You are understating the absurdity of liberal beliefs.
If you oppose redefining marriage to appease homosexuals you are a bigot.
Honestly, this is what I generally think -- but I am not accusing all pro-SSM people of feeling that people like us are bigots.
I will be fair - there have been a lot of hate crimes committed against homosexual persons in this country and that's a sad indictment on our "free" society. That's made it easy to paint the broad brush even over those well-meaning folks like myself that neither fear no see homosexual individuals as a threat to myself or civilization.
The stupid part about this is the "all or nothing" stance they seem to take (in other words, if you're not completely for me, you're completely against me).
You *can* oppose it, but the political arena is not the proper place for it because you're attempting to legislate and legalize discrimination. Now, my personal views haven't changed,... but they're "personal" and shouldn't be put into law. Some people personally feel gays should be killed, but that should NOT go into law.
The religious right have abused their freedom. If they were smart, they'd just talk to people about it outside the political arena and give them the Bible's view of it if they feel so compelled. Then people can either accept it or reject it without feeling forced. Win win for them and the Gay Community.