My point was that you can't make the blanket statement "mental health problems mean you can't (x)" Because mental health problems are so varied. I know a schizophrenic who would make a wonderful mother, and I'm sure she will one day, equally I know a schizophrenic who can't leave his house...
As an individual with a Bipolar sibling, I'll tell you right now that she's not capable of raising a child. Even she recognized this and gave her ex husband custody. She's not capable of taking care of herself.
That's tragic but it's good that she had the fortitude to see that in herself
If it makes you feel good to think that you're normal by all means continue to feel that way. I think it's important that you get through each day using whatever form of justification it takes.
I'm not normal, I don't think I am, but I don't think that anyone is normal, I'm no more or less normal than anyone else in the world, I have bipolar disorder, and yes it does mean that somethings in life are very difficult for me, it means I will struggle and be unable to cope with some things that I undertake, but it doesn't mean I am inherently incapable purely because of my diagnosis.
Just curious, what do you do for a living?
I'm currently a student and I work part time at a cinema, I was working at an ISP full time as a network admin until last year, when I decided I wanted to go to university for the second time.
I've been with my partner 9 years now, (10 years in October) and I know (as much as anyone can) that i'll make a good father, am I perfect? No, will I find some things more difficult as a parent than others would? Yes, but I'm not incapable purely because of my illness, it doesn't define me, and it's made me a stronger person.