Need girl advice... (Nother Update) Your advice sucks!

Cuda1447

Lifer
Jul 26, 2002
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Ok well Im going to tell you all a story, a very long one but bare (sp?) with me.


Last year I was a junior in highschool, and Im not stupid but Im lazy. So I was taking my Geometry math class, and there is this girl in there that I end up sitting behind, she's a freshman so you can imagine she's extremely smart. I sorta start to like this girl, and I try to flirt with her. Not much happens, she's pretty quiet most of the time, she's really into her studies. Eventually I got the guts to call her, I looked her phone number up in the phone book. So I call her and ask her if she wanted to go see a movie that night, she couldn't go, she had to do something with her parents. So I was like aight, and talked to her a bit more, just small talk. The next week I came to school and went to talk to her and she hates me all of a sudden, to make a long story short, she didn't talk to me the rest of the year. Unless it was something like "shut up or Ill hit you" And believe me, I tried everything!! EVERYTHING!!!


This year comes around, and she's not in any of my classes Im a senior now and she's a sophomore. I walked past her in the hallway one day and she comes up to me and says "Hey Chad I need to talk to you later" So I was like aight, this is good.... I think.
So I go up to her at the end of the day and ask her whats up, she says she didnt have time to talk and had to go. So I told her she knew where to find me when she was ready to talk. Friday that night she came up to me before my soccer practice and asked me if I was going to the football game/dance that night. I told her yah. So I got to the game and we talked, she flirted with me alot. We ended up going to the dance and we were talking a little bit, and we danced nearly all the slow songs together, and she even asked me to dance once or twice, instead of me asking her. So I got the guts up to ask her to homecoming. She told me that she didnt know, she had to ask her parents ask her parents if she could go with a senior (Age difference ) So eventually she asked her parents and they said it was up to her, and so she tells me she can. So as things are right now me and her are supposed to go to homecoming together, with some mutual friends.


Now the problem at hand, I BARELY EVER TALK TO HER. I go to talk to her and she just blows me off, or says she's busy. Or barely responds and acts like she doesn't want to talk. And every once in a while she will come up to me and talk, and act like she wants to talk. Which is good, but those times are few and far between, and I REALLY like this girl, what should I do?!?!?!? Oh, and she says she doesn't want to hang out - outside of school, Ive asked her.
 

Spooner

Lifer
Jan 16, 2000
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i think the official term for a girl like that is a big ol' "c0cktease"

BTW.... why did she hate you at first? you kind of yatta yatta yatta'ed your way through an important part
 

dabuddha

Lifer
Apr 10, 2000
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truthfully if she had done that to me in the first place, i wouldn't have given her a second chance.
no matter how cute or great a girl is, you have to preserve your own dignity. you deserve some respect at least
my $.02
 

BigJohnKC

Platinum Member
Aug 15, 2001
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It sounds like she just wanted to be seen with you, a senior, to increase her dateable status as a lowly sophomore. If you don't talk to her ever, and don't see her outside of school, then why even try? She seems to not want to be with you unless someone can see that you two are together, which makes me think she's trying to make someone else jealous. Blow her off sometimes, too, give her a taste of her own medicine. Then go find someone who shares your interests and likes to be with you no matter where you are.
 

SaintGRW

Golden Member
Oct 14, 2001
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i have a story that's kinda the same i was a senior she was a sophmore, she got a job where i worked, act's friendly sometimes, but you can like never get her to hang out after work/school cause she's involved with studies or family right? if it's the same i CAN'T FIGURE IT OUT! and this girl is absolutely gorgeous, i'd say hot if hot, but her personality she's just funny, into the same things, just makes her completely gorgeous but it doesn't seem like she has time outside of school/work to do anything and she rarely comes up to talk to me....
 

Kadarin

Lifer
Nov 23, 2001
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This girl is not worth your time. She doesn't sound genuinely interested in getting to know you, and doesn't seem to even really like you; as BigJohnKC says, she's just using you, likely to increase her own status in the eyes of her peers. There are plenty of other women out there..
 

edro

Lifer
Apr 5, 2002
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Dude, she is a 15 year old girl. Forget about her. They are wierd. You are going to college next year, it ALL changes then.
 

murphy55d

Lifer
Dec 26, 2000
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::waiting for imtim83 to post and say you dont need her because nobody needs a gf::

Seriously though, I agree with the others, doesn't sound like it's worthwhile to bother w/ her anymore. Find someone who wants to be around you as much as you around her.
 

DeafeningSilence

Golden Member
Jul 2, 2002
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In my experience...

Half the battle involves finding the qualities you want in a girl (attractive, friendly, intelligent, nerdy -- whatever floats your boat).

The other half is the way the girl treats you.

So, if you really like this girl, but she doesn't know how to respect you & your feelings, you've only got half of what you need.

On the other hand, if a girl gives you all the attention/affection you ever wanted, but is nasty (or stupid or smelly or slutty), then you're still only half-way there.

<-- (Still waiting to find both halves in one girl.)
 

Nitemare

Lifer
Feb 8, 2001
35,466
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A girl that does not like to talk???


I say marry her

<---zips on flameproof suit
 

BoberFett

Lifer
Oct 9, 1999
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Originally posted by: Cuda1447
Eventually I got the guts to call her, I looked her phone number up in the phone book.

Maybe she doesn't like being stalked.

Why on earth would you call a girl by looking her number up in the phone book without asking her?

 

Hammer

Lifer
Oct 19, 2001
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i thought that was wierd too...

Originally posted by: BoberFett
Originally posted by: Cuda1447
Eventually I got the guts to call her, I looked her phone number up in the phone book.

Maybe she doesn't like being stalked.

Why on earth would you call a girl by looking her number up in the phone book without asking her?

 

zippy

Diamond Member
Nov 10, 1999
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Originally posted by: BigJohnKC
It sounds like she just wanted to be seen with you, a senior, to increase her dateable status as a lowly sophomore. If you don't talk to her ever, and don't see her outside of school, then why even try? She seems to not want to be with you unless someone can see that you two are together, which makes me think she's trying to make someone else jealous. Blow her off sometimes, too, give her a taste of her own medicine. Then go find someone who shares your interests and likes to be with you no matter where you are.
Sounds like we have a winner.

Or she's insane beyond the insanity that seems inherent to all teenage girls.

One or the other.

Either way, drop her like a bad habit.
 

Orsorum

Lifer
Dec 26, 2001
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Originally posted by: zippy
Originally posted by: BigJohnKC
It sounds like she just wanted to be seen with you, a senior, to increase her dateable status as a lowly sophomore. If you don't talk to her ever, and don't see her outside of school, then why even try? She seems to not want to be with you unless someone can see that you two are together, which makes me think she's trying to make someone else jealous. Blow her off sometimes, too, give her a taste of her own medicine. Then go find someone who shares your interests and likes to be with you no matter where you are.
Sounds like we have a winner.

Or she's insane beyond the insanity that seems inherent to all teenage girls.

One or the other.

Either way, drop her like a bad habit.

Yes, the insanity is inherent. It's amusing, really, once you get past the fact that rarely are their actions meant to personally offend you.
 

heartsurgeon

Diamond Member
Aug 18, 2001
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what are you getting out of this situation? nothing but aggravation..move on
i would not be surprised if she decides later not to go to the prom with you...

or she might do what one of my friend's teenage daughter did - went to prom with some guy (he picks up the tab of course)
and then immediately the next day proclaims to her father (my friend) "thank goodness prom's over with, I won't have to talk to him anymore!"

appears to me that many teenage girls view going to prom as a must do event, and that the dressup/hair/dinner/social stuff is as important or more important to them than who they go with.

she just wants to go to the prom - don't read anything else into this (like she has any feelings for you)
 
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