My life is over

crab

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As a lot of you know, I broke my neck diving in 1999. I'm a C6 quadriplegic, and will always be. My bills went up to over a million dollars, all paid by my dads health insurance. I sued the homeowners insurance, which is why its there, for what the policy was worth; which was $300k minus lawyer fees. I receive about $1k/mo from it, and will for 70 or so years. It pays for the sh!t like co-pays and supplies so I can live. I also pay for my van so I can move forward in life. As soon as the mods are done, I'm going to college.

My father's health ins has switched companies within the last year. The old company had no problem with the settlement, and never asked for a dime (no, I don't have that in writing). Had I known, there would have been an agreement in the suit to pay them.

I got a new power wheelchair in August. Before the hospital (Shriners) ordered it, they filed for and received insurance approval for it. I have that chair now. Somewhere along the line, some idiot wrote in the orders that my injury was the result of an automobile accident. As a result, ins declines payment, and sends me a letter instructing me to contact my auto carrier for payment. WTF? We call to straighten it out, and the woman asks how it happened. She then asks if there was a settlement. Was there an arrangement to pay medical? No, I answer?there was never a reason to. I?m thinking I may have to eat the $22,000 bill for the chair. Don?t I wish.

I get a letter today requesting me to sign a paper agreeing to repay EVERY CENT THEY?VE EVER PAID. I need to sign it, have it notarized, and then put a bullet in my head I guess. That?s like $1.2mil. Hell, I can?t even pay $300k. I?ve been receiving it for three years, minus lawyer fees, and a down payment for this dump of a house in which I can't even fit into the bathroom without loads of help.

No job, one semester of one college class, no extra income. I?m royally screwed. I?ll be calling lawyers ASAP to sort my options; I sure hope there are a few. I wish it killed me, I seriously do right now. I?ve mentally handled my disability like nothing ever happened, ask anyone here that knows me?but whew?I dunno now. You?ve got to be a millionaire to get sick in this world.

Thanks for hearing my rant?AT kept me sane (believe it or not) in the past years. I was bedridden from June 2000 to April 2002 recovering from skin breakdown, and all I did was sit in my hospital room on my laptop pulling down AT at 20k, and it was good. So, thanks. I?ll post updates.

As for cliffs notes, I typed this on an on-screen keyboard with a trackball?That?s what you?re gettin
 

Lonyo

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<- a bit of a pathetic face, considering the situation :/
Hopefully something can happen. There's always something that can be done, unless humans really do suck.
 

Hammer

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the solution is more simple than you think. declare bankruptcy and fax them a signed notarized picture of your extended middle finger.
 

Crucial

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I don't even have words. Hang in there man.

edit: Not being funny or anything here. You should call Extreme Makeover: Home Edition or Renovate My Family.
 

Deeko

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Oh man dude. I don't even know what to say, that's awful. I hope everything works out for you....
 
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Hey man, hang in there. You sound like a smart dude. This stuff will all be okay in the end. Just be vigilant with the lawyers.


I have an uncle (a generation or so removed) in the same position as you because of a diving accident. I'f you'd like his email just pm me.

Take care.
 

UsandThem

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That sucks, but hang in there. Something good will come out of all this.
 
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im really at a loss of words for someone that can pull through like you have. good luck man and i wish the best to you

:heart: and God bless
 

Bumrush99

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My sister has a similiar injury and I can certainly understand your hardship. PM me and I'll see what I can do, she is in contact with a large group of advocates, perhaps she can put you in contact with someone that can help.
 

Crucial

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Originally posted by: NeuroSynapsis
holy shit. i had no idea. good luck to you.

I think you will hear this alot. Of all the posts I have read from ypu, you never mentioned your condition. This says alot about how you view what happened to you. You must be very strong. Keep it up.
 

Mandos

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Yeah dude bankruptsy if you can. Sorry sh!t had to happen, but you're hardcore yo. You'll keep it going, you know it. You arent weak, you've proven that.
 

bradruth

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If you can't get them to budge, take your story to the media...they can put some unwanted attention on that company.
 

Bumrush99

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Originally posted by: bradruth
If you can't get them to budge, take your story to the media...they can put some unwanted attention on that company.

Yeah, don't SIGN SHIT, tell those mot*erf*ck*rs in the insuance industry to piss off.
 

NightCrawler

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Micahel Moore is making Sicko { doc on home bad the health care industry is }, see if you can contact him.
 

Bumrush99

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Originally posted by: NightCrawler
Micahel Moore is making Sicko { doc on home bad the health care industry is }, see if you can contact him.

I hope nobody turns this thread in to a flameflest because you mentioned Michael Moore. Lets try to keep this thread ON TOPIC by helping Crab with his problems.
 
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you are a stronger man than i

i dont know about any of this stuff, but there are people out there that do and will help. just hang in there.
 
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