It was AT members calling our own moderators fags and bastards, not some other forum.
I hope everyone will reconsider leaving, in my opinion you should stay here and make it work. There are a lot of good people here, and even with the occasional rift I think it's a worthwhile place to be.
Sometimes a person will have a bad day, when 2 or more ppl are having a bad day at the same time, unfortunate things can be said and crap happens, but try not to get caught up in it and make it part of your destiny too.