Originally posted by: bapace
Originally posted by: Ryuson99
Actually it is the same as you would lie in a club or bar in order to bone the chick that you meet. It take time in order for you or her to find out if both of you belong together.
I said meet women, not lie and try to sleep with them. Maybe that is why you don't meet quality women, because you are talking them up to sleep with them. If it's going to happen, it's going to happen. I for one do not lie to women in the club, what is there to lie about? my age? I'm 23. My job? I have a good job with a great company, so no need to lie. It is MUCH harder to lie in person than online. Each girl I have dated can sense the slightest bit of a lie, so what is the point?
-bapace
I don't lie to a girl when I meet her. I was just stating what you said in your past post, ok maybe I strecthed it a little bit, but you saying that you would know their personality and such is rubish(saw my first top gear episode), Knowing who someone is takes time and effort. You can not know who somebody is by just one meeting, that is why I say talking to someone online you can gather more information than meeting someone in a bar or club; there is no need for an icebreaker really and if there is..., its more than always "ASL" as if when you meet someone in person you would think and wonder what your opening line would be.
As far as I know from your posts in this topic it would seem as you don't have a problem with communicating with the opposite sex but this is not the same for the rest of the community.
Edit: And who says that I can not meet a quality woman? see you are already assuming and you know what they say about assuming. I have no problems meeting a girl be it from online or from a club, Im just saying not everybody can talk to a person the way they can online and not everyone who talks to girls online can't get one in a club. Some people just have prefrences or do both. and the OP deciding to meet one is no problem if he asks for advise just answer. Him not knowing how she looks of course is going to put doubts in his mind, but him talking to someone online should not state that he is unable to chat, talk to someone in a club, bar, or any other place.