First update to the latest BIOS:
http://www.overclock.net/t/1510328/...upport-thread-north-america/990#post_22893334
Then leave everything at stock, use manual voltage control, change your CPU input voltage to 1.9, CPU voltage to 1.3v and set your CPU ratio to 45.
Try to boot into Windows, if successful run a system stability stress test like the one included in the latest Aida64 Extreme beta build. If you pass go back to BIOS and either start reducing CPU voltage and running the stress test until you fail the test in order to get your lowest voltage needed for 4.5ghz, or try raising the ratio to 46 and seeing if you still pass. If you fail at 1.3v and 4.5 then reduce the CPU ratio to 44 and try again. I would not go over 1.3V on the CPU with your cooling setup. Make sure you watch your CPU temperatures as well throughout all of this.
You can also try adjusting the CPU current and LLC settings under the Digi+ power settings in BIOS if you are having a hard time getting your overclock stable. A lot of people have found LLC to 6 or 7 and cpu current at 120% can help. This will raise temperatures but can help to get an unstable overclock stable.
Once you find a stable CPU clock you can try raising the Max cache ratio to something like 40, you'll also need to set the CPU cache voltage to near 1.2 to get that stable. This is only if you want to play with the cache speed, it doesn't make that much difference.
Once you've found your stable overclock and necessary voltages using manual control you can switch over to Offset or Adaptive voltage controls so your voltage and clocks will dial down when the system is under a light load or at idle. Adjust offsets as necessary to get the needed voltage you determined in manual mode delivered to your CPU when it's under loads. Make sure Speedstep is enabled and CPU C states are also enabled, you need at least C1 to be set to enabled for voltages and downclocking to work with adaptive and manual mode.
This is a good thread to read :
http://www.overclock.net/t/1510388/haswell-e-overclock-leaderboard-owners-club A lot of HW-E owners there overclocking the chips. And this PDF gives a little more detail on how to overclock on the platform in the context of what Asus saw binning a pile of 5960X chips :
https://docs.google.com/file/d/0Bz2VRRbLPrZnYmJVVHM2UGxVS00/edit?pli=1