<< when i talk to her, it's like a waste of time she tells me i wanna break up with her because i found someone else or that i wanna break up because of her health but that not true, >>
I've been learing about this in phy. It's called projection (I think). When you project your own thoughts onto other people. "You wanna break up with me, don't you!" meaning "I wanna break up!" Might not be the case, just a heads up I guess...