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[DHT]Osiris

Lifer
Dec 15, 2015
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Now THAT made me laugh - imagining the voice in a very serious after-school-special tone.
In my head I was hearing Steve Butabi from Night at the Roxbury.

'And who do you think that guy was?'
'Albert Einstein'
'The smart physics guy! I swear to god!'
'We were like 'Albert!' WooooooO!'
 
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interchange

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Oct 10, 1999
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Disagree completely. At least being haphazardly passed around will teach a child to be self-reliant. Abuse is never positive, and never preferred.

I'd rather a child be raised by fucking wolves than be raised in an abusive household.

I didn't say it was ever good. Just said that there is worse out there for a lot of kids. Don't get me wrong: I am not advocating to keep kids in homes where there is evidence of active harm. We should do something about it. I'm merely pointing out that the best evidence shows that this accomplishes very little if anything. Here's a balanced study if interested: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2836492/
 

edcoolio

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In my head I was hearing Steve Butabi from Night at the Roxbury.

'And who do you think that guy was?'
'Albert Einstein'
'The smart physics guy! I swear to god!'
'We were like 'Albert!' WooooooO!'

Haha! I like that.
 

1sikbITCH

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Jan 3, 2001
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Just my humble opinion here--but I think any law specifically trying to enforce/protect a minor's right to identify with the gender of their choosing against their parents' wishes is a bad idea. There are some obvious situations where you would want to protect foster kids or prevent/reverse an adoption, but I think it's stupid to take kids away from birth parents except for cases of proven physical or emotional abuse--in which case there are existing laws to protect children.

Kids may already be aware of their identity/preferences pre-puberty, and it's great if parents can acknowledge that, but you still need to go through puberty and all the requisite physical, mental, and hormonal "growing up" before you decide you want to change.

Gay folks are born gay. They don't decide to change. Very 1980s statement there. Transgenders still have to pay for surgery and whatnot so it's not like a child is getting an addadicktome any time soon unless his folks pay for it. This is a non-issue much like gangs of transvestites hiding in toilets waiting for your children.

Ontario law evidently defines forcing a child to act like a certain gender against his/her/it's will as abuse.

I still cannot wrap my head around anyone except hardcore radicals opposing this. Since typical God-fearing conservatives view unborn fetuses as people with rights that cannot be compromised by the parents I have to ask at what point do you strip those rights from the child? Once you determine they might not be "normal"?
 

sdifox

No Lifer
Sep 30, 2005
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Gay folks are born. They don't decide to change. Very 1980s statement there. Transgenders still have to pay for surgery and whatnot so it's not like a child is getting an addadicktome any time soon unless his folks pay for it. This is a non-issue much like gangs of transvestites hiding in toilets waiting for your children.

Ontario law evidently defines forcing a child to act like a certain gender against his/her/it's will as abuse.

I still cannot wrap my head around anyone except hardcore radicals opposing this. Since typical God-fearing conservatives view unborn fetuses as people with rights that cannot be compromised by the parents I have to ask at what point do you strip those rights from the child? Once you determine they might not be "normal"?


Gender reassignment surgery is covered to a certain extent under Ontario Health Insurance Plan
 

pcgeek11

Lifer
Jun 12, 2005
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Here is the bill, recently passed:
http://www.ontla.on.ca/web/bills/bills_detail.do?locale=en&BillID=4479

It is in Ontario only, not all of Canada. Also it prevents stupid parents from ruining their children by attempting to make them straight. Aside from not being able to beat the gay out of your own children, here's another reason why conservatives are opposed:

Jack Fonseca, a political strategist for Campaign Life Coalition, criticized the new law: “With the passage of Bill 89, we’ve entered an era of totalitarian power by the state, such as never witnessed before in Canada’s history… Bill 89 is a grave threat to Christians and all people of faith who have children, or who hope to grow their family through adoption.”

Here we go with religion again. You would think that if an LGBT kid is available, and you're a bigot, you would just stick your nose in the air and refuse that kid. Evidently not. So in order to protect these children from being abused by those looking to "fix" them, they have to make stupid laws like this.

Good law.

Well is it Stupid or Good? I don't think it can be both.
 

Commodus

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Oct 9, 2004
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The fun thing about these posts: there's a certain impotence to them.

No matter how much the anti-transgender camp rails against this sort of thing, they know they've ultimately lost this fight. What, do you think we're going to make being transgender illegal? That everyone's just going to forget the past few decades and pretend that transgender people don't exist? Er, no. Even the Trumps and Pences of the world can't really turn the clock back that much, and their efforts will be erased the moment they're out of office.

You're just gonna have to accept that transgender people are here to stay, and that they deserve a baseline level of respect. That means not forcing a transgender kid to 'act straight' in the hopes that they'll magically agree with you one day.
 
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woolfe9998

Lifer
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lol @heatstreet, you really pick some winners
Heat Street
RIGHT BIAS

These media sources are moderately to strongly biased toward conservative causes through story selection and/or political affiliation. They may utilize strong loaded words (wording that attempts to influence an audience by using appeal to emotion or stereotypes), publish misleading reports and omit reporting of information that may damage conservative causes. Some sources in this category may be untrustworthy. See all Right Bias sources.

Factual Reporting: MIXED

Notes: Heat Street is a conservative opinion and commentary website. Launched in February 2016, the website is headed by British writer and former politician Louise Mensch. It is owned by News Corp under Dow Jones & Company. This source has a right wing bias through wording and story selection. Heat Street was also one of the sources Donald Trump quoted for his debunked claim that his phone was wiretapped by Obama.

Well, that's a bit ironic, since Mensch is arguably the person on the planet most convinced of Trump's criminality, and has a blog which has alleged many things that have never been verified and probably amount to conspiracy theories.

Still, my understanding is that heatstreet is a conservative site. Just saying that trotting out Mensh doesn't help the case much.
 

skull

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I love Canada .

Fact is kids know who they are since they are very young and it doesn't change. Beating and stuff just reinforces them to be who they are. Only the weak give in or kill themselves and that's a whole other issue.. Trans kids are far more vulnerable to bullying and assault than anyone else.. and I suspect the OP is just another bully looking to smack people down for his own worthless ego.

That explains me then. I've taken advice but no one has ever told me what to do, since I was a little brat getting spanked and a time out. My momma stopped that shit when I was about 12 turned around and smacked her with the spaghetti spoon that hurts more because it has holes in it.
 

xthetenth

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Kids may already be aware of their identity/preferences pre-puberty, and it's great if parents can acknowledge that, but you still need to go through puberty and all the requisite physical, mental, and hormonal "growing up" before you decide you want to change.

Transitioning goes much more smoothly if they don't undergo puberty first, and it can be delayed with relatively minimal effect while they figure out what's going on.
 

Blue_Max

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Transitioning goes much more smoothly if they don't undergo puberty first, and it can be delayed with relatively minimal effect while they figure out what's going on.

...maybe these kids shouldn't be coerced into transitioning in the first place?? You don't find it unusual that trans-trenders have only been a popular thing for 5-10 years? Their numbers have only recently EXPLODED from the tiny fraction it once was.

Yes, we all know gender dysmorphia has been around for ages, but this thing where it's now downright trendy is a recent phenomenon, and it's most definitely your progressive movement that's pushing it on two fronts: One; to be a white cis male is evil and disgusting, fie upon your white AND male privileges! Two; to be bisexual and trans is to regain "goodness", and to claim the desired victim-class status and be protected from the evil white cis males of patriarchal society.

Progressives are regressive.
And cancer.
 

Blue_Max

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Disagree completely. At least being haphazardly passed around will teach a child to be self-reliant. Abuse is never positive, and never preferred.

I'd rather a child be raised by fucking wolves than be raised in an abusive household.

...and you define "abusive" as a parent who doesn't want their kid to be brainwashed by the school into thinking s/he's the opposite gender? That it's better for the kid to have their sexual organs altered and reproductive system destroyed rather than provide counseling to guide someone with confusion or dysmorphia?
 

[DHT]Osiris

Lifer
Dec 15, 2015
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...and you define "abusive" as a parent who doesn't want their kid to be brainwashed by the school into thinking s/he's the opposite gender? That it's better for the kid to have their sexual organs altered and reproductive system destroyed rather than provide counseling to guide someone with confusion or dysmorphia?
No, I define abusive as abusive, as in physical, sexual, mental, or emotional abuse. I was responding directly to @interchange, not to the story. Try to follow a thread before you break out your sword.
 

Zorba

Lifer
Oct 22, 1999
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I'd like to see a study on how often young kids decide they want to be the other gender then switch back to decide how outraged I should be. I am sure there are different levels too, some kids just experimenting with the idea, while others are set in stone.
 

Atreus21

Lifer
Aug 21, 2007
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Can Canadian parents still disagree with their children's incorrect math answers?
 

Commodus

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Oct 9, 2004
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...maybe these kids shouldn't be coerced into transitioning in the first place?? You don't find it unusual that trans-trenders have only been a popular thing for 5-10 years? Their numbers have only recently EXPLODED from the tiny fraction it once was.

Yes, we all know gender dysmorphia has been around for ages, but this thing where it's now downright trendy is a recent phenomenon, and it's most definitely your progressive movement that's pushing it on two fronts: One; to be a white cis male is evil and disgusting, fie upon your white AND male privileges! Two; to be bisexual and trans is to regain "goodness", and to claim the desired victim-class status and be protected from the evil white cis males of patriarchal society.

Progressives are regressive.
And cancer.

Do you enjoy tilting at windmills, or do you do it because you feel it's the only thing left for you to do? All I see is a Don Quixote who's permanently lost the fight and wants to pretend his objections mean something.
 

pauldun170

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Sep 26, 2011
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wtf canada? this new law you just got shoved down your throats is so fucked up. what is the next thing that the totalitarian Canadian government will consider child abuse and pass a law to take your kids away?

https://heatst.com/culture-wars/can...if-parents-dont-accept-their-gender-identity/



and this too

wtf???

Thread title is misleading.
OP is mislead by bullshit website.


http://www.ontla.on.ca/web/bills/bills_detail.do?locale=en&BillID=4479
The stated purpose and scope is very clear.
It has NOTHING to do with how parents raise their children and everything to do how children are treated when under care of the state or under care of actors who fall under jurisdiction of the state.


Read it and you will understand why you should start consuming information from reputable sources.
http://www.ontla.on.ca/web/bills/bills_detail.do?locale=en&BillID=4479
 
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