My girl friends cheating on me with another woman...

[JulesMaximus]

Originally posted by: DragonMasterAlex

Originally posted by: JulesMaximus

Originally posted by: DragonMasterAlex
I'm very sorry to hear that. The loss of a beloved wife is a sad event; the loss of a beloved bisexual wife is a complete and utter travesty

Travesty:
1 : a burlesque translation or literary or artistic imitation usually grotesquely incongruous in style, treatment, or subject matter
2 : a debased, distorted, or grossly inferior imitation <a travesty of justice>

LOL, oops I meant TRAGEDY, obviously, LOL

Jason

NP

 

[cKGunslinger]

Originally posted by: DragonMasterAlex

Originally posted by: 91TTZ

Originally posted by: DragonMasterAlex

Yeah, several years ago. Wasn't so bad, really. A little awkward, I admit, but nothing a couple of good double tequila margaritas won't cure

Jason

I couldn't do that. I couldn't sit there and watch some other dude, with his hairy a$$, shaft my gf.

And then there's the issue of his hairy legs rubbing up against you.

YUCK.

No, no, no, see, what you do is YOU give him head while she masturbates. Jeez, man, pull it together!

Jason

:laugh::thumbsup:

 

[MrDudeMan]

Originally posted by: Safeway

Originally posted by: DragonMasterAlex

Originally posted by: Pepsei

so anyways im feeling a bit better, but i still cannot believe she would do something like this. I mean i would have never imagined this happening, so i am still a bit hesitant, and I sill love her, but I really do not know if i want to proceede. So i am having dinner with her tonight at this diner we like to go to to talk face to face as she put it...so we shall see, in the mean time I am going to keep myself busy with work...

yeah ask her if she wants to try it with a black, yellow, and brown man so that she'll get it out of her system. it might be her last time. oh oh , throw animal in there too.

what a sad excuse, if she wanted to experiment, she should've done it BEFORE she's in a relationship with you.

just think, if she catches you sucking some guy off in the bed room just because you were curious what it ts like, would she still take you back or join you?

Oh she should join in, absolutely. In fact, if *I'm* sucking *his* cock, she should DEFINITELY start sucking mine!

Jason

You like being explicit don't you?

he likes lying behind the anonymity of the internet

 

[23skidoo]

yikes! I can see I need to start hanging out some here instead of fs/ft all the time

er, dojobi if yer lookin for a replacement slave....

 

[DragonMasterAlex]

Originally posted by: Bigsm00th


You like being explicit don't you?

he likes lying behind the anonymity of the internet[/quote]

As a point of fact, I DO NOT LIE. As another point of fact, and this comes from a Systems Engineer for more than a decade, there is NO SUCH THING as anonymity on the Internet.

Jason

 

[cKGunslinger]

Originally posted by: Bigsm00th

he likes lying behind the anonymity of the internet

I trust DMA's comments 100x more than I do the OP's.

 

[aplefka]

Originally posted by: rpbri2886
True love is hard to find, sometimes you think you have true love and then you catch the early flight home from San Diego and a couple of nude people jump out of your bathroom blindfolded like a goddamn magic show ready to double team your girlfriend...

As bad as it is, that's the first thing I thought of too. Hahaha I love that movie.

Seriously OP, after reading the update, I still dunno what I'd do, that's pretty fvcked up man.

 

[91TTZ]

Originally posted by: DragonMasterAlex

Originally posted by: Bigsm00th


You like being explicit don't you?

he likes lying behind the anonymity of the internet

As a point of fact, I DO NOT LIE. As another point of fact, and this comes from a Systems Engineer for more than a decade, there is NO SUCH THING as anonymity on the Internet.

Jason[/quote]


I can't tell from your posts- are you straight or bi?

The reason I ask is because you said that you don't mind another dude being in bed with your gf and you, while I couldn't do that.

 

[DragonMasterAlex]

Originally posted by: 91TTZ

Originally posted by: DragonMasterAlex

Originally posted by: Bigsm00th


You like being explicit don't you?

he likes lying behind the anonymity of the internet

As a point of fact, I DO NOT LIE. As another point of fact, and this comes from a Systems Engineer for more than a decade, there is NO SUCH THING as anonymity on the Internet.

Jason

I can't tell from your posts- are you straight or bi?

The reason I ask is because you said that you don't mind another dude being in bed with your gf and you, while I couldn't do that.[/quote]

Well that's a question I flog and retreat from regularly. While I don't mind the fun bits, the idea of a guy doing any of that kissing/cuddling/stroking gently crap near/to/for me is just *disturbing.*

In short, I'd say my level of bisexuality increases in direct proportion to how long it's been since I got laid and how turned on my GF would be by it.

Jason

 

[phoang124]

Fellow engineer in the house! Gotta love an adventurous woman though.

 

[IHateMyJob2004]

Originally posted by: Son of a N00bBTW lol for all those who say i shoulda jumped in with them, that is just not me, i think atrue relationship can only be shared between 2 people

techinically, the relationship is stil lbetween you. The third person is just sex.

 

[Kadarin]

Originally posted by: Son of a N00b
EDIT: i just called her...she said that she was going to tell me that she slept with another woman after she got back....she is not a lesbian (or for at least what i know)
anyway she says she was curious becuase she had friends at work always talking about getting it on with another women(she works at a hair salon), and since she thought we were getting really serious it might be her last chance. She said she did not know how to tell me so she just tried it, she said she did not do much, and the woman was one of her firends that i might have seen before at a new years party that i guess is a lesbian...

anyways she said she did not like it, and that i mean a lot to her and she wished she was not so stupid to do it in the frist place...there is more but i do not feel like typing (cant beleiev i posted this in the first place, but i dont wanna be called syringer)

so anyways im feeling a bit better, but i still cannot believe she would do something like this. I mean i would have never imagined this happening, so i am still a bit hesitant, and I sill love her, but I really do not know if i want to proceede. So i am having dinner with her tonight at this diner we like to go to to talk face to face as she put it...so we shall see, in the mean time I am going to keep myself busy with work...

BTW lol for all those who say i shoulda jumped in with them, that is just not me, i think atrue relationship can only be shared between 2 people...but hey, i already turned in my mancard when i admitted i sort of liked the english patient...

also to the confusion about living together, yes we have our seperate places now, but in the future i would like to live with her a bit before asking her to marry me...I mean its only been 8 months or so, id at least wait a year and a half before rushing into something like that....

but i still cannot see how she can sleep with another woman once, i mean i though she was not that type, ive seen woman that have been. I wouldnt try it with a man because I was serious??

Assuming that this is not shens, there is still the issue that she felt the need to decieve you in the first place. If she wanted to experiment with this side of her sexuality, why not just ask you?

 

[tami]

sounds like that episode of the OC when seth's girlfriend alex had another girlfriend.

 

[CHfan4ever]

Is this thread a parody? :laugh:

 

[SmoochyTX]

Originally posted by: tami
sounds like that episode of the OC when seth's girlfriend alex had another girlfriend.

I was thinking the same thing while reading this thread! :thumbsup:

 

[mi xiao]

Originally posted by: Son of a N00b
EDIT: i just called her...she said that she was going to tell me that she slept with another woman after she got back....she is not a lesbian (or for at least what i know)
anyway she says she was curious becuase she had friends at work always talking about getting it on with another women(she works at a hair salon), and since she thought we were getting really serious it might be her last chance. She said she did not know how to tell me so she just tried it, she said she did not do much, and the woman was one of her firends that i might have seen before at a new years party that i guess is a lesbian...

anyways she said she did not like it, and that i mean a lot to her and she wished she was not so stupid to do it in the frist place...there is more but i do not feel like typing (cant beleiev i posted this in the first place, but i dont wanna be called syringer)

so anyways im feeling a bit better, but i still cannot believe she would do something like this. I mean i would have never imagined this happening, so i am still a bit hesitant, and I sill love her, but I really do not know if i want to proceede. So i am having dinner with her tonight at this diner we like to go to to talk face to face as she put it...so we shall see, in the mean time I am going to keep myself busy with work...

BTW lol for all those who say i shoulda jumped in with them, that is just not me, i think atrue relationship can only be shared between 2 people...but hey, i already turned in my mancard when i admitted i sort of liked the english patient...

also to the confusion about living together, yes we have our seperate places now, but in the future i would like to live with her a bit before asking her to marry me...I mean its only been 8 months or so, id at least wait a year and a half before rushing into something like that....

but i still cannot see how she can sleep with another woman once, i mean i though she was not that type, ive seen woman that have been. I wouldnt try it with a man because I was serious??

?A guy builds a thousand bridges and sucks one d1ck,? Vince says??to the world he?s not a bridge-builder, he?s a c0cksuck3r.? (Play It to the Bone )


hmm....get out. walk away.
think about it: she cheated on you.
there is such thing as keeping things fantasy and then there is such thing as making those things reality.

if she wanted to "try it before being serious with someone" she should have done it when she was single, not while she was in a relationship. that is just immature and disrespectful if only one party knows about it.

you may think that a relationship is only 2 people, but she, obviously does not.

i would be asking myself if there are other times when she was "just curious" about what it would be like to sleep with another man/woman while you were together.

do you really think you can trust her (am i being too negative???) from now on?

and yeah, sure she was going to "tell you asap"...as soon as you found out about it!!!

she said she did not like it?
i'm not even going to touch that.

 

[bob4432]

i did not read all the replies because i am just responding to the op - continue on the relationship and see how it goes.

i mean, i have been married for >8years and if my wife did it with some other girl, i really wouldn't care as long as the other woman was a decent person and not some nasty ass hoe. nor would i want to join in, just not my thing at this point in my life.

hell, even if she did it when we were dating or first got married i probably would not have cared about some other girl.

for the short term, like i said, see if you can get over it and see how you feel about it in 2 weeks.

 

[Last Rezort]

Originally posted by: Patt
If it isn't shens ... :beer: for you ... take 10 more and don't call her in the morning.

I cant tell............BAN THIS NOOB!

 

[summit]

better than the plumber dude so what she cheats on you once just forgive but dont let it happen again

 

[mi xiao]

once a cheater always a cheater.

 

[AccruedExpenditure]

Originally posted by: mi xiao
once a cheater always a cheater.

QFT

 

[Muadib]

Originally posted by: rudder

Originally posted by: DP
shens

a capital SHENS. Any normal man would have joined in.

That's not true at all. The exact same thing happened to a very close friend of mine, and it destroyed him for years. You people saying you should have joined in don't understand. He, (like my friend) thought she was the one. Would you say he should of joined in if it were me banging the crap out of her instead of another woman? IT"S THE SAME THING!!!! Female or male it's still the ultimate betrayal.

Good luck Son of a N00b. If this is real and you're not bsing us, I wish you well.

 

[DannyLove]

CVSiN: you didnt read what I said properly, I know it was a chick she was 'sleeping' with.
From his posts, it almost sounds like he's excusing it, of course, naturally, I would want to join in on such a threesome and turn the table on her, but thats just me personally

 

[Nitemare]

You lost your only chance that you will ever have for a threesome.

Congratulations

 

[mi xiao]

Originally posted by: Nitemare
You lost your only chance that you will ever have for a threesome.

Congratulations

QFAT!