Originally posted by: Perknose
Whatever you do, don't talk him to face-to-face or anything.
There is a ton of speculation from you about your neighbor's thoughts and motives in your post -- just like to point that out.
He may well be every bit as small-minded and unhappy as you think, but everyone has more than one side, and YOU, Mr. 12-Step Master of the Universe, have lately attained a level of wisdom and self-acceptance that should enable you to deal with him and blow sunshine his benighted way.
Most people, not surprisingly, respond to kindness with some measure of kindness in return, even if it takes them until the second or third try. :laugh:
Plus, and I'm just saying here:
Have you ever been wrong about a person?
I have.