Need girl advice... (Nother Update) Your advice sucks!

[etalns]

Originally posted by: ffmcobalt

Originally posted by: The_Dude8
the average relantionship in HS lasts 2 weeks.

btw, what is her name and races?

if stabbin won't works, shoot her. j/k

Get a grip on English before you try your hand at culture

Does her name or race really matter? And I wouldn't be so sure about that 2 weeks thing. 96% of statistics are made up on the spot.

nik

like that one...

 

[Dragnov]

Oh man, you are being used badly.

Ahhh, puppy love. Consider it a learning experience. In a short while you'll look back at it and think "Man, wtf was I thinking!" and then you say "I'm not going to be that stupid again" and then you "fall in love" again and repeat.

 

[Orsorum]

Originally posted by: Gr1mL0cK
Oh man, you are being used badly.

Ahhh, puppy love. Consider it a learning experience. In a short while you'll look back at it and think "Man, wtf was I thinking!" and then you say "I'm not going to be that stupid again" and then you "fall in love" again and repeat.

Haha, so true.

 

I've gotten the whole picture now: Cuda does not listen at all. Of all the approximately 100 posts in this thread, Cuda has only responded to those ones that spoke in his favour and saw him as the victim and truly seeking love from someone but never encouraged him to end it. Cuda loves the attention of being perceived as the victim, despite the fact that he's only infatuating.

Here's my next prediction: Cuda has experimented and noted that this lady responds to meanness. So, what's going to happen next in desperation? Cuda will get mean. And then the sophomoric lady will fall for it and try to cure his "meanness" problem. He'll have a relapse: mean and then sweet, mean and then sweet . . . confusing the freakin' hell out of her. Suddenly, Cuda will see himself on the receiving end. *Shock!* And then he'll be in college with a high school gf. Finally, he'll see a hot chick and treat the high school chick like crap so she'll be too miserable to carry it on. But she won't stop it, so he has to eventually. It's amazing what experiments are capable of. Desperation can really cause one to transgress.

A senior will now: Cuda, I leave you all of the possible realities in your wold until you catch up with those the universe has to offer.

Stick that fork 'cuz I'm done with caring to hear an update from you.

 

[ObiDon]

Originally posted by: bmacd

d00d...this girl is embarassed to be around you. Think of you as Steve Urkel and she as Laura Windslow . You're a dork...and she won't be caught dead with you.

-=bmacd=-

Steve Urkel got Myra Butros-Butros Munkhouse though and she was like 100 times better than Laura.

Seriously, observing the posts and updates you have made is like watching someone try to shove toast into a cdrom drive.

All you have to do is yank the tray out and then your toast will fit nicely in there. Give it a try!

 

[Pliablemoose]

Dude, you're her prom date of last resort, but conversely, she can be your date of last resort, get lookin for somebody that'll actually date you...

or, just stab her...

(I've got to admit the stab her thing makes me laugh, note to self, must get out more)

 

[tallest1]

After I moved to another city in Junior year, my two year crush from Freshman and Sophomore year called and asked me out to Homecoming. I thought that perhaps she finally realized how much I liked her (I asked her out twice in the past). Turns out that I was no more than a diver and the bill-payer. I was depressed for a while after that.

Girls find guys to go with because the guys will always buy their food and treat them well. fvsk her. You're a tool.

 

[Cuda1447]

Sh!t, you guys are partially right.

I don't think she's using me, shes not the type of girl to do that. My friends agree she does treat me like crap, but they dont know why. We all know she is a nice girl, but there is something more to her treating me badly then just not liking me. So thats not it even if thats what you guys think...


She may not like me totally and thats fine.

Im not in love with her, I saw a bunch of posts mentioning that, I simply said that I like her alot. And I do, but Im kinda getting passed that. I almost broke off the whole homecoming thing with her because it is looking like a bad idea, but I decided Ill go with her and see how it goes.


Oh and on the schedule change thingy, Im in one of her classes now, saw her for the first time in that class today. She was sitting near me for a second before the bell rang talking to a friend when I walked in. So I sat down and said nothing, and she (not surprisingly) said nothing to me.


Oh and she does want to talk to me outside of school, she just doesn't want to go out just me and her and do something. Thats ok though. We will wait until after homecoming and see how things go, but Im looking for other girls right now

 

[Ameesh]

this thread is teh keWL!

 

[TranceNation]

Originally posted by: Pliablemoose
Dude, you're her prom date of last resort, but conversely, she can be your date of last resort, get lookin for somebody that'll actually date you...

or, just stab her...

(I've got to admit the stab her thing makes me laugh, note to self, must get out more)

what do you mean by 'stab' her? do you mean like physically stabbing her with a knife?

 

[kumanchu]

Originally posted by: Cuda1447
Sh!t, you guys are partially right.

I don't think she's using me, shes not the type of girl to do that. My friends agree she does treat me like crap, but they dont know why. We all know she is a nice girl, but there is something more to her treating me badly then just not liking me. So thats not it even if thats what you guys think...


She may not like me totally and thats fine.

Im not in love with her, I saw a bunch of posts mentioning that, I simply said that I like her alot. And I do, but Im kinda getting passed that. I almost broke off the whole homecoming thing with her because it is looking like a bad idea, but I decided Ill go with her and see how it goes.


Oh and on the schedule change thingy, Im in one of her classes now, saw her for the first time in that class today. She was sitting near me for a second before the bell rang talking to a friend when I walked in. So I sat down and said nothing, and she (not surprisingly) said nothing to me.


Oh and she does want to talk to me outside of school, she just doesn't want to go out just me and her and do something. Thats ok though. We will wait until after homecoming and see how things go, but Im looking for other girls right now

#1 way to get with girls like that: treat them with indifference borderline badly. and occasionally throw them a bone.
why? because girls like that want 1 thing; what they don't have. they enjoy conquest; once she begins to think you are out of her reach she'll start running to try and getcha.

it takes a little practice to get this right and could very well blow up in your face if executed incorrectly; but if done right... the results are great. like booty calls when yur home from college

 

[hamburglar]

don't ask for advice if you think our advice sucks.

 

[Turbo55]

Originally posted by: Cuda1447
Ok Ill give you an idea of how she acted towards me today, and you guys will be able to tell what I mean.


Im standing at my locker before school and she walks up to me and starts talking to me about homecoming. She's being really friendly and stuff, she is telling me how she had a good idea about what we should do but it was expensive. We talked for about 5 minutes or so then she left. We also talked a little bit about the Alg. 2 test later today that we both had to take.


Later that day after we had both taken the Alg. 2 test I passed her in the hallway and Im like "hey, the test was easy in Alg. 2" She's like "what?" so I repeat myself and she just says "yah" and keeps walking...


She only seems really friendly to me when she comes up to me to talk, but when I go up to her to talk she is kind of cold.



Oh and to really put a twist on this story, my schedule will be changing monday and it just so happens that fate has put us in the same Alg. 2 class. I haven't told her yet though, she is totally going to think Im stalking her though, because she knows that I know what hour she has Alg. 2....

Your situation sounds very familiar. I onced like a girl like that too. It's like a lottery. One day she's all happy and sh*t and talks to you all cute and sweet; next day she's hating your guts.

One time she called me 9 times in the same hour and she sounded very happy and excited. Then when I called her back later, she yelled at me. Explain that.

I think this behavior happens particularly in younger girls. What happened with me was that I kept trying to understand her sparodic moods, and I was tormented around with my emotions. I'm going to give you the same advice all my friends gave me, "Move on, she's not worth your efforts and time. You'll find someone better." But I don't think you'll listen, 'cause I didn't.