Neighbor was showing liveleak videos to 6 year old daughter

[Throwmeabone]

I couldn't even watch those myself.. showing them to little kid is sick.

 

[Q]

Originally posted by: djheater
You weren't wrong. Those videos aren't meant for children.

Beheading videos? That is horrible, especially for children.

 

[jmmtn4aj]

Originally posted by: rivan
A) I think it's a pretty harsh thing to show a 6 year old, too.

B) You've got no right to tell him how to raise his kid.

Yeah. All those damned busybodies trying to tell this dad he can't have sex with his daughter, or that dad that he cant beat her with a hammer.

 

[daveymark]

Originally posted by: jmmtn4aj

Originally posted by: rivan
A) I think it's a pretty harsh thing to show a 6 year old, too.

B) You've got no right to tell him how to raise his kid.

Yeah. All those damned busybodies trying to tell this dad he can't have sex with his daughter, or that dad that he cant beat her with a hammer.

interesting point

 

[alien42]

you could have said something like...."i bet child services would love to know that you are forcing your 6 year old daughter to watch videos of human beheadings"

 

[jandrews]

idk, who knows maybe the fathers brother was killed by terrorists and he wanted his daughter to see what these people really did to americans, who knows. To the person who said it was abuse because the kid was crying, lmao then there must have been about 100 instances of child abuse at the grocery store I was at sunday idiot.

 

[OutHouse]

Originally posted by: Nikamichi

Originally posted by: jagec

Originally posted by: Nikamichi

Originally posted by: Chaotic42

Originally posted by: Nikamichi
You failed for not beating the shit out of him. If he displays that type of forceful behavior publicly, one could imagine what he does behind closed doors. She'll probably end up a victim of molestation.

It's amazing that you've spent 10 seconds reading a post about a third party and yet you've already pegged him as a probably child molester.

Doesn't seem amazing to me. It's just an opinion, nothing else.

But, I will take it as a compliment.

A compliment that you see everyone as a child molestor?

Or are you just projecting your own flaws on others?

One person's vile actions is indicative of everyone else? Sounds like you're making assumptions.

Why are you so defensive?

The answer is easy: You're a closet pedo.

i thinking that calling another ATOT member a pedo should get the attention of the mods.

 

[OutHouse]

Originally posted by: daveymark
thanks for the input everyone. there's more to the story now, I'll update when I get a chance.

well???

 

[vi edit]

I would have done the same exact thing as the OP. The OP has every right to voice his concern. The parent has every right to tell him to get bent. That's how opinions work.

Hopefully the parent reflects a bit on the situation after he cools down and practices a little more discretion in what he shows his children in the future....but I doubt it.

 

[Chryso]

Good work. Apparently somebody needs to tell him how to raise his kid.

 

[Xavier434]

I would have done what the OP did and walk out myself without having to be told to leave. Without trying to sound too egotistical, no matter of filth like that deserves my company. While I normally choose to mind my own business when it comes to others raising their children, everyone draws the line somewhere when it comes to keeping their mouth shut.

Not to mention that we are fighting this "war on terror" in hopes to either end terror or reduce it to a point where it can be safely ignored. Aren't we doing this so that we don't have to be exposed to it anymore in the future? Aren't we doing this so our children don't have to be exposed to it in their future? Aside from maybe learning about it in school and writing a history paper on it some day, I see no reason why any child should have to understand how terrible that part of this world can be to that detail. Hell, most adults do not enjoy watching those videos and some even disturbed by them. I'm no expert in law, but I would say that his actions are at least borderline emotional abuse since he is fully responsible for his child.

 

[RadiclDreamer]

Originally posted by: Toastedlightly
I personally think you were stepping out of line.

Nope, he was clearly standing up for what he believed in. Its not like he verbally berated the guy he just said he didnt think those were meant for kids.

 

[prism]

I support the OP 100%. I think the whole "it's my kid, I can raise him/her how I want" argument is ludicrous past a certain point. I'm willing to bet the majority of people on this thread who opposed you saying anything would have done otherwise if the father showed the daughter a sex video.

At the very least, you probably made him think about what you said and hopefully he'll consider that before he shows something else like that to his child again.

 

[Bryophyte]

Originally posted by: daveymark

Originally posted by: jmmtn4aj

Originally posted by: rivan
A) I think it's a pretty harsh thing to show a 6 year old, too.

B) You've got no right to tell him how to raise his kid.

Yeah. All those damned busybodies trying to tell this dad he can't have sex with his daughter, or that dad that he cant beat her with a hammer.

interesting point

Where's the update that you promised two days ago?

 

[daveymark]

Originally posted by: Bryophyte

Originally posted by: daveymark

Originally posted by: jmmtn4aj

Originally posted by: rivan
A) I think it's a pretty harsh thing to show a 6 year old, too.

B) You've got no right to tell him how to raise his kid.

Yeah. All those damned busybodies trying to tell this dad he can't have sex with his daughter, or that dad that he cant beat her with a hammer.

interesting point

Where's the update that you promised two days ago?

thanks, updated

 

[Inspector Jihad]

whats with all these pussies saying he was out of line. he said what he had to say and didn't expect anything from the dad, he just spoke his mind. he would be stepping out of line if he refused to leave the house or physically did something to the dad.

 

[lupohki]

America, F Yeah!

 

[daveymark]

Originally posted by: lupohki
America, F Yeah!

what does that mean

 

[alkemyst]

It's not a crime to show these kinds of things to any kid. Let the parent's do what they will to raise their kids.

If you do have a reservation, discuss it in private with them.

IMHO parent's that keep the real world from their kids are doing a big disservice to them. These same parents though have no problem sending their kids to school in a halter top, 6" heels and a "I WANNA FK U" ringtone on their phones though so YMMV.

 

[Ime]

The OP was perfectly within his rights to speak his mind.

The father was perfectly within his rights to ask the OP to leave his property.

That about sums it up, to me.

 

[nakedfrog]

Originally posted by: alkemyst
It's not a crime to show these kinds of things to any kid. Let the parent's do what they will to raise their kids.

If you do have a reservation, discuss it in private with them.

IMHO parent's that keep the real world from their kids are doing a big disservice to them. These same parents though have no problem sending their kids to school in a halter top, 6" heels and a "I WANNA FK U" ringtone on their phones though so YMMV.

So... not showing your children videos of people being executed is doing them a disservice?

 

[Pepsei]

so... where's the update? just that one extra line?

 

[yowolabi]

Maybe he didn't notice the 18+ only disclaimer. Maybe he never thought it could be harmful to his child. I don't see anything wrong with pointing it out in a non confrontational way.

For all the people that say it isn't any of his business, please explain if you believe it's never anyone's business what your neighbor is doing to his child, or if you simply don't think this is big enough to make it your business. Clearly we as a society have said that you can't do whatever you want to a child, simply because you contributed sperm or an egg. I think most sensible people would agree it's in everyone's best interest if parents can't starve children, lock them in the basement, or beat them up regularly.

I'm not saying that Child Services needed to be called, but I think this was an abusive action. Similar to if the OP had saw the father punch his daughter in the mouth once. I think that anybody who knows better can and should at least say, "I don't think that's a good idea." Maybe it won't help anything. Maybe if all of the father's associates speak up, and refuse to associate with him any longer, he'll get the message and cut down on the abuse. You need to make the attempt, regardless.

The fact that it's the guys house is 100% irrelevant. If you'd speak up about these actions somewhere else, there's no rational reason to not speak up just because it's his house. That line, "All it takes for evil to triumph is for good people to do nothing", is one of the truest things I've heard. All those people that believe the behavior is abhorrent, but wouldn't so much as say something..... you are the problem.

 

[MrPickins]

Originally posted by: alkemyst
It's not a crime to show these kinds of things to any kid. Let the parent's do what they will to raise their kids.

If you do have a reservation, discuss it in private with them.

IMHO parent's that keep the real world from their kids are doing a big disservice to them. These same parents though have no problem sending their kids to school in a halter top, 6" heels and a "I WANNA FK U" ringtone on their phones though so YMMV.

Why is it not a crime? Showing the kid a sex video if she asked about it would be.
But, this is America where sex is the taboo, and violence is perfectly acceptable.

My point is, both are psychologically damaging, who is to say which is worse?

 

[nakedfrog]

Originally posted by: MrPickins

Originally posted by: alkemyst
It's not a crime to show these kinds of things to any kid. Let the parent's do what they will to raise their kids.

If you do have a reservation, discuss it in private with them.

IMHO parent's that keep the real world from their kids are doing a big disservice to them. These same parents though have no problem sending their kids to school in a halter top, 6" heels and a "I WANNA FK U" ringtone on their phones though so YMMV.

Why is it not a crime? Showing the kid a sex video if she asked about it would be.
But, this is America where sex is the taboo, and violence is perfectly acceptable.

My point is, both are psychologically damaging, who is to say which is worse?

As a parent, I say this is worse.