Oh sweet god...

[TehMac]

Originally posted by: Sraaz
Yes, obviously I view women as inferior beasts :roll:

Good! I do too! w00t w00t!

*hopes there are no female mods on rags*

 

[BooGiMaN]

you kind of glossed over what he did to piss her off....maybe she was in her right to go to HR

so what did he do?

 

[MikeyIs4Dcats]

Originally posted by: slag

Originally posted by: waggy

Originally posted by: slag

Originally posted by: edro
Sexual Harassment FTL.

There's no sexual harassment if there is no sex....

Seriously though, this is totally not sexual harassment. This is just a vindicative bitch.

wrong. WRONG just plain wrong.

I'm not talking about what HR would say, I'm speaking from an objective viewpoint. Seriously, "sexual harassment" claims are rarely anything related to such. If this lady had a problem with this guy joking about this, then she should have pulled him aside and asked him to stop. The fact that she did not do this speaks volumes to how she felt about it.

I work in a corporate office and we don't get away with anything here, but I've been here long enough to know that this situation would be considered sexual harassment in my office, even if it isnt really. Sexual harassment claims, are, for the most part, crutches that people can use when they want to end someone's career. Its like a reverse get out of jail free card.

Harassment, maybe, sexual harassment, definitely not.

asking someone on a date....repeatedly....is sexual harrassment per the definition and could be basis for a case. Even if it was meant as a joke.

 

[Beev]

My only problem is that she never told him to cut it out. She didn't say anything to him about it. That very morning she was even talking to him normally, but then that afternoon, presumably after she turned him in, she clammed up and ignored him.

 

[Beev]

Originally posted by: BooGiMaN
you kind of glossed over what he did to piss her off....maybe she was in her right to go to HR

so what did he do?

Particularly different that day? Nothing.

 

[NuroMancer]

Originally posted by: MikeyIs4Dcats

Originally posted by: slag

Originally posted by: waggy

Originally posted by: slag

Originally posted by: edro
Sexual Harassment FTL.

There's no sexual harassment if there is no sex....

Seriously though, this is totally not sexual harassment. This is just a vindicative bitch.

wrong. WRONG just plain wrong.

I'm not talking about what HR would say, I'm speaking from an objective viewpoint. Seriously, "sexual harassment" claims are rarely anything related to such. If this lady had a problem with this guy joking about this, then she should have pulled him aside and asked him to stop. The fact that she did not do this speaks volumes to how she felt about it.

I work in a corporate office and we don't get away with anything here, but I've been here long enough to know that this situation would be considered sexual harassment in my office, even if it isnt really. Sexual harassment claims, are, for the most part, crutches that people can use when they want to end someone's career. Its like a reverse get out of jail free card.

Harassment, maybe, sexual harassment, definitely not.

asking someone on a date....repeatedly....is sexual harrassment per the definition and could be basis for a case. Even if it was meant as a joke.

I agree, because the person in question could feel that they have to go along with the joke because that is the office place culture.

I think when the details of how she chose to spend lots of time with him outside of the workplace come to light in a court, that it shouldn't be considered sexual harrasment.

 

[NuroMancer]

Originally posted by: Sraaz
My only problem is that she never told him to cut it out. She didn't say anything to him about it. That very morning she was even talking to him normally, but then that afternoon, presumably after she turned him in, she clammed up and ignored him.

It could even be that she over reacted to what he said, and now regrets reporting him.

 

[Beev]

Originally posted by: NuroMancer

Originally posted by: Sraaz
My only problem is that she never told him to cut it out. She didn't say anything to him about it. That very morning she was even talking to him normally, but then that afternoon, presumably after she turned him in, she clammed up and ignored him.

It could even be that she over reacted to what he said, and now regrets reporting him.

She should, but I'm not holding my breath. He was just so cheerful, he would have never meant anything demeaning or mean to someone. In all the time I've worked with him he's never been spiteful or hateful towards anyone here. I don't think this is going to court by any means, but I think his feelings are really, really hurt.

 

[Chryso]

Originally posted by: waggy

grabbing an ass, telling someone that if htey dont give you a handjob they get fired, remarking that a women has nice boobs, etc etc are all sexual hrassment.

What the hell does all this crap have to do with the situation at hand?
It sounds pretty clear to me that this woman is going out of her way to be a bitch just to make this guy miserable.

 

[waggy]

Originally posted by: Chryso

Originally posted by: waggy

grabbing an ass, telling someone that if they don't give you a hand job they get fired, remarking that a women has nice boobs, etc etc are all sexual harassment.

What the hell does all this crap have to do with the situation at hand?
It sounds pretty clear to me that this woman is going out of her way to be a bitch just to make this guy miserable.

did you read the thread and what my post is concerning? it sure in the hell looks like you didn't.

just because you are slow i will explain it.

slag (a poster on ATOT.) posted "There's no sexual harassment if there is no sex". meaning only way to have sexual harassment case is to have sex.

i responded with my reply. showing that you do not need to have sex to have a sexual harassment case.

if you need it dumbed down more then i can't help.

 

[Fritzo]

As always, we must look to Family Guy for guidance:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1WG0NE5irKw

 

[Canai]

Originally posted by: Sraaz

Originally posted by: KLin
Hopefully he learned a valuable life lesson here.

Never trust women?

qft

 

[Idontcare]

Originally posted by: Chryso

Originally posted by: waggy

grabbing an ass, telling someone that if htey dont give you a handjob they get fired, remarking that a women has nice boobs, etc etc are all sexual hrassment.

What the hell does all this crap have to do with the situation at hand?
It sounds pretty clear to me that this woman is going out of her way to be a bitch just to make this guy miserable.

Yes the OP did do a really good job spinning his version of his friend's version of the story so you'd interpret it that way. Didn't they. You believe a lot of stuff on the internet I bet.

 

[TheSlamma]

You can have EEO booklets mailed to your office for free. Sounds like you all need them.

 

[IHateMyJob2004]

*YAWN* hit on co-worker *YAWN*

Had it coming. If not at this job, his next.

 

[Beev]

Originally posted by: Idontcare
Yes the OP did do a really good job spinning his version of his friend's version of the story so you'd interpret it that way. Didn't they. You believe a lot of stuff on the internet I bet.

You can believe what you want, but he NEVER touched her, not even a handshake.


And some of you (like the poster above me) need to read the entire thread before replying, please.

 

[Ns1]

Originally posted by: Idontcare

Originally posted by: Chryso

Originally posted by: waggy

grabbing an ass, telling someone that if htey dont give you a handjob they get fired, remarking that a women has nice boobs, etc etc are all sexual hrassment.

What the hell does all this crap have to do with the situation at hand?
It sounds pretty clear to me that this woman is going out of her way to be a bitch just to make this guy miserable.

Yes the OP did do a really good job spinning his version of his friend's version of the story so you'd interpret it that way. Didn't they. You believe a lot of stuff on the internet I bet.

yes, and i'm sure you have the other person's story to prove that the op, is in fact, full of shit

:roll:

 

[Turin39789]

meh 1 sided story + naive atoters = fail

 

[EagleKeeper]

Originally posted by: waggy

Originally posted by: Kev

Originally posted by: MikeyIs4Dcats

Originally posted by: Sraaz
Also, he wasn't the only one that joked like that. Tons of people in the office occasionally make lewd jokes. And the F bomb is a commonly used word around here. Really, half the office could be written up.

3 words for you:

hostile.
work.
environment.

3 words for you:

Pussification.
Of.
America.

but managment has to do it. all it takes is one lawsuit from a women claiming hostile work envirment to ruin a company.

wich is why we should never alllowed women out of the kitchen!

Tell your wife that

 

[NuroMancer]

Originally posted by: Turin39789
meh 1 sided story + naive atoters = fail

Glad you felt you had to contribute without actually reading!

 

[Chryso]

Originally posted by: Idontcare

Originally posted by: Chryso

Originally posted by: waggy

grabbing an ass, telling someone that if htey dont give you a handjob they get fired, remarking that a women has nice boobs, etc etc are all sexual hrassment.

What the hell does all this crap have to do with the situation at hand?
It sounds pretty clear to me that this woman is going out of her way to be a bitch just to make this guy miserable.

Yes the OP did do a really good job spinning his version of his friend's version of the story so you'd interpret it that way. Didn't they. You believe a lot of stuff on the internet I bet.

Well, I would believe the story that you have made up in your head instead but I am wearing a tin foil hat that prevents your thought waves from entering my brain.

 

[waggy]

Originally posted by: Common Courtesy

Originally posted by: waggy

Originally posted by: Kev

Originally posted by: MikeyIs4Dcats

Originally posted by: Sraaz
Also, he wasn't the only one that joked like that. Tons of people in the office occasionally make lewd jokes. And the F bomb is a commonly used word around here. Really, half the office could be written up.

3 words for you:

hostile.
work.
environment.

3 words for you:

Pussification.
Of.
America.

but managment has to do it. all it takes is one lawsuit from a women claiming hostile work envirment to ruin a company.

wich is why we should never alllowed women out of the kitchen!

Tell your wife that

oh hell no.

I don't want to die today thank you!



not to mention my wife is a terrible cook! heh

 

[JRich]

Originally posted by: ballmode
F women in the workplace

That is against our policy here.

 

[NuroMancer]

Originally posted by: waggy

Originally posted by: Common Courtesy

Originally posted by: waggy

Originally posted by: Kev

Originally posted by: MikeyIs4Dcats

Originally posted by: Sraaz
Also, he wasn't the only one that joked like that. Tons of people in the office occasionally make lewd jokes. And the F bomb is a commonly used word around here. Really, half the office could be written up.

3 words for you:

hostile.
work.
environment.

3 words for you:

Pussification.
Of.
America.

but managment has to do it. all it takes is one lawsuit from a women claiming hostile work envirment to ruin a company.

wich is why we should never alllowed women out of the kitchen!

Tell your wife that

oh hell no.

I don't want to die today thank you!



not to mention my wife is a terrible cook! heh

Haha, waggy man, sometimes you really make me laugh!

 

[m1ldslide1]

Isn't it your responsibility to come forward with the true background information on what happened? It likely won't change anything, but at least managers would get an alternate view of the situation and it could help your buddy down the road.