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[antos351]

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[TripleJ]

Eek, nothing like a step-mother is there? Tricky situation mate. I wouldn't have a clue what to say. Good luck.

 

[Scrapster]

How old are you two?

Granted you both aren't 8 or 9 year olds, yeah, I think that's a little suspicious that she wants to spend so much time with her mom.

I say just talk to your g/f about it. Maybe she isn't telling you something. But make it a concern of yours and let her know it's affecting your relationship. If that fails, gotta move on.

 

[antos351]

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[fir3wir3]

I wish I knew what to tell you

but I'm in a similiar situation

well...kind of.. .beenw w/ same person for like 2.5 years now...and losing interest

and i dont have the SLIGHTEST IDEA how to tell her this

 

[antos351]

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[Scrapster]

Odds are that this relationship has ran its course. You guys have been together for almost 3 years. Which would make you 13 and her 16 years old when you first got together. Just chalk it up as a learning experience and move on. She's already trying to call your bluff. Go ahead and end it.

 

[antos351]

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[Bun]

<< when i talk to her, it's like a waste of time she tells me i wanna break up with her because i found someone else or that i wanna break up because of her health but that not true, >>



I've been learing about this in phy. It's called projection (I think). When you project your own thoughts onto other people. &quot;You wanna break up with me, don't you!&quot; meaning &quot;I wanna break up!&quot; Might not be the case, just a heads up I guess...

 

[antos351]

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[snakesnfrogs]

are you sure it's her mother and not some other guy? I hate to say it, but it's a possibility

 

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[Bun]

You alright brother?