I wasn't responding to you, I was responding more to the thread in general (and Bumrush in particular).
I wasn't responding to you, I was responding more to the thread in general (and Bumrush in particular).Originally posted by: SuperSix
I didn't say I cared what she did. I said *I* don't want to take a chance with my life because my SO decides she wants to fsck strange men for a living.
More power to her - she seems intelligent, sexy, independant, I was simply voicing my opinion.
Originally posted by: Ilmater
My real estate agent doesn't really care about me and neither does my financial planner, and they both want to keep in touch with me, invite me to company barbecues, and wouldn't be there if it weren't for the money. Does that mean I have bouts of bleak and painful insight when I realize they really just want to make money from me?Originally posted by: Geekbabe
I'm sure you're very pleasant and respectful of your clients . I'm just speaking about their underlying emotional landscape.Supression is a powerful mind tool but it must be bleak at the end of the day when you can no longer surpress the fact that the only reason your companion is with you is because of what you buy/do for them .People who are bright enough to earn the money it takes to pay for a high powered escort's services are usually also bright enough to at least occasionally have some flashes of insight that strips away any superfical illusions thay might be trying to hold onto . Those flashs of insight must be very bleak and painful .
Nope.
Originally posted by: Ilmater
My real estate agent doesn't really care about me and neither does my financial planner, and they both want to keep in touch with me, invite me to company barbecues, and wouldn't be there if it weren't for the money. Does that mean I have bouts of bleak and painful insight when I realize they really just want to make money from me?Originally posted by: Geekbabe
I'm sure you're very pleasant and respectful of your clients . I'm just speaking about their underlying emotional landscape.Supression is a powerful mind tool but it must be bleak at the end of the day when you can no longer surpress the fact that the only reason your companion is with you is because of what you buy/do for them .People who are bright enough to earn the money it takes to pay for a high powered escort's services are usually also bright enough to at least occasionally have some flashes of insight that strips away any superfical illusions thay might be trying to hold onto . Those flashs of insight must be very bleak and painful .
Nope.
They can. Ask some people that have had one-night-stands and they'll tell you that sometimes sex can be just sex for them without ruining sex with someone they're emotionally attached to.Originally posted by: Nik
Sex and real estate don't carry the same level of emotional involvement.Originally posted by: Ilmater
My real estate agent doesn't really care about me and neither does my financial planner, and they both want to keep in touch with me, invite me to company barbecues, and wouldn't be there if it weren't for the money. Does that mean I have bouts of bleak and painful insight when I realize they really just want to make money from me?
Nope.
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Do you expose your deepest held desires and fantasies to your real estate agent ? Do you tell them your darkest secrets ? do you get physically intimate with them ?
Originally posted by: Ilmater
They can. Ask some people that have had one-night-stands and they'll tell you that sometimes sex can be just sex for them without ruining sex with someone they're emotionally attached to.Originally posted by: Nik
Sex and real estate don't carry the same level of emotional involvement.Originally posted by: Ilmater
My real estate agent doesn't really care about me and neither does my financial planner, and they both want to keep in touch with me, invite me to company barbecues, and wouldn't be there if it weren't for the money. Does that mean I have bouts of bleak and painful insight when I realize they really just want to make money from me?
Nope.
Actually, I do get "intimate" with my financial planner. In order to assist me in the best way possible, he has to understand my hopes and dreams. I also used to have debt problems, and that was something that NOBODY knew about. It's hard to talk to someone about that, and while I was opening myself up, he was just looking at me as another client.Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Do you expose your deepest held desires and fantasies to your real estate agent ? Do you tell them your darkest secrets ? do you get physically intimate with them ?
Obviously some will view the exchange as very casual and not trouble themselves overly in anayalizing it but I'm betting there's a goodly percentage who's main social/ sexual interactions are with escorts and it's those of whom I'm speaking .
See my last post where I mention the bell curve. I - not being an expert in the field - would guess that this is how these men fall. A few outliers with most falling somewhere in the middle.Originally posted by: Nik
Originally posted by: Ilmater
They can. Ask some people that have had one-night-stands and they'll tell you that sometimes sex can be just sex for them without ruining sex with someone they're emotionally attached to.Originally posted by: Nik
Sex and real estate don't carry the same level of emotional involvement.Originally posted by: Ilmater
My real estate agent doesn't really care about me and neither does my financial planner, and they both want to keep in touch with me, invite me to company barbecues, and wouldn't be there if it weren't for the money. Does that mean I have bouts of bleak and painful insight when I realize they really just want to make money from me?
Nope.
Sometimes, sure. However the shere volume of "encounters" MUST present emotional envolvement a lot of the time. That's simply how humans are designed.
Originally posted by: Ilmater
Actually, I do get "intimate" with my financial planner. In order to assist me in the best way possible, he has to understand my hopes and dreams. I also used to have debt problems, and that was something that NOBODY knew about. It's hard to talk to someone about that, and while I was opening myself up, he was just looking at me as another client.Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Do you expose your deepest held desires and fantasies to your real estate agent ? Do you tell them your darkest secrets ? do you get physically intimate with them ?
Obviously some will view the exchange as very casual and not trouble themselves overly in anayalizing it but I'm betting there's a goodly percentage who's main social/ sexual interactions are with escorts and it's those of whom I'm speaking .
I'm not saying that this is on the same level as having sex with him (because first off, that would make my heterosexual life questionable at best), but again, I separate the times where I just have sex with someone for the sake of enjoyment and the times where I have sex with someone that I'm emotionally intimate with.
I'm not denying that some people will take the exchange as more than just casual, and in fact my earlier post flat-out states that I understand that some will view it this way and/or become dependant on that kind of relationship. But the question is whether or not Val should feel responsible for this. I don't believe she should, personally. I'd imagine that her experience is more of a bell curve. For every psychotically obsessed person she encounters, there's a perfectly normal gentleman that just enjoys her company, or a guy whose wife is dying that just needs a shoulder to cry on. Most people fall somewhere in-between and probably aren't any worse-off than they were before.
EDIT: Valkyrie, please tell me if I'm completely off in my assumptions. I'm curious to know what your experience tells you.
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: Ilmater
Actually, I do get "intimate" with my financial planner. In order to assist me in the best way possible, he has to understand my hopes and dreams. I also used to have debt problems, and that was something that NOBODY knew about. It's hard to talk to someone about that, and while I was opening myself up, he was just looking at me as another client.Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Do you expose your deepest held desires and fantasies to your real estate agent ? Do you tell them your darkest secrets ? do you get physically intimate with them ?
Obviously some will view the exchange as very casual and not trouble themselves overly in anayalizing it but I'm betting there's a goodly percentage who's main social/ sexual interactions are with escorts and it's those of whom I'm speaking .
I'm not saying that this is on the same level as having sex with him (because first off, that would make my heterosexual life questionable at best), but again, I separate the times where I just have sex with someone for the sake of enjoyment and the times where I have sex with someone that I'm emotionally intimate with.
I'm not denying that some people will take the exchange as more than just casual, and in fact my earlier post flat-out states that I understand that some will view it this way and/or become dependant on that kind of relationship. But the question is whether or not Val should feel responsible for this. I don't believe she should, personally. I'd imagine that her experience is more of a bell curve. For every psychotically obsessed person she encounters, there's a perfectly normal gentleman that just enjoys her company, or a guy whose wife is dying that just needs a shoulder to cry on. Most people fall somewhere in-between and probably aren't any worse-off than they were before.
EDIT: Valkyrie, please tell me if I'm completely off in my assumptions. I'm curious to know what your experience tells you.
lol, just had a visual of you showing your privates to your fiscal planner
I didn't say that Val should feel "responsible" for her clients emotional issues.. what I did say is that to enter into such a careeer she must at baseline really like men in general and have some degree of empathy for them, that's got to make it tough at times for Val.
"Listen, I have debt problems and... well... look at this. ZZZZZZZZZIP! What am I going to do with this????"Originally posted by: Geekbabe
lol, just had a visual of you showing your privates to your fiscal planner
I didn't say that Val should feel "responsible" for her clients emotional issues.. what I did say is that to enter into such a careeer she must at baseline really like men in general and have some degree of empathy for them, that's got to make it tough at times for Val.
Originally posted by: The Lord
Originally posted by: Nik
Originally posted by: ValkyrieofHouston
Originally posted by: Nik
Originally posted by: ValkyrieofHouston
Originally posted by: sonz70
Originally posted by: alien42
wow, atots very own old hooker
I'm not the only hooker anymore
LOL...!
Well aren't we two peas in a pod baby! GRIN
You DO understand what an emoticon is, don't you? The grinning emoticon is a colon followed by the letter "d" like so ": D" only without the space. <-- grinning emoticon.
If you really did come here to learn the "geekier side" of life, learn to use emoticons instead of that annoying GRIN everywhere.
Actually I'm having more fun spelling it out and pissing you off! GRIN
You're hardly pissing me off. You're annoying me. See, that's why I said "annoying." You're going to have to bump your 2nd grade reading level up, too. In any case, if you like annoying people, you're going to fit right in here.
STFU NIK, you should realize by now that nobody cares what a foul temeperd loser like you thinks
Can I get a free iPod at this site?Originally posted by: ValkyrieofHouston
You know there is a site that I would love everyone to see or at least get onto and read some of the posts. You might find it either interesting, disgusting, or just fun to read. If you are interested just pm me. It is one of the most amazing boards I have ever been on. The only thing is you can't flame people the way you do here, and you have to have some manners, however, you can talk about all the sex you want and not get into trouble.
Originally posted by: Pliablemoose
Originally posted by: Nik
Originally posted by: Pliablemoose
Originally posted by: Nik
So the difference between hookers and bar fly sluts is that hookers use rubbers and get paid?
Okay, got it. Wow, that makes a world of difference.
Nik, I guess the thing is, it would be nice if this thread didn't get turned into a flame fest, do you honestly think anyone reading your posts has any doubt about how you feel about hookers?
Ah, so I'm not allowed to talk about my opinion more than once? K. :roll:
Forgot your first post in this thread?
Originally posted by: Nik
So GRIN she's a GRIN prostitute BABY is she GRIN ?
No, why would I have forgotten it?
Dude, go back to sniffing girls you're afraid to talk to on the train.
Stop posting.Originally posted by: rbrandon
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Originally posted by: SuperSix
Originally posted by: Ilmater
You people are really amazing. So she shouldn't do it because she could be killed in her job? You can be killed working at a convenience store. You can be killed working in a bad part of any large city.
People, this is really simple. While YOU may place moral implications to sex, it doesn't HAVE to be that way for everyone. Also, many men benefit from her services, and not just in a sexual way.
There is only one moral issue (note that I didn't use the word "problem," but instead chose "issue") that is universal: some people link sex with real emotions. No matter your stance on this issue, this fact is undeniable. That means that SOME men will have emotional attachments to "escorts." Sometimes that means that the men will believe that she truly cares for them (whether that's partly true or not) and it could really help them to have that bond. Others can become dependant on that connection, and that's where the problems lie.
But I feel it is just as universal and undeniable that nobody can say for sure one way or the other on this issue (although religious ideals will cloud this).
OK, that's enough. This isn't P&N. Val, you look fine. I'm hoping that you weren't expecting a universally positive reaction here because that has NEVER happened.
because my SO decides she wants to fsck strange men for a living.
More power to her - she seems intelligent, sexy, independant.
Originally posted by: ValkyrieofHouston
These are decent pictures so don't get too excited. Here are the links.
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You originally asked for pictures of me in my previous threads so here they are.
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Originally posted by: electricJ
If Anandtech was full of guys older than 35 rather than 18-25, this thread would have really taken off.
Originally posted by: cKGunslinger
Can I get a free iPod at this site?Originally posted by: ValkyrieofHouston
You know there is a site that I would love everyone to see or at least get onto and read some of the posts. You might find it either interesting, disgusting, or just fun to read. If you are interested just pm me. It is one of the most amazing boards I have ever been on. The only thing is you can't flame people the way you do here, and you have to have some manners, however, you can talk about all the sex you want and not get into trouble.
Originally posted by: Ilmater
Stop posting.Originally posted by: rbrandon
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Originally posted by: ValkyrieofHouston
Originally posted by: cKGunslinger
Can I get a free iPod at this site?Originally posted by: ValkyrieofHouston
You know there is a site that I would love everyone to see or at least get onto and read some of the posts. You might find it either interesting, disgusting, or just fun to read. If you are interested just pm me. It is one of the most amazing boards I have ever been on. The only thing is you can't flame people the way you do here, and you have to have some manners, however, you can talk about all the sex you want and not get into trouble.
Well, you may make a few friends, they may educate you on some things, and you will have a chance to meet online some of the most high powered escorts, and gentleman in the world. They discuss all these issues that we are discussing now. It is highly informative. It's all about information, and understanding. I'm not selling or advocating anything here but merely suggesting that if you want to hear what others in this field have to say and the men who utilize these womens services have to say you may find it a real eye opener. You'll get some laughs out of it too. The best thing to do is just register and lurk about. I wouldn't post anything until you understand the politics of the board.
Originally posted by: aplefka
Originally posted by: hjo3
I don't recall ever wanting to know what you look like. Heck, I didn't even know you were here. But congrats on the attention-whoring anyway. :beer:
Originally posted by: djheater
Originally posted by: aplefka
Originally posted by: hjo3
I don't recall ever wanting to know what you look like. Heck, I didn't even know you were here. But congrats on the attention-whoring anyway. :beer:
:thumbsup:
And the same applies to Nik, mouthing off in an inflammatory and derogatory way... again...