Need Help on Love Problems

[shinzwei]

This girl that i love so much....is distancing herself from me.....i have tried so hard to get back and she says she loves me etc. etc. but wat can i possibly do to make her happy and get bak with me?!?!?! wat will make her think that i am the only guy for her....no matter how many nguys are out there.

well im 18 and she is 23.....ya i know big age difference but she made me feel different from the rest of my ex's.....she cared for me so much.....and i cared for her alot....but she says she needs security....i just got my job back and im only getting paid 300-350 a week working 4 days....she says she needs the security whcih i want to try and get for her.....im trying sooo hard but nothing seems to work....but i guess no matter wat i do it doesnt seem like its enough...i need a better job and a full time as well.....

 

[maziwanka]

sadly, posting this vague problem on ATOT will get you nowhere

just leave things alone. once you stop smothering her, it may work out for ya bud

 

[shinzwei]

i cant stop thinking of her tho no matter how many girls i talk to.....they just dont compare...

 

[cleanerupper]

Buy her a Mercedes? Start taking Enzyte?

 

[maddogchen]

dude give more details!

 

[The Batt?sai]

Originally posted by: maddogchen
dude give more details!

:thumbsup:

 

[shinzwei]

updates with alittle

 

[tweakmm]

It sounds like her biological clock is telling her to make some babies. That or she really doesn't like you but doesn't have the heart to say so.

Either way it doesn't seem like a good situation.

 

[tweakmm]

Originally posted by: shinzwei
i cant stop thinking of her tho no matter how many girls i talk to.....they just dont compare...

Neurochemistry is a bitch and a half.

 

[jongyoo]

if you're from the south, just get her pregnant, else, get together with your buddies and think of a get rich quick scheme. They'll eat it up, you're money that is

 

[screw3d]

Dude you are 18.. and

she made me feel different from the rest of my ex's

doesn't mean that she feels the same way

 

[PushHands]

You're 18. Much to learn about the ways of love and women. Best way to get her to think you are the only man for her? Become a person of value, character, and class.

When you achieve those things, you'll have little problem attracting quality women.

 

[6shiw1]

Go to college, as a start?

 

[y2kc]

give her what she's asking. move on, she's done with you. it's going to hurt a little but from the sounds of it you're not ready for a serious relationship anyhow.

where are the pics?

 

[acemcmac]

it's called a YAGT son, not "love problems"

 

[Zysoclaplem]

If she wanted you, she would be with you.
She says she cares, and I have no doubt she does, but not in that way anymore.
Don't try to shape her words to fit your needs.

 

[DAM]

Age difference is huge, how about you go to college and try to make some sort of future for yourself.


dam(d)

 

[FrustratedUser]

Originally posted by: shinzwei
This girl that i love so much....is distancing herself from me.....i have tried so hard to get back and she says she loves me etc. etc. but wat can i possibly do to make her happy and get bak with me?!?!?! wat will make her think that i am the only guy for her....no matter how many nguys are out there.

well im 18 and she is 23.....ya i know big age difference but she made me feel different from the rest of my ex's.....she cared for me so much.....and i cared for her alot....but she says she needs security....i just got my job back and im only getting paid 300-350 a week working 4 days....she says she needs the security whcih i want to try and get for her.....im trying sooo hard but nothing seems to work....but i guess no matter wat i do it doesnt seem like its enough...i need a better job and a full time as well.....

She just told you she's done with guys younger than her and are now looking for a 30+ guy with a real job.

 

[Suture]

You can't force someone to be with you.

 

[ViviTheMage]

if she cant see you trying, then its her loss man.

dont worry there are a lot of other girls for YOU.