My world is caving in.....

[Vonkhan]

That sucks dude ... one of the worst feelings u can get - like that sinking / vacuum feeling where your heart is supposed to be.

It's not easy to get over emotions and relationships that have lasted for 3 years, but that's life ... sh!t happens & u gotta keep the big picture in mind. A lot of guys concentrate so much on their girl when they're in love that they neglect some of the other things in life that may be important to them. Find something that u really enjoyed doing in your life before u met that girl and get back into it. That & beer & a strip club usually works great.

Hey, if u're in the NYC area - hit me up ... :beer:s on me

 

[MadPeriot]

Originally posted by: Pepsei
just looked up tzu chi, wow, that's a hard core group dedicated to helping people... good for her i guess....

Yea, she introduced me to her world and I've been active since I was with her, but I never had the idealistic values that she had.

 

[MadPeriot]

Originally posted by: Vonkhan
That sucks dude ... one of the worst feelings u can get - like that sinking / vacuum feeling where your heart is supposed to be.

It's not easy to get over emotions and relationships that have lasted for 3 years, but that's life ... sh!t happens & u gotta keep the big picture in mind. A lot of guys concentrate so much on their girl when they're in love that they neglect some of the other things in life that may be important to them. Find something that u really enjoyed doing in your life before u met that girl and get back into it. That & beer & a strip club usually works great.

Hey, if u're in the NYC area - hit me up ... :beer:s on me

Thanks for the advice. I really need it.

 

[MadPeriot]

Pic of her available.

 

[Conky]

I guess she no love you long time.

You can have my gf if it will make you feel any better. :beer:

 

[eminemrh25]

Originally posted by: Geekish Thoughts
Two words.

Strip club.

Yeah right... the two words are
HOUSE PARTY!

Without your girlfriend there, invite as many friends, invite as many girls and get a new girlfriend... Move on with it.. Don't cry over 1 girl...

 

[ribbon13]

Ask your uncle about Roofinex

 

[her209]

That was selfish of her.

 

[shilala]

Originally posted by: MadPeriot
Just venting here...
My girlfriend for 3 years and I'm willing to spend the rest of my life with is deciding to leave me for better cause. Shes been gone overseas for a month now to Sri Lanka. Shes really involved in this budist relief org (Tzu Chi) with her parents and wants to follow this path. She found her calling I would say.
I just got a email from her staying she decided to move to Taiwan with her parents and help with the relief.
We just bought a house together 4 months ago and planning on marrying. Before she left we were so good, so perfect and happy. I'm willing to sell the house and move with her. But I'm not sure how she feels about that. I feel my world is caving in and I can't live without her.

** UPDATE **
I finally called her in Taiwan and surprisingly she picked up. I started telling her that I'm happy for her that she is following her heart and I wouldn't want it any other way. She thanked me for my support. Then I started to question where do we stand..and she said she needed my blessing to let her be and follow this path. I tried pleading with her that if she was to live a filfilling and rewarding life, please take me with you and end my unsatificatory peon lifestyle.
She then went on stating she needs to do this alone, she had devoted herself to learn and be humbled to this society. Having a relationship only gives her pressure and distraction. I then understood that this is the very reason I loved her...and I gave her my blessing and let her go.
I'm not sad that we're not together, but I'm sad that I will miss her deeply.

Christine

Now THAT'S a love story.
It stands as the most unselfish and caring thing I've ever witnessed here at TAOT.
I admire your actions and I'm sure things will work out.
Be patient, time takes time.

 

[imported_Phil]

You're a good guy.

Now think of the house and the amount of women you can get in there without any comeback.

 

[13Gigatons]

Originally posted by: Ausm
Try getting dumped after 15 years of marriage.




Ausm

That's called parole

 

[Muadib]

Dude, she dumped you by email!!! It may not look like it now, but she did you a huge favor.

 

[rh71]

It sounds harsh and I know she means everything to you but if that's really her mindset and is so willing to let you go after 3 years + committing to a house together... she really did do you a favor. Time... all it takes is time to heal... or find a fling in the meantime till you're ready for another relationship.

 

[edro]

Wow, she is beautiful... sorry dude.

 

[Pepsei]

wow, look at all the nice food places in that picture.

she's cute too for an asian.

 

[5150Joker]

Originally posted by: MadPeriot
Just venting here...
My girlfriend for 3 years and I'm willing to spend the rest of my life with is deciding to leave me for better cause. Shes been gone overseas for a month now to Sri Lanka. Shes really involved in this budist relief org (Tzu Chi) with her parents and wants to follow this path. She found her calling I would say.
I just got a email from her staying she decided to move to Taiwan with her parents and help with the relief.
We just bought a house together 4 months ago and planning on marrying. Before she left we were so good, so perfect and happy. I'm willing to sell the house and move with her. But I'm not sure how she feels about that. I feel my world is caving in and I can't live without her.

** UPDATE **
I finally called her in Taiwan and surprisingly she picked up. I started telling her that I'm happy for her that she is following her heart and I wouldn't want it any other way. She thanked me for my support. Then I started to question where do we stand..and she said she needed my blessing to let her be and follow this path. I tried pleading with her that if she was to live a filfilling and rewarding life, please take me with you and end my unsatificatory peon lifestyle.
She then went on stating she needs to do this alone, she had devoted herself to learn and be humbled to this society. Having a relationship only gives her pressure and distraction. I then understood that this is the very reason I loved her...and I gave her my blessing and let her go.
I'm not sad that we're not together, but I'm sad that I will miss her deeply.

Christine

She found a new man, the buddhist charity excuse is bullshit and the people that read your post and believe her excuse are obviously virgins. She'll be back in the USA in a few months with the new guy banging her every night. I know it sounds brutal but the truth usually is.

 

[Shadowknight]

1. Pic doesn't work
2. She was trying to let you down easy by lying. Even if she was moving to Taiwan for a "noble purpose", WTF does she get off not even considering letting you come with her, given the investment in your relationship (buying a house!).

You're better off without this one.

 

[fbrdphreak]

Originally posted by: AaronLien
:frown:




:beer:

 

[Conky]

I must be a pig... I keep thinking "I wish it was this easy to break with my current GF". :laugh:

I love her and all that shiznit but I know it won't work out long term and how do I say that? Love hurts is all...

 

[Mik3y]

maybe its a sign you should turn gay.

 

[Zysoclaplem]

#1. Stop talking to her now. It's only going to hurt more if you don't. Just no longer talk to her. If she calls, don't answer. And do not call her. Very important. Any feelings will begin to fade. I promise you this.

#2. Friends. Hang out with friends. They are going to be what gets you through it safely.

#3. Fun. You need fun. Go to parties, have some booze, do what you need to do to bring some fun into your life. Do things you could never do before.

When my ex and I broke up after 3 years, I did none of those things. And I regret it. I continued talking to him, I stayed home by myself all day every day, and I had 0 fun. I considered myself Us, not me. And I posted all about it on ATOT....lol.

*hugs*

 

[MustangSVT]

any chance that she is lying?

 

[Plasdom]

its a cult.

 

[MadPeriot]

Originally posted by: MustangSVT
any chance that she is lying?

Not a chance. I know her too well. But of course theres always that chance.

 

[CalvinHobbs]

Originally posted by: MadPeriot

Originally posted by: MustangSVT
any chance that she is lying?

Not a chance. I know her too well. But of course theres always that chance.

people married for a long time may confirm, you never know someone really well coz they will always do something that will surprise, something you'd never expect...just when you think you know them really well...well that's when they do something unimaginable...
move on man...things that are not meant to be just won't be...
Friends will be of real help right now...true friends and booze is not the solution...