You're a jerk by adding your religious commentary into a thread that is about the OP looking for support, whether you construe that as emotional or spiritual.
Also, unless the doctors have advised it, sitting down and trying to force her to recall her life is a pretty bad idea. She'll feel pressured and cornered and helpless rather than loved and supported, not the impression you want to give her of these people she's been told are her family.
this.
prayers heal no one..don't be an idiot. his advice is better than yours.
welcome to the douche club