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God Mode

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That's fine expect that a wolf and tiger are two completely different species. An asshole human is an asshole human no matter what ethnicity they are.

The ethnicity stuff is really beside the point and not important. The main problem is that asshole people were being disrespectful to the OP's wife and he's obviously not okay with that.

I'm very selective on who I call a human. I've seen more human behavior from animals than the degenerates of human society. Once a creature crosses over some boundaries, they lose the right to be called that species and instead becomes a monster.

It is disturbing that society concentrates on being politically correct and guilting potential victims from relaying pertinent and accurate information instead of investigating the claims and offender(s).

Unless we lived in a more homogenous society, describing the appearance of the accused which includes skin color is the logical way to pinpoint and triangulate justice. If not, we reach a boiling point where criminals run free and problems compound so much that no one will trust each other outside of their own group. Living in a multicultural city, I see more of this each day.

People are free to dress or express themselves as they see fit. People should also be free to judge and avoid cultures that tend to breed unwanted traits whether originating from black or white ethnicities.

Somewhere along the way, we started to equate avoidance and reluctance of things one might dislike as being evil racists. No one is entitled to a lawful persons blessing or audience unless earned, mutually agreed upon or given.
 

Miramonti

Lifer
Aug 26, 2000
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The only safe part in manhatten is on the other side of life. For the living, there should be absolutely no expectation of being safe while outdoors in manhatten at any time, night or day.
 

purbeast0

No Lifer
Sep 13, 2001
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My ex gf told me about this stuff. I wasn't aware how bad it was until she told me.

She also told me it can be worse in Europe. In Europe American women have a reputation of being sluts, so European men think they can get easy sex if they harass them.

She said once her aunt was standing on a balcony in Italy and a random guy walked up from behind her and put his cock in her hand. Not his crotch. His cock.

i lol'ed for real when i read this post.
 

dr150

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Sep 18, 2003
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Really? I'll try to confirm. If it's legal then I'm getting that bear spray someone else mentioned. I'm just afraid that, if she sprays them, they'll turn around and sue her for assault.

The great thing about Bear Spray is that it gives a WIDE radius (remember it's for large bears). You don't have to be accurate with it in comparison to weak/narrow radius pepper spray.

If you hunt and you've ever been in the vicinity of the cloud, it stops you cold. You won't die from it by any means, LOL, but an attacker will instantly be thinking about WTF is going on with my skin and breathing versus thinking about assaulting a woman. GUARANTEED.

Laws are weird and stupid. Pepper spray in some cities are either banned or have specific rules about size of canister. Bear Spray is almost always exempt from any legal issues and much more effective.

Even in extreme one-off situations where it's banned and the person is in court, the jury always sides with the victim. I'd rather have my GF/wife go through an easy case in court (if it ever got to that) than have my GF/wife raped!

People in CA use Bear Spray and has prevented rapes from occurring (and effectively stopping bears, of course), whereas pepper spray can just piss off a meathead instead of taking him out completely.
 
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sixone

Lifer
May 3, 2004
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8 blocks? Why not just take the car? it'll use less than 1 gallon per day?

Parking in Manhattan is crazy and/or expensive. If you leave your parking place, you won't easily find another one close by.

No one drives in Manhattan.
 

Dari

Lifer
Oct 25, 2002
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The bad thing about pepper spray is that you have to check the wind direction before you use it, or you'll end up with a face full of the stuff.

If you get that for her, she should get into the habit of paying attention to the wind direction while she's walking, instead of trying to make that judgment when she's under pressure.

You should also get her a camera, so she can record video of what's going on.

That may be a problem since she sometimes forgets which way north is. I've always told her to just kick a man in the nuts as hard as possible and run away ASAP.

The one good thing about the area is that it's crawling with police. But the bad thing is it's a party area during the weekend. One time on 8th Avenue my wife and I saw three guys peeing FACING 8th Avenue. Usually people find a wall to pee on away from the public but, there they were, peeing together facing the avenue. There was a fourth person, a woman, with them but she just looked on and waited. I assumed they were going to the train station from a night of clubbing.
 

Dari

Lifer
Oct 25, 2002
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The great thing about Bear Spray is that it gives a WIDE radius (remember it's for large bears). You don't have to be accurate with it in comparison to weak/narrow radius pepper spray.

If you hunt and you've ever been in the vicinity of the cloud, it stops you cold. You won't die from it by any means, LOL, but an attacker will instantly be thinking about WTF is going on with my skin and breathing versus thinking about assaulting a woman. GUARANTEED.

Laws are weird and stupid. Pepper spray in some cities are either banned or have specific rules about size of canister. Bear Spray is almost always exempt from any legal issues and much more effective.

Even in extreme one-off situations where it's banned and the person is in court, the jury always sides with the victim. I'd rather have my GF/wife go through an easy case in court (if it ever got to that) than have my GF/wife raped!

People in CA use Bear Spray and has prevented rapes from occurring (and effectively stopping bears, of course), whereas pepper spray can just piss off a meathead instead of taking him out completely.

Thanks.
 

dr150

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Sep 18, 2003
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That may be a problem since she sometimes forgets which way north is. I've always told her to just kick a man in the nuts as hard as possible and run away ASAP.

Nut shots are really difficult to do right. Too easy to block it and the nut has to hit spot on.

Coach her to CHOP at the throat as hard as she can.

Guaranteed the guy will be more immobilized than trying to get a good effective nut shot. It's one of the first things you learn in a self defense class.

One time, I lightly chopped my 6'5" meathead brother's throat. He thought he would have to go to the hospital, lol. That's how effective it is. :thumbsup:
 

Dari

Lifer
Oct 25, 2002
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Nut shots are really difficult to do right. Too easy to block it and the nut has to hit spot on.

Coach her to CHOP at the throat as hard as she can.

Guaranteed the guy will be more immobilized than trying to get a good effective nut shot. It's one of the first things you learn in a self defense class.

One time, I lightly chopped my 6'5" meathead brother's throat. He thought he would have to go to the hospital, lol. That's how effective it is. :thumbsup:

You're right but they can easily block that too. I mentioned that to her after seeing how these people stand when talking to women. They stand with their legs apart, sometimes holding their balls or scratching it or just fondling it. Either way, it's exposed (not literally but there's an opening). I figured a quick shot there and a quick getaway is safer than her going for a place that is easier for them to see and defend. This is all the more true if she's locked in their eyes to hers. If she could surprise them somehow it's be better but I don't think it'll be effective.
 

sixone

Lifer
May 3, 2004
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That may be a problem since she sometimes forgets which way north is. I've always told her to just kick a man in the nuts as hard as possible and run away ASAP.

The one good thing about the area is that it's crawling with police. But the bad thing is it's a party area during the weekend. One time on 8th Avenue my wife and I saw three guys peeing FACING 8th Avenue. Usually people find a wall to pee on away from the public but, there they were, peeing together facing the avenue. There was a fourth person, a woman, with them but she just looked on and waited. I assumed they were going to the train station from a night of clubbing.

She doesn't need to know which way north is. She just needs to be sure that if the wind is blowing on her face, not to shoot the stuff forwards, but instead to the side or behind.
 

Insomniator

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Oct 23, 2002
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My GF complains all the time about black guys hitting on her, loud, disrespectful and just ridiculous (like saying how big their dick is or touching her hair)

Yeah she says other people hit on her too, but they are mostly normal/polite about it.

This is also in manhattan. On her trips to Brooklyn, forget about it she couldn't get out of the cab and into the building without some black dude hollering like an idiot.

I don't know if black chicks are into or not, but these guys are making total fools of themselves and perpetuating any stereotype that exists about them.
 

Puddle Jumper

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Glock 26 \thread

Oh wait, Dear leader said that your wife is better off being a victim than having one of those. In that case move to America where we don't have these problems.
 

Svnla

Lifer
Nov 10, 2003
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I did visit NYC many times (most recently was last year) and went everywhere at all kind of hours, even at very late at night/early in the morning. From Wall Street/China Town area up to Central Park (Harlem and above have nothing for me to see/do). I did see a lot of nasty things and weirdos but things were not as bad as the OP said from my own experience. Maybe I did not go to the right or in this case the wrong places?
 
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BurnItDwn

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Oct 10, 1999
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Parking in Manhattan is crazy and/or expensive. If you leave your parking place, you won't easily find another one close by.

No one drives in Manhattan.

This Manhattan sounds like a very primitive place if there's not even places for people to park their cars. Maybe time to move to suburbs.
 

Apple Of Sodom

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Was his dick REALLY that big or was he exaggerating? Please don't leave us hanging. This is crucial to the story.
 

Dari

Lifer
Oct 25, 2002
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She doesn't need to know which way north is. She just needs to be sure that if the wind is blowing on her face, not to shoot the stuff forwards, but instead to the side or behind.

I'm going to check out that bear spray after work.
 

Dari

Lifer
Oct 25, 2002
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Stopped by the police precinct today after work. Pepper spray is good to go. Bear spray is good to go...
 

Takinato

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Being in a family where my mother in law was practically drug behind a store in broad day light, I don't let my wife really ever be in a situation like that. Inconvenience or not, u would rather her be safe well above anything else


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dr150

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Sep 18, 2003
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Stopped by the police precinct today after work. Pepper spray is good to go. Bear spray is good to go...

Glad you got the Bear Spray.

Just to reiterate, Pepper Spray radius is a joke. The size of container is a joke. The odds of getting it into an assailant's eyes are about as good as getting starburst nut shot....in other words, not very good.

Pepper Spray is also weak sauce. On many, it works too late or has little effect unless it's a direct hit onthe eyes. A meathead can still maul you with enough of his senses to prevent you to escape.

With pepper spray, this guy is still in control for worrisome amount of time.
http://youtu.be/xwbt9wvCuDw?t=3m10s

Bear Spray Radius:
http://youtu.be/U-n51xxF8K8?t=6s
http://youtu.be/TA_DXeWTOG8?t=6m1s
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C6uK4WZ0Z4k
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U_zq2rZRl3M

Pepper Spray Radius:
http://youtu.be/WQQhrOS-K_Q?t=1m37s

Bear Spray in Action:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jsgvUohhpqc
http://youtu.be/4gw78gLU6fQ?t=25s
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NDoxXmqFVrQ
http://youtu.be/kpIjtVDqiIg?t=54s
 

tcsenter

Lifer
Sep 7, 2001
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That was, what, a few days ago in 2013? Imagine what it was like for women in the 1960's and before, when a criminal complaint would have went something like....

"Detective, I'd like to file a complaint. This man groped and accosted me as I was walking down the side walk."

"Well pretty little lady, why don't you come over and sit down right here (patting his leg), tell me all about it."
 

StrangerGuy

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May 9, 2004
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I'm very selective on who I call a human. I've seen more human behavior from animals than the degenerates of human society. Once a creature crosses over some boundaries, they lose the right to be called that species and instead becomes a monster.

It is disturbing that society concentrates on being politically correct and guilting potential victims from relaying pertinent and accurate information instead of investigating the claims and offender(s).

Unless we lived in a more homogenous society, describing the appearance of the accused which includes skin color is the logical way to pinpoint and triangulate justice. If not, we reach a boiling point where criminals run free and problems compound so much that no one will trust each other outside of their own group. Living in a multicultural city, I see more of this each day.

People are free to dress or express themselves as they see fit. People should also be free to judge and avoid cultures that tend to breed unwanted traits whether originating from black or white ethnicities.

Somewhere along the way, we started to equate avoidance and reluctance of things one might dislike as being evil racists. No one is entitled to a lawful persons blessing or audience unless earned, mutually agreed upon or given.

Dunno wth happened here anyway but this is an excellent post nonetheless.
 
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