Stick with the Dell. That 2'' VIS is a LOT of real estate. Try out the Dell, if you don't like it send it back. I don't think you'll be disappointed though. I'm a hardcore gamer, and my 1900FP handles everything I throw at it. It might be that my eyes have adjusted, but I don't even notice the slight ghosting I saw when I first got it. Maybe the pixels need some time to burn in? I not only run games on it, but also DVDs, CATV, my XBox, and every type of video format on the PC. Its a simply wonderful monitor. My bro and bro-in-law kept marvelling at it on X-mas Eve. Played a bunch of games on it like BF1942, MW4: Mercs, JKII and all my XBox games and they didn't mention ghosting a single time.
Chiz
PS and definitely thank your wife....what a killer gift!!!!