Grats =). It sucks that you can go so long without getting stuff though.
And regarding the DPS queue times, sometimes it can really help to try to start a party finder group (relatively new feature). If you can fill out the group quickly, great!. Or if you can get the tank(s) and/or healer(s), it'll at least improve queue times drastically.
I still haven't done any turn 5 practicing yet, but I did finally beat Titan & Ifrit Extreme last week. On one hand, it's nice having somewhat challenging stuff to do. On the other hand, it can be such a pain in the butt to find groups to clear the content...much less doing it every week. It tends to breed a certain class of players that aren't pleasant to deal with. I must admit I'm growing tired of the fact that "harder" content is generally equated with simply more and more dodging/moving and precise positioning requirements. It's novel for a while, but it's starting to wear thin on me. For the record, I don't have a lot of MMO end-game experience...just a little from Dungeons & Dragons Online & (early on in) Age of Conan.