JulesMaximus
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That's a tough one. My wife was adopted but I'm not sure how old she was when she found out. She loves her Mom and Dad very much though and has never expressed much interest in finding her birth parents.
I guess I would just sit her down and explain to her that her Mom gave birth to her before you met her Mom but that because you love her Mom and her so much you decided to adopt her to legally become her Father. I would stress the love part a lot and that this doesn't change anything about your relationship with her as her Father. Just that you thought she was old enough to know this since she will be starting school and people will probably ask why her Father doesn't look much like her.
Good luck!
I guess I would just sit her down and explain to her that her Mom gave birth to her before you met her Mom but that because you love her Mom and her so much you decided to adopt her to legally become her Father. I would stress the love part a lot and that this doesn't change anything about your relationship with her as her Father. Just that you thought she was old enough to know this since she will be starting school and people will probably ask why her Father doesn't look much like her.
Good luck!