Originally posted by: Zim Hosein
Originally posted by: LS20
Originally posted by: caitlion
she asked my why i had cigarettes and i didnt really answer and she kept asking if i smoked. then shes like "do you want me to take them from you?" (wtf?!) and i was all "uhhh no why would i want you to take them?" and shes said "because you really really dont want them"...
but she smokes. how can you tell your kids to do something that you do ALL the time? isnt that just a little hypocritical?
you are either:
1. 12
2. attention whore
3. retarded
pick 2.
Decisions...decisions
Well, since she has already said in this thread that she's 17, all you would have to do is use process of elimination.
Ah, couldn't resist - the humorous response was just sitting there, waiting to be said.
Caitlion, regardless of how hypocritical you may think your mother is, and regardless how wrong you think her assessment of you and your "smoking relaxation" is, your mother loves you and is only providing advice. She's a parent - what loving parent wouldn't give their child advice? She knows smoking is bad for you AND her. She's not hypocritical - she's addicted. I'm sure that if she had the ability to turn back time and choose never to start smoking, she would do so in a heartbeat.
Plus, whoever is supplying you with cigs is breaking the law - for a few more months, anyway. But who cares about that, right? It's not your life if they go to jail.
When you're 18, light 'em up, if you must. Smoke yourself crosseyed. But, for now, I would suggest two things (and again, these are only suggestions - feel free to ignore them at your whim). One, please respect your mom's wishes, for now. You don't have to agree with her advice, but you should respect her enough to do what she asks while you're living in her house and still a minor. Two, please see your mom's actions for what they ARE and not for what they are NOT... your mom's not trying to blindly assert control of you or simply telling you what to do for no reason... your mom is simply trying to help... the best way she knows how.
Then again, if you won't listen to your mom, who loves you, why in the world would you listen to me?