, thanks for sharing and best wishes to you and yours...you also "Perknose' and "LolaWiz"




:heart:
well, i have a happy ending to mine... or i should say a new begining for my mom. She was diagnosed over 10 years ago. she went through hell and back but she is officially "cancer free" in remission (spelling?!).
It was a life changing experince for not only her, but for my brother and I as well.

Again, op, thank you for sharing.
 

Perknose

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Originally posted by: LolaWiz
through hell and back
HA! We're all making that same journey. Nobody gets a pass.

It's just a matter of how fast and how soon. :wine:

 

dangereuxjeux

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Congratulations, I know pretty much exactly how you feel. I won't bother everybody with my life story, but I was diagnosed with Hodgkin's when I was 20 after I found a mass above my collar bone. Ended up being Stage IIIA, with a rather large mediastinal mass, and I spent pretty much my entire juinor year of college undergoing ABVD and radiation. There is nothing better than the feeling you get when you are done with treatment, and you can move on to the rest of your life. I am an entirely different person than I was then, and it's almost all for the better. I've been in remission now for a little more than two years, and loving every minute.

If you want to get involved with LLS, I'd suggest it. I started triathlons when I was done with treatment (did the first one with Team in Training, the LLS group), and have since done quite a few.
 
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Lola

Originally posted by: Perknose
Originally posted by: LolaWiz
through hell and back
HA! We're all making that same journey. Nobody gets a pass.

It's just a matter of how fast and how soon. :wine:

You are very right. Although we may think of some things like cancer and sickness as "bad' they are simply another life experience... something that we should learn and grow from, and even if the situation is not ideal, we should be open to learning something new about life and ourselves.
 

newParadigm

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My mother passed away from liver cacner in may. I truly understand how difficult it is to watch a loved one live through that, I'm just glad you both seem to be out of the woods. To any other cancer patient: Never decline chemo therapy, if you are given the choice. Prevention is always better than treatment. Had my mother done chemo after her first bout with breast cancer she might still be here today, but as they say, hindsight is 20/20.
 

Coolone

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Now why cant we get this kind of quality newbie to the forums all the time??

Welcome
 

Padinn

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Oct 23, 2006
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Thank you again for all the kind words.
I think everyone has their challenges in life, they are just different in scope. I don't think one person's difficulties are harder or easier then the next, they are just different. We all have to deal with them sooner or later.

The quote in my sig was sent to me by a lady who started a prayer chain for me. Though I am not particularly religious, I do have a certain belief in destiny and fate. I wouldn't call it a miracle about the timing of Emily and myself getting engaged, but the strange coincidences make an interesting little story. I'll write about it sometime

Also, to my fellow Cancer Conquerors, check out Planetcancer.org

It's a fantastic organization for young adults, they basically believe humor is the best medicine.
 

CKent

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