Originally posted by: xmellyx
She has every right to tell you what to do; she is your mother and you are extremely underage. Whether or not you heed her advice is a different story. But don't act as though she is some evil monster; you make it seem as though she is some kind of freak.
Having said that, I do enjoy the occasional cigarrette and then won't touch them for months, even years. One of my sisters, however, is a regular smoker, has been for years and years. Nobody else in the family --extended included--smokes. My mom says stuff like, "I'll kill her myself" or "Doesn't she know what she's doing to herself?" etc etc. yet the funny thing is she has never said anything to her face because she knows the choice lies within my sister--plus she's not 17, she's a grown adult. You still seem younger than your 17 years.